How Do You Mentally Stimulate a Pisces Man?

Pisces men are very thoughtful and contemplative, so if you want to attract a Pisces guy, you need to know what interests him.

How do you captivate him and hold his attention instead of boring him and pushing him away?

By learning more about the way his zodiac sign’s mind works, you will know how to keep a Pisces man on his toes and mentally stimulate him.

Avoid Small Talk

If your Pisces guy won’t engage in small talk with you, don’t take it as one of the signs a Pisces man is not interested in you.

He probably wants to have a conversation, he just couldn’t care less about the weather or the latest gossip.

He’s an introvert and a daydreamer, so would rather get lost in thought than force himself to talk about something boring to him.

When a Pisces man has a crush on you, he wants to dive into deep conversations right away. He sees no point in wasting time on meaningless conversations when he really wants to get to know you better.

If you want to mentally stimulate your Pisces guy, don’t be afraid to skip the small talk and jump right into profound and personal topics.

He might politely chat about your day and mutual acquaintances if he has to, but he would much rather get into a serious conversation with you.

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Talk About Your Feelings

Some signs are uncomfortable with emotions and would rather discuss anything besides feelings. But a Pisces man is very in touch with his feelings and enjoys discussing them.

A Pisces man is innately sensitive and emotional, and he genuinely cares about other people. When he asks, “How are you?” He really wants to know how you’re feeling and is looking for a deeper answer than just, “Fine.”

One of the signs a Pisces man is interested in you is when he checks in with you regularly just to see how you are feeling.

A Pisces guy is in high demand as a friend or partner because he loves hearing you talk about your feelings, and will help you analyze and work through them.

But as much as he’d like to be there for everyone, a Pisces guy only has so much emotional bandwidth. He can’t make room in his life to help everyone process their emotions.

When he texts you to check in on you and asks how you feel, it’s one of the signs a Pisces man is in love with you.

He enjoys talking about emotions with his loved ones, so don’t worry that you are boring him when you want to discuss your feelings.

Discuss Abstract Ideas and Theories

Some zodiac signs are literal and realistic, so they have a hard time conceptualizing abstract ideas and innovative theories.

But a Pisces guy has a vivid and active imagination, so he loves surreal topics and outlandish ideas.

Don’t be afraid to talk about conspiracy theories and other “out there” ideas with a Pisces guy because there is nothing that interests him more.

When you bring up abstract concepts, it gets the wheels in your Pisces man’s head spinning, and he will want to talk about them all day with you.

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Ask His Thoughts on the Paranormal

If you are wondering how to get a Pisces man to chase you, talk to him about your experiences with the supernatural.

Some signs don’t believe in ghosts, spirits, and other paranormal encounters, but a Pisces guy is extremely open-minded.

He is more connected to the spiritual realm than perhaps any other zodiac sign, so any discussion of the paranormal is sure to intrigue him.

If you experienced a visit from beyond the grave, an alien encounter, or anything else strange and bizarre that can’t be explained, your Pisces man would love to hear all about it.

Talk About Spirituality

Because he is so spiritually gifted, there is no spiritual topic that won’t mentally stimulate a Pisces guy.

Whether he is religious or not, he enjoys exploring different religions and talking about beliefs, morals, and religious laws and history.

If he is religious, he will want to talk about his practice and beliefs. He is open-minded, so he won’t try to convince you to believe the same things as him.

But spirituality isn’t just about organized religion. Your Pisces man loves to discuss anything metaphysical and intangible.

To get the wheels in his head turning, ask your Pisces guy what he thinks the meaning of life is and what happens when we die.

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Talk About the Arts

If you are wondering, “What does a Pisces man find physically attractive?” The answer is a woman who isn’t afraid to express herself through her sense of style.

Pisces men are very artistic and creative, so they take note when a woman has a unique and experimental way of presenting herself.

If you wear eccentric clothing, vibrantly colorful hair and makeup, or unusual accessories, your Pisces guy is sure to compliment you on them.

Use this as a way to steer the conversation into the arts. Pisces men are typically skilled artists or musicians, so you can mentally stimulate him by getting him talking about his favorite hobbies.

Ask him about his favorite musicians, films, or artists. His eyes will light up as he describes in detail everything he likes about a particular movie or album.

He is a creative guy, so ask him about his latest projects or any artistic endeavors he may be working on.

Your Pisces man will be flattered by your interest. He will be so thrilled that you asked him about one of his favorite topics and will talk to you for hours about his artistic ideas.

Plan How to Make the World a Better Place

A Pisces guy is naturally empathetic. His purpose is to help others and make the world a better place.

If you are wondering, “What does a Pisces man look for in a woman?” The answer is someone who is as determined to change the world as he is.

He needs a partner who cares about society and has compassion for others who are less fortunate.

When you are trying to mentally stimulate a Pisces man, ask him about ways you can get involved in charities or volunteer together.

He loves brainstorming ways to help other people and will be impressed by your sympathy and kind heart.

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Discuss Love and Romance

Pisces is one of the most romantic signs of the entire zodiac. A Pisces man is mentally and emotionally stimulated by talking about romance and love.

To make him think, you should talk to your Pisces guy about what he wants in a relationship. Ask him about his dreams for the future with a partner and what his ideal woman is like.

Ask him what he thinks is the most romantic movie he has ever seen or what’s the sweetest thing he has ever seen a couple do together.

Some men think it’s cheesy to talk about romance, but not a Pisces guy. He wears his heart on his sleeve and adores talking about falling in love.

Ask Him to Help You Solve a Problem

Because a Pisces guy loves helping other people, a great way to both mentally stimulate him and endear yourself to him is to ask him to help you solve a problem.

What attracts a Pisces man is a woman who doesn’t necessarily need him but isn’t too stubborn and proud to ask for his advice.

Pisces are notoriously indecisive, so don’t ask your Pisces guy to help you make a decision, no matter how small or insignificant.

This sign can’t decide what shirt to wear on any given day, much less help you make an important choice.

He would rather help you solve an emotional or social problem, like how to react when your friend hurts your feelings or how you should handle a demanding coworker.

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Reminisce on the Past

Some signs have terrible memories, or they prefer to live in the moment instead of dwelling on the past.

But a Pisces guy loves nothing more than going through old scrapbooks and reminiscing on the good times he has had.

If you want to know how to make Pisces man chase you and stimulate his brain at the same time, bring up your pleasant shared memories.

Pisces guys are naturally sentimental and they love to revisit fond memories. They are also dreamers and idealists, so they are often in their own heads, living in the past or the future rather than the present.

Get your Pisces man’s brain working by jogging his memory about something fun you experienced together.

Show him photos from a vacation you took together, play a song from a concert you both attended, or ask him what he remembers about your first date.