If you’re dating or interested in him, you probably want to know the best way to kiss a Virgo man.
Because personality can affect kissing technique, different zodiac signs have different kissing styles.
Dating a Virgo man is difficult at times because they are so reserved it can be hard to tell what they want.
Once you are more familiar with the typical Virgo man traits, you will have a better idea of how to kiss him and make him fall in love with you.
1. Build the Anticipation
A Virgo man needs a long time to get to know you before he feels comfortable kissing you. Although his attraction to you may be immediate, he will take his time before making a move.
Sometimes the anticipation of the kiss can be just as sensual and exciting as the real thing. Instead of getting impatient or being pushy, enjoy the slow burn of wondering when he’s going to go for it.
If you want to be the one to initiate the kiss, give him some time to get to know you first before you try. It will be more enjoyable for him if he feels comfortable with you.
2. Respect His Boundaries
The zodiac sign Virgo is symbolized by the virgin. Although your Virgo man isn’t a prude, he values his body and won’t give away any part of it to just anybody.
Although it’s a good idea to make the first move with a Virgo man, don’t be too aggressive. Read his body language first and look for signs a Virgo man is interested in you before trying to kiss him.
If he keeps staring at you from across the room, asks your mutual friends about you, or tries to have a deep conversation with you, these are some of the signs a Virgo man has a crush on you.
If he avoids you or only offers small talk, you might not have enough of a connection to kiss him just yet. Don’t try to kiss him too soon or you might scare him away.
Virgos move slowly in relationships, so be respectful of his boundaries and wait until you know for sure that he’s attracted to you before making a move.
3. Form a Mental Connection First
Virgos are cerebral and thoughtful. In fact, they tend to overthink things so much that it often results in worries and anxieties.
Virgos need to have more than a physical connection with you before he will want to kiss you. The more a Virgo guy gets to know you, the more he will be attracted to you.
Before going in for a kiss, show your Virgo guy that you can have an intelligent conversation with him. Show him that you’re smart and easy to talk to, and you’ll find he can’t stop staring at your lips.
His need for more than a physical connection is what makes a Virgo man slow in relationships. Forming a mental connection will make the kiss that much more meaningful and sensual when it finally happens.
4. Make the First Move
Virgos are known to be quite shy, so even if he wants to kiss you, he could be holding himself back. Maybe he fears rejection or isn’t sure that you reciprocate his feelings.
To get a Virgo man to kiss you, you might have to make the first move. If you feel a connection with him and are dying for him to kiss you, why wait?
When things are heating up between you two, smile, lean in, and close your eyes. Meet him a little more than halfway, then let him do the rest.
He will likely be relieved that you made the first move. He probably wanted to but just wasn’t sure of himself.
5. Kiss Him in Private
An important part of understanding a Virgo man is knowing that he hates big emotional displays and showing off. He is very reserved and doesn’t like being the center of attention.
He is uncomfortable with public displays of affection for many reasons. One is because he is so self-conscious and hates having an audience when he kisses you.
If you’re in a crowd or hanging out with other people, don’t expect your Virgo man to kiss you. Although he is possessive and wants everyone to know you’re his, he won’t show it with PDA.
Don’t take it personally or think it’s because he’s ashamed of you; he just thinks kissing should be done behind closed doors. When you get him alone, he will show you all the affection you need.
To get a Virgo man to kiss you, take him somewhere private. Get away from everyone else so that he feels comfortable enough to share a kiss with you.
There’s nothing sexier to a Virgo man than to whisper in his ear, “I can’t wait to get you alone,” when you’re in a crowd of people. It shows you’re into him but willing to wait for the right moment.
6. Eliminate Distractions
Virgos are highly intelligent, and their minds are always working overtime. Your Virgo man is so smart that he probably has a hard time turning his brain off and enjoying the moment.
Virgos are also hard-working, and tend to prioritize work and chores over anything else. He won’t be able to focus on a kiss if there is still work to be done.
To share the perfect kiss with your Virgo man, make sure there are no distractions. He needs all his work to be done first before he can relax and share a sexy moment with you.
He also needs cleanliness and order, so a messy room is sure to distract and turn him off. Keep your personal space clean so that he can enjoy his surroundings and have the perfect kiss.
7. Have Excellent Hygiene
Virgos are obsessed with cleanliness, and he won’t be obsessed with kissing you unless you’re clean, too.
If you’re dating a Virgo man, take extra care of your hygiene and grooming. Don’t wear overpowering perfume, but make sure that you smell fresh and enticing.
You’ll also want the whitest teeth and freshest breath to make him want to kiss you. Brush, floss, and gargle mouthwash before you spend time with your Virgo guy.
Food in your teeth or stinky breath is a turn-off for anybody, but especially for a Virgo. If you’re going on a dinner date, keep a toothbrush or at least a pack of gum in your purse, just in case.
8. Avoid Lip Gloss
Your lipstick may look glamorous and pretty to you, but all your Virgo man sees when you paint your mouth is an obstacle he has to overcome to kiss you.
Even if you wear a formula that’s not supposed to rub off, your Virgo guy probably isn’t a makeup expert and won’t know it.
He will worry about smearing your lipstick and messing it up for you, as well as getting it all over his own lips and face.
If you want to share the perfect kiss with your Virgo man, forgo the lipstick. Choose a nice, soothing chapstick instead.
Wearing a subtle tinted lip balm will give your lips a little color without intimidating your Virgo man. He is also turned off by dry, chapped lips, so a little balm is all you need to be attractive to him.
9. Don’t Be Sloppy
Virgos are perfectionists and neat freaks, and this applies to how they kiss, too. A Virgo won’t leave you feeling like you need to wash your face after you kiss him, and he wants the same from you.
Keep your kisses neat and don’t use too much tongue. Virgos are more attracted to technique than passion, so sharing a sweet kiss is more enjoyable for him than a messy makeout.
Virgos don’t like overly passionate or aggressive displays of affection, in public or private. Don’t be forceful or out of control when you kiss him, especially if you’ve been drinking.
Showing a lack of restraint is a sure way to turn off a Virgo man and make him not want to kiss you. Self-control is what a Virgo man wants in a woman, so don’t grab him and force a kiss.
10. Build His Confidence
A Virgo is at his best when he is comfortable and confident. Virgos are usually introverted and self-conscious by nature, so you will need to help draw him out of his shell.
Let him know how sexy you think he is and how attracted to him you are. If he feels confident, he will be more likely to kiss you and be able to relax and enjoy it.
He is an overthinker, and probably wonders what you thought of the kiss after it happened. Smile and let him know that you think he’s a fantastic kisser, and he’ll want to kiss you even more.