Is Your Aquarius Man Hiding His Feelings?

It’s common for Aquarius men to play hot and cold. He may flirt with you and talk to you non-stop one moment, then completely ignore you the next. This can be incredibly confusing.

Aquarius men hide their hearts sometimes. Your Aquarius might be unsure of your feelings. He might be waiting for you to express your feelings.

He might also be unsure of his feelings. If he falls in and out of love quickly, he might be waiting to see if he still feels the same way about you after a while.

He Ignores You

It is not always a bad sign when an Aquarius man ignores you. Typically, someone ignoring you would mean they don’t like you, but Aquarius men are unpredictable and don’t always act the way everyone else does!

If an Aquarius man wants to hide his feelings, he might avoid you. He’s good at hiding his feelings, but he may be unsure about his ability to hide them forever.

When an Aquarius man doesn’t feel ready for a relationship, he might avoid the object of his affection to see if those feelings go away.

He might also want to make you think he doesn’t have feelings for you. Ignoring you is one of the ways he’ll try to throw you off his trail!

Your Aquarius man may also just be trying to work through his feelings. He might avoid you until he’s sure he likes you and wants to start a relationship.

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Avoids Certain Subjects

If your Aquarius man avoids specific topics when he’s around, that may be a sign he’s hiding his feelings.

One of the signs an Aquarius man secretly likes you is that he’ll avoid all talk of feelings, relationships, love, etc. when you’re around. He doesn’t want to slip up and reveal how he feels accidentally!

Aquarius men are emotionally distant most of the time, so it might be difficult to tell why your Aquarius man won’t talk about his feelings with you. Sometimes, he avoids talking about feelings with everyone.

If you two are close friends, though, he might have previously been fine discussing his feelings with you. He may have also talked about the crushes he had on others.

He won’t mention relationships if he’s hiding his feelings for you, though. Your Aquarius man might be trying to make it obvious he’s single to see if you make a move, or he might be uncomfortable talking about love with the object of his affection.

He’s Hot & Cold

An Aquarius man denying feelings will sometimes be hot and cold with the object of his affection, especially if he’s unsure about how he wants to deal with his emotions.

Aquarius men are generally unpredictable, but he may seem even more chaotic and confusing when he’s trying to hide his feelings.

This is likely to happen when an Aquarius man is hiding any feelings, not just romantic feelings toward someone. He might also play hot and cold if he’s angry with you or upset about something in his life. It’s hard to tell sometimes!

Your Aquarius man might seem friendly and social when you’re around sometimes but distant and aloof at other times. If he flirts sometimes but ignores you when you flirt back, that’s a sign he likes you, and the flirting is serious.

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He Seems Uncomfortable

When an Aquarius man loves you and wants to hide it, he might seem uncomfortable around you sometimes.

This will be especially obvious if you start talking about dating someone else. Aquarius men aren’t usually jealous, but yours may seem restless whenever you talk about people you’re attracted to or others you’ve dated.

Your Aquarius man might also seem uncomfortable when you flirt with him. He might be unable to tell if you’re serious.

This is honestly giving him a taste of his own medicine because it’s hard to tell how serious he is when he flirts!

If an Aquarius man doesn’t like you, he’ll be direct about it. If he seems shifty or restless when you’re around, it is probably not because he has an issue with you. He may just be attempting to hide his feelings.

He’s Withdrawn

This will be more obvious if you’re close friends with your Aquarius man. He might suddenly withdraw more than usual.

Your Aquarius man may suddenly cut you off and become emotionally detached, even if you two had an emotional bond before.

This is a sign that his feelings for you are changing, and he doesn’t want to deal with it. If your Aquarius man thinks you don’t return those feelings, he’ll withdraw so that he doesn’t get hurt.

Pay attention to how your Aquarius man acts around others. If he’s still friendly toward everyone else, he’s specifically withdrawing from you. There are other reasons why he might do this, but he may potentially be hiding his feelings.

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He Seems Conflicted

Sometimes when an Aquarius man is attracted to you, he’ll feel conflicted about his feelings. This is especially true if you’re a friend and he’s worried about ruining that friendship.

Your Aquarius man might start to open up to you, then pull back. He may sometimes seem like he wants to say something to you, but he never will.

He may also make contradictory statements if you start discussing romance or relationships. He might tell you he doesn’t want a relationship one day, then say he’s hypothetically open to the idea the next.

Your Aquarius man may hint that he likes someone, then deny that he does if you bring it up. He might tell others he’s got feelings for someone and then refuse to discuss that fact in front of you.

If he starts doing this, you are likely the one he likes.

Strange Emotional Reactions

Aquarius men are known for being aloof and emotionally distant, but they can also be incredibly chaotic. They sometimes act differently than you expect them to. That may happen more often when Aquarius men want to hide their feelings.

An Aquarius man might normally react positively if a friend says they’re in a new relationship. If he has feelings for that friend, though, he may react coldly or even not react at all.

Your Aquarius man might not seem happy for you when major changes happen in your life, such as getting a new job or moving to a new city. He may go a little overboard to seem like he doesn’t have feelings for you.

He might also suddenly seem angry with you for no reason. He likely isn’t genuinely mad at you. Your Aquarius man is trying to push you away because he doesn’t want to deal with his feelings.

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He’s Defensive

How do you get an Aquarius man to talk about his feelings? This can be incredibly difficult because he sometimes gets defensive if you ask him how he feels.

One of the signs an Aquarius man likes you as more than a friend is that he’ll become defensive if you ask him if he likes someone. He might have a strong reaction even if you casually ask about any crushes he’s got.

If an Aquarius man isn’t interested in anyone, he’ll say that, but he won’t make a big deal about it. If he does like someone, but it’s not you, he might tell you because it’s not a big deal if you know.

When he likes you, he’ll get defensive when you or anyone who knows you asks about his romantic prospects. He might ask why you’re even asking him that in the first place, tell you that it’s none of your business, or even try to change the subject.

If you want to tell if an Aquarius man secretly likes you for sure, you may need to tell him that you like him. Don’t ask him if he likes you, or he’ll get defensive. Confess your feelings first so that he’s sure about how you feel.

He Constantly Confuses You

An Aquarius man in love is more unpredictable than usual. If you thought you knew your Aquarius man and his actions suddenly seem confusing, it might be because he’s developing feelings.

Aquarius men don’t always want to accept that they’ve fallen in love. They commonly develop feelings for their friends, but they may only sometimes be open to the idea of a relationship with them.

He might start responding to your messages with vague and confusing texts. If you ask your Aquarius man a direct question about his feelings, he’ll be even more confusing and talk circles around you.

Your Aquarius man may also make jokes about his feelings or the possibility of you two getting together. He’s not doing this because he finds the idea of you two together ridiculous. He’s doing it to cover up his feelings and confuse you.