Leo Man Hot & Cold

Don’t assume that your Leo man’s hot and cold behavior is intentional or that he’s trying to hurt you. While he might be playing hard to get, that’s usually not the case.

Your Leo man might just be unsure how he feels about you. He might feel insecure or uncertain of your intentions, so he doesn’t want to pursue anything too strongly, even though he likes you.

A Leo man might also pull away because the romance isn’t there or you’re doing something to turn him off. He might be friendly still but be completely cold romantically.

He Doesn’t Always Intentionally Play Games

Even if it might seem like it sometimes, a Leo man isn’t always playing games intentionally. He might be hot and cold for many different reasons. Even if he acts that way on purpose, he’s not necessarily trying to mess with you.

A Leo man might be hot and cold because he’s uncertain about your relationship, too busy to focus on you all the time, and many other reasons. He’s usually an honest and sincere person who wants people to like him. He doesn’t like to hurt others on purpose.

If your Leo man keeps coming back after leaving you, he might not intentionally be playing games, even if it seems that way. He is impulsive. Each time he leaves in a fit of anger and goes cold, he regrets it and wants to return.

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He’s Not Sure How He Feels

If your Leo man is moody and constantly fluctuating between hot and cold with you, he might be unsure of how he feels for you.

Leo men can be passionate and expressive, but that doesn’t always mean they’re sure about their feelings. They might act confident in everything they do, but they can be just as uncertain as anyone else.

If your Leo man isn’t sure how he feels, he might be confident, warm, and flirtatious some days but more distant on others. His feelings for you might seem to change daily.

Once your Leo man figures out his feelings, he’ll stop being hot and cold with you. Your Leo man will be affectionate and open up if he decides he has strong feelings for you or pull away entirely if he determines that he doesn’t.

He’s Not Over an Ex

A Leo man’s mixed signals sometimes indicate he’s not over a past relationship. If he’s still hung up on an ex, he won’t be able to dive into a relationship with you.

Your Leo man might like you, but he’ll still pull back and never fully open up. He might be warm and affectionate when it’s just the two of you but cold in public because he doesn’t want things getting back to his ex.

If a Leo man still loves his ex, he might want her back. He may still be talking to her, and he’ll go cold on you when he’s focused on her, even if he’s flirtatious and sweet when he’s focused on you.

Your Leo man must get over his ex before he can be with you. If he’s not over a past relationship, he can’t have a healthy one with you.

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He’s Feeling Insecure & Hiding It

Why does a Leo man act distant? He might be feeling insecure and trying to hide it. Leo men might seem like they’re always confident, but that’s not the case.

A Leo man might flirt with you and come on strong when he’s feeling confident, then pull back when he’s not. If he’s feeling insecure and not at his best, he might seem cold toward you.

Your Leo man might go back and forth between feeling confident and insecure. He might be sure about your relationship or the fact that you like him sometimes but doubt your feelings other times.

A Leo man doesn’t want to show his vulnerability, though. Instead of asking for reassurance when he’s insecure, he’ll withdraw from you. As soon as he feels better, he’ll warm back up again, only to go cold the next time he feels insecure.

He’s Unsure About Your Intentions

If your Leo man is acting hot and cold, it might be because he’s unsure of your intentions. He might not be using you, but be concerned that you are using him.

Your Leo man might like you, but he’ll pull away if he thinks you don’t like him in the same way. If he feels you’re only with him for a specific reason, he might start acting cold and pulling away.

If your Leo man is unsure of your intentions, he might test you. How does a Leo man test you? He may go cold to see if you will reach out and check in with him.

Your Leo man might pull away and act upset to see if you’ll offer support and affection to cheer him up. His hot and cold behavior will be a test to see if you genuinely like him.

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The Romance Just Isn’t There

If your Leo man suddenly disappears on you, it might be that the romance just isn’t there. He might flirt with you and take you on dates, then go cold when he realizes there isn’t a spark between you two.

That doesn’t mean your Leo man will always remain cold, though. He might still enjoy spending time with you, just not in a romantic way. He’ll act friendly toward you and still invite you out but also keep his distance.

Even if the romance isn’t there, a Leo man may still like having sex with you, too. He’ll be passionate and warm during sex but emotionally cold when you two aren’t being intimate.

If you feel like romance is lacking in your relationship with your Leo man, that’s likely why he’s being hot and cold. He likely feels that way, too.

You’re Causing Him to Pull Away

Sometimes, your Leo man pulls away because of your behavior. For example, if your Leo man is quiet after you offer criticism or confront him about something, he’s pulling away because you hurt his feelings.

Your Leo man will come on strong and be sweet and warm toward you, then pull away if you seem to be rejecting his advances. He may adjust his tactics if he likes you and warm up again, but he’ll go cold if you don’t respond positively.

If you do like your Leo man, show him that. He’ll act hot and cold if your behavior makes him feel like you’re not that interested or like you take him for granted.

A Leo man may act hot and cold if you’re controlling or don’t give him enough attention. He wants to spend quality time with you but doesn’t want you to dictate everything about his life.

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Be Open & Honest with Him

If your Leo man is confusing you, be honest with him. If he cares about you, he won’t intentionally try to confuse or hurt you. He’ll try to figure things out with you if he wants to be with you.

Don’t make assumptions about why your Leo man is acting the way he is. Don’t shut him out due to your hurt feelings, either. Instead, try to talk to him. If you’re both cold and distant, nothing will get fixed.

Open up to your Leo man. Don’t force him to talk to you or make him feel guilty, but be honest about how his cold behavior makes you feel.

If your Leo man loves you, he’ll try to fix his behavior. If your honesty doesn’t result in him warming back up, that might be a sign it’s time to move on.

Keep the Spark Alive

A Leo man’s flirting style is passionate and forward. If you want to keep the spark alive with him, be passionate too! Make him feel desired by showing clear interest in him.

If you want to keep your Leo man’s interest and prevent him from going cold, keeping the spark alive in your relationship might help. Don’t let yourself get complacent, or his behavior will become inconsistent.

If you go out of your way to mix things up and keep your relationship exciting, your Leo man will be more likely to continue warming up instead of going cold. He may still act distant if upset, but he won’t pull away due to boredom or a lack of romance.

This isn’t a foolproof way of changing your Leo man’s behavior. It might be time to move on if you can’t keep the spark alive.

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Make Him Feel Secure

Sometimes, you can get a Leo man to stop being hot and cold by making him feel secure. If he finds comfort and stability with you, he’ll start acting more consistently to avoid losing that.

If a Leo man is stringing you along, he likely won’t care about security with you. No matter how secure you try to make him feel, he’ll continue acting hot and cold and will never feel stable with you.

If you are always there for your Leo man to reassure him and offer support, but he still acts hot and cold or continues to pull away from you, be wary. He may not be as into your relationship as you are.