The signs a Scorpio man likes you can be hard to figure out, just like a Scorpio man himself. He can be flirty, but that doesn’t mean he likes you.
You’ve got to look for signs of emotional connection.
When a Scorpio man touches you, it can feel intense. How do you know if he really likes you, or if you’re projecting your own desires? It’s sometimes hard to tell.
When a Scorpio has a crush on you, he may still try to keep his feelings a secret. You’ve got to study his personality in order to see the signs a Scorpio man has feelings for you.
Are you seeing signs that a Scorpio man is playing you? Or does he really like you? These questions can keep you up at night if you don’t understand his personality.
1. He Asks You Questions
If he acts indifferent toward you, chances are you’re seeing signs a Scorpio man is not interested. He’s naturally curious. So if he doesn’t ask you questions about yourself, your interests and your past, he probably isn’t into you.
Yet when a Scorpio man likes you, he’ll interrogate you like a detective. You may feel overwhelmed by it at first. It can feel like he’s interviewing you because he’s going to write your biography. But this is a sign he really likes you.
Scorpio men love to know everything they can about their love interest so expect him to go overboard asking you questions about every aspect of your life. Even if it seems annoying, it’s a good sign.
When a Scorpio man smiles and stares, he may be shy. He will eventually open up and start to show an interest in you. Yet before he does, he’ll do his detective work to learn about you.
2. He Asks Friends About You
If a Scorpio man doesn’t ask you questions specifically, expect him to check up on you in his own way. He’ll ask your friends about you. He’ll be discreet and subtle but it will be obvious after a while that he likes you.
He’ll drop so many subtle hints and questions that anyone will be able to tell he’s fishing for information on you for a reason. He will try to make it sound like he is just curious but even those around you will be able to tell he’s up to something.
If a Scorpio man misses you, he will be try to tiptoe around his feelings. He’ll avoid showing vulnerability by trying to conceal the fact that he really likes you. A Scorpio man may act like a young boy with a crush in this regard, even when he’s a full grown man.
How does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He’ll want to learn all he can about you. Also, he will try to impress you and compete with you to show you how strong and talented he is.
3. He Wants to Learn Your Secrets
How do you know when a Scorpio man likes you, what gestures should you look for? One of the things to notice is whether or not a Scorpio man tries to find out your secrets.
In addition to learning all he can about you personally, a Scorpio man will also want to find out your deepest, darkest desires. Play coy and hard to get. Don’t let him think you’re too closed off, but don’t be an open book right away.
A Scorpio man needs to feel like he has to work to gain your trust and unravel your deeper secrets and desires. Let him pursue you through unraveling your mysteries, as this excites him further.
4. He Flirts with You
When you see the signs of a Scorpio man in love with you, be sure to acknowledge his feelings. He will flirt with you and go out of his way to be amorous and seductive.
Flirtation alone is a double edged sword. Sometimes a Scorpio man flirts when he is interested in a purely sexual relationship. Other times, a Scorpio man will flirt with you because he genuinely likes you.
When a Scorpio man becomes playful and flirty, this is a good sign. But before jumping to conclusions, look for additional signs that he’s taking a genuine deeper interest in you. If he asks about your goals and ambitions, it can be a good additional clue.
5. He Compliments You
Scorpio men are not interested in false flattery. He won’t tell you what you want to hear just to be nice. Yet when a Scorpio man really likes you, he’ll compliment you.
He’ll go out of his way to be kind and will compliment you on your strengths, beauty, intelligence, creativity and other talents. He may praise your music, writing or artwork for example.
When a Scorpio man likes you, he wants to admire your talents and many gifts and abilities. He’ll also use compliments as a safe way to express his interest in you as this seems like an innocent and friendly gesture.
6. He Tests the Waters Sexually
Just because a Scorpio man talks seductively to you, doesn’t mean he is only interested in sex. This may be the case, but it isn’t always true. Yet when a Scorpio man likes you, he will test the waters.
He wants to know that you have a strong sex drive and are open to the types of erotic exploration he’s interested in. But he won’t come on too strong at first. He may hint about sex through jokes or innuendos.
This needs to also be taken in a larger context. Sex talk and sexual jokes alone aren’t proof he likes you. Yet when taken in conjunction with other key signs, this can be one of many ways a Scorpio man expresses interest in you.
7. He Teases You
It may seem like something your mother told you about boys back in middle school, but when a Scorpio man likes you, he’ll tease you. He may make snarky comments or he may even be sarcastic.
Sometimes he’s sarcastic when he’s just joking with friends. But when he really likes you, he’ll blend sarcasm with fun teasing and joking. He won’t go too far, though. He doesn’t really want to hurt your feelings.
He may do this to test you and see if you have a sense of humor. If you can’t laugh at yourself, a Scorpio man may think you take yourself too seriously and this can turn him off. He needs to see that you have a sense of humor that blends with his.
8. He Pushes Your Boundaries
Scorpios are known to push. They push limits and boundaries. Though he doesn’t want to push you away and ruin his chances altogether. One of the signs a Scorpio man likes you is when he pushes your boundaries.
If you tell him you have to be home at eight, he’ll try to keep the conversation going until eight thirty. If you tell him you have to leave for work, he’ll try to linger and encourage you to stay a little longer.
If you tell him you’re on a diet, he’ll entice you with a piece of cake. He does this to play power games and test you to see how solidly you’ll stick to your word and keep your boundaries firm. He wants to test to see how much you’ll let him get away with.
When he likes you, testing boundaries in this way is important to a Scorpio man. It conveys to him what kind of person you are. Do you have an iron will like he does? Do you go back on your word? Are you easily swayed?
Scorpio men like to know they can exert influence over you. At the same time, they also gain some reassurance and satisfaction knowing you will stick to your guns and hold strong to your convictions.
9. He Follows You
When a Scorpio man likes you, he’ll follow you, He’ll do this both in real life and on social media. He’ll follow you on every social media account you have. He may not interact but he’ll still watch you from a distance.
He’ll also follow you in real life. He’ll show up at your place of work, stroll past your favorite spa just as you’re leaving. You’ll see his car parked in the parking lot of your gym. You may start to wonder if he is stalking you!
He will make it a point to show up when you’re visiting a friend. He will make sure he knows more about you and where you are at any given time than your closest friends or family, all while pretending it’s just a coincidence.
10. He Hides His Feelings
A Scorpio man will hide his feelings at first when he likes you. If he’s angry, he’ll try to stifle his anger. He’ll try to minimize his feelings for you. He won’t show sadness or anxiety and certainly never fear.
He wants to put the best foot forward and will try to put on a strong and powerful front. This keeps him from feeling vulnerable. If he likes you, he’ll try to act stoic.
Yet as you get to know him better, he’ll relax. He’ll start to laugh and show more emotion around you. He will admit it when he’s angry about something. He’ll also start to acknowledge when he’s sad. When you see him show a broad range of emotion, you’ll know he likes you.