What to Do When Your Scorpio Man is Angry?

Even the most laid-back and easy-going signs get angry sometimes, and each sign expresses anger differently.

Scorpio is a notoriously intense and powerful sign, so it makes sense that his anger is just as forceful as the rest of his personality.

You can use astrology to determine how to react to your Scorpio man’s anger and what you can do to help soothe him.

Encourage Him to Express His Anger

Every zodiac sign correlates with one of four natural elements: earth, fire, air, or water. A sign’s element can tell you a lot about that sign’s personality and how they handle emotions.

Scorpio, along with Pisces and Cancer, is a water sign. Like their fellow water signs, Scorpios feel their feelings very profoundly and tend to bottle up their negative emotions.

Because of their sensitivity combined with their tendency to push their feelings aside, sometimes Scorpio men lash out at those closest to them when they are angry.

Even if you aren’t the source of his anger, your Scorpio guy might become irritable with you when he’s really upset with someone or something else. He may get moody and say hurtful things.

When a Scorpio man hurts your feelings, know that he’s probably just upset and taking his anger out of you.

You need to encourage your Scorpio guy to express his feelings positively and constructively instead of bottling them up and lashing out inappropriately.

Ask him to tell you what’s wrong, invite him to go on a stress-relieving walk or run, or motivate him to convey his anger through art or some other form of expression.

Not only will this help you avoid his wrath, but it also turns anger into a bonding opportunity for you and your Scorpio guy.

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Apologize Sincerely

Some signs can move past arguments easily and don’t need an apology to feel like the disagreement is resolved, but Scorpio is not one of those signs.

When a Scorpio man is mad at you, he requires a sincere and thorough apology before he will soften his heart.

If you have already apologized and your Scorpio guy still hasn’t relaxed towards you, then you haven’t shown your contrition to his satisfaction.

You need to give him a sincere verbal apology that conveys you know what you’ve done wrong and that you are genuinely sorry for hurting him.

But don’t assume that your words are enough – for a Scorpio man, you also need to apologize with your actions. Prove to him that you care and won’t repeat your mistake by being extra kind to him.

Offer to Settle the Score

Some signs are more vengeful than others, and Scorpio is perhaps the most vengeful sign of them all.

Whether it’s immediate or takes years, a Scorpio man who has been wronged will get revenge; it’s just a question of when he will do it.

Scorpio revenge tactics are particularly clever and painful, so it’s in your best interest to try to get ahead of your Scorpio man’s thirst for revenge when you’ve angered him.

If you’ve done something to make your Scorpio man angry, offer a solution to even the score.

Not only will this benefit you, but it will also impress your Scorpio guy and help make him feel better.

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Don’t Argue With Him

Each zodiac sign is governed by a heavenly body. A sign’s heavenly body reveals important aspects of that sign’s personality.

Scorpio is one of the rare zodiac signs that have more than one ruling planet. Scorpio’s governing planets are Mars and Pluto, making this a forceful, dark, complex, and mysterious sign.

Mars, which is also the ruling planet of Aries, is the planet of war. This means that Scorpios are combative and excellent at winning battles and arguments.

When a Scorpio man hurts you, there is no point in trying to argue with him. He will always have the last word and win every argument.

Not only does a Scorpio never back down from a fight, but he also relishes in an excuse to unleash his pugnacious side and thrives on a good debate.

When your Scorpio man is angry, even if his anger isn’t directed at you, it’s not the time to pick a fight with him. You won’t win, and he will be more aggressive and brutal than usual.

Don’t Expect Him to Forgive You

Some signs forgive and forget, but not Scorpio. Forgiveness simply isn’t in their nature and they can hang on to resentments and anger until the end of time.

This is part of the reason why Scorpio revenge is so common and notorious. Revenge is one of the few things that helps a Scorpio guy get over an argument because he feels like the score has been settled.

You can ask for forgiveness, but don’t expect your Scorpio guy to ever really forgive you. Just make sure you apologize when you’ve upset him, but don’t feel unsettled if he withholds forgiveness.

This is normal for a Scorpio and not a sign that your relationship is in trouble. Even if he won’t forgive you, he will accept your apology and you can move past this disagreement.

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Don’t Expect Him to Forget It

Scorpios don’t forgive and they don’t forget, either. Even when the argument is over, your Scorpio guy files his grievances away in his mental permanent record.

Even when a Scorpio man is done with you and the relationship has been over for years, he will still never forget any wrongs you committed against him.

He will remember the good times you had, of course; but the bad times when he was angry with you will stick out just as intensely in his mind.

If you and your Scorpio guy stay together, he will bring up your wrongdoing over and over again for years to come. Even if it seems like he’s teasing or joking around, he’s really still a little upset.

Take His Side in an Argument

What a Scorpio man wants in a relationship is a woman who takes his side consistently and unconditionally, particularly in public.

If you are dating a Scorpio man, don’t try to play devil’s advocate and make him see anyone else’s perspective. He will see this as a betrayal like you are taking his opponent’s side.

Instead, just tell him that his feelings are valid and that you are on his side no matter what. When you have his back, it comforts your Scorpio partner and helps him calm down.

This doesn’t mean you have to agree with him when he’s wrong, but you should always put your loyalty to him above anything else.

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Give Him Space

Because he tends to lash out at those around him when he’s upset, sometimes the best way to handle a Scorpio man’s anger is to give him some breathing room.

One of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you is when he tries his best to separate his anger at others from his interactions with you, but even the most self-aware Scorpio guy struggles with this.

If your Scorpio man is being cranky and irritable because he’s upset, give him some space to cope with his emotions on his own.

Don’t abandon or ignore him; tell him you respect his feelings and want to give him room to process them.

Your sensitive Scorpio guy will appreciate you for understanding him so well and for anticipating his emotional needs.

Be There for Him

One of the signs of a Scorpio man in love with you is when he is always there for you, no matter what.

Scorpios tend to be selfish because they know their worth and won’t waste their time on just anyone. But when it comes to the people they love, Scorpios are very loyal and dependable.

If you are angry, you can count on your Scorpio partner to care about your feelings, support you, and try to calm you down. Because he is so attentive and devoted, your Scorpio man expects the same treatment in return.

Sometimes the best thing you can do for a Scorpio man when he’s angry is just be there for him. Let him vent his frustrations to you and show him that you’re willing to help him through anything.

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Help Distract Him

Scorpios have many love languages, and one of their favorites is physical touch. When Scorpio man touches you, he is trying to communicate with you.

When your Scorpio guy is angry, show him how much you support him with physical affection.

Scorpios are one of the most sexual signs of the entire zodiac, so sex is a great distraction and form of stress relief for your Scorpio partner.

If you’re not in the mood to get physically intimate, try distracting your Scorpio man from his negative feelings in other ways. Give him a massage, put on his favorite movie, or treat him to a nice meal.

If you can help your Scorpio man take his mind off of his anger, you will put him in a better mood and prove how invaluable you are to him.