10 Signs a Virgo Man Cares About You

His attraction style is unique. Once you understand his personality, you’ll recognize the obvious signs a Virgo man likes you. It’s only obvious he’s falling in love with you, if you know what to look for.

A Virgo man is cautious. He doesn’t show emotion and can be hard to read. He rationalizes his feelings. You need to know the physical signs a Virgo man likes you.

He suppresses his passions in favor of rationality and order. Yet he’s also one of the most considerate signs. Once you understand his personality, you’ll know how to tell if a Virgo man is interested in you.

1. He Puts You into His Schedule Consistently

If he’s really into you, you assume he’ll want to see you as often as possible, right? Not if he’s a Virgo man. A Virgo man will schedule you into his routines. He’s a creature of habit.

The key is consistency. If he sees you only once each week, but treats this routine like a recurring appointment, it means he’s attracted to you. One of the obvious signs he’s falling in love with you is if he changes routines to fit you in.

A Virgo man is married to his routines. When he adapts his schedule to see you, it’s a sign of serious interest. He may not text a lot, but he’ll text you regularly. When he’s interested in you, he accommodates you.

But only to a point. He’s still most secure when he has his routines are consistent. It’s a far better sign to see him on a regular basis even if it is for a shorter period of time.

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2. He Goes Out of His Way to Help You

He loves to serve others. His style of showing love is physical, through considerate acts of service. A Virgo man doesn’t like to stray from his routines, but if he cares about you he’ll go the extra mile to help you.

He loves feeling useful. Helping you solve problems shows you’re important to him. He’s doesn’t do this for just anyone. When he likes you, he’ll make your life easier. He’ll do things for you without being asked.

Virgo men are efficient. They don’t spend time and energy on people they don’t care deeply about.

Mention you want to learn to bake, he’ll show up with a dozen cookbooks he ‘just happened to find.’ Tell him you love mystery novels, he’ll send you a ranked list his favorite titles.

3. He Criticizes You, But That’s His Way of Showing Love

This trait is the most perplexing. A Virgo man is analytical and observant. When he likes you, he’ll point things out that you may wish he didn’t. He’s honest and thinks he’s being helpful. It’s his way of showing concern.

What you hear as criticism, he intends as teaching you something important that he believes will help you to be more successful. A Virgo man is a perfectionist and he expects everyone to share his same high standards.

Don’t take his direct nature as an insult. He won’t waste time sharing his suggestion if he doesn’t like you. When he has a crush on you, he’ll try to help you improve your life. This includes giving unsolicited advice.

He’s not trying to be mean. When he points out that you have a stain on your shirt, he’s not trying to embarrass you. He wants you to know so you can make the choice to change your shirt before going to an important meeting.

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4. He is Direct and Honest about His Thoughts and Plans

He believes in complete honesty. When he’s falling in love, he’ll tell you his thoughts about every subject. He’ll also share his plans and ideas with you. Sometimes in great detail. He’ll talk about mundane aspects of his day as a way of bonding.

Will a Virgo man test you? You may wonder when he sends mixed signals. He has the intelligence to test you, but he doesn’t have the artifice. A Virgo man is thoughtful but also detached. It isn’t a test it’s just his personality.

Will a Virgo man lead you on? Never. He’ll tell it like it is if he likes you because he doesn’t have the time or energy for duplicity. If he pays special attention to you and tells you about his plans, he’s serious.

When he gives you compliments, you know he means it. He’s not into false flattery. A Virgo man sees no need to bend the truth in order to impress you.

5. He Shows Up on Time and With a Toolbox

A Virgo man will treat every plan like a serious commitment if he likes you. He will never keep you waiting. Though he’s not emotionally open, he’s still predictable. When he likes you, he’ll show you by being dependable and reliable.

You can set your watch by a Virgo man in love. Not only does he always show up on time, he’s always prepared to fix things for you. He’s practical and will fix physical things to show you he cares.

He points out everything that could go wrong. This is a sign that he’s concerned about your safety or health. He’s not cynical. He just wants the best for you and is aware of what may interfere with your goals.

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6. He Asks You What You Need, Not How You’re Feeling

Women often say Virgo men are bad communicators. This isn’t true. He’s a clear and direct communicator. He just talks about things that aren’t sentimental.

He asks if you need help with yardwork. He asks if you need anything from the store while he’s out. He checks in to ask what you need him to do for you, but not to ask how your day was.

This is a good sign. It may sound strange, but a Virgo man just doesn’t think to inquire about how your day went or what you are feeling. Why would he? These are abstract things that he can do nothing about.

He focuses on what he can do to make your life better. He wants to be useful and productive. If he can’t fix, change or improve something, it goes off his radar.

He shows emotion when he’s comfortable, but only in small doses. When he’s in love he prefers to show how he feels through his actions, not words. He cares about your security and will show love by helping you avoid problems.

7. He is Quiet Periodically Because He’s Analyzing His Feelings

A Virgo man is used to operating from his intellect alone. Usually this isn’t a problem. But when he’s falling in love with you, he suddenly has to contend with emotions. This is hard for him, smart as he is.

If everything is going well and then he goes quiet, this is a sign he’s taking time to sort out his feelings. He’s also considering how the relationship would fit into his life, if it gets serious.

You’ll also know he’s getting more attached when he starts to talk about his doubts. A Virgo man focuses on all the things that may go wrong on the way to what could go right.

Weighing pros and cons is his way of being realistic and analyzing the situation because he’s trying to calculate the risk he’s about to take. This is a good sign because he’s willing to take a risk to begin with.

When a Virgo man says ‘I love you’ it is likely after he has felt this way for some time. He’s already been showing his feelings long before saying the words you’ve wanted to hear.

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8. He Gives You Advice Even if You Don’t Need It

He’ll recommend the best new car, even when you’re not looking for one. When he likes you, a Virgo man will try to help you upgrade your all areas of life. Especially when safety is concerned.

He’ll show you research about the best vitamins. He’ll suggest ways to improve your career. He’ll try to help you eat healthier. He wants you to live a long, safe happy life. He cares about you or he wouldn’t bother.

9. He Notices the Details Even Your Best Friends Overlook

He may not pick up on your emotional cues, but he notices every physical detail of your life. From a blister on your thumb from gardening to a new haircut, he is taking in every detail. He’s observant and analytical.

When a Virgo man stares at you, it’s a check of your health. He’s gauging if you look pale, tired or stressed out. He’s evaluating you because he cares.

He notices when your car needs an oil change. He notices your favorite flavor coffee. He’s got a mind like an encyclopedia. When he likes you, he’ll keep a mental file of every observation he’s ever made about you.

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10. He Offers to Fix Your Car (Or House, or Computer)

To a Virgo man, improving your home is a display of love. Eye contact isn’t. When he’s attracted to you, he volunteers to repair things.

He updates your computer’s software. He offers to winterize your home and makes sure you’re safe and secure. He does this because deep inside, he worries about your well-being and safety.