10 Ways to Hurt an Aquarius Man

Aquarians are notoriously difficult to read and they often come across as aloof and unfeeling.

With such a nonchalant facade, how do you know what bothers your Aquarius man the most? What makes him angry, depresses him, or breaks his heart?

Whether you want to make him suffer or just want to know how to avoid breaking his heart, look to the typical Aquarius man traits to figure out what distresses him the most.

Give Him the Silent Treatment

One of an Aquarian’s weaknesses is communication. Their quirky and unique way of thinking combined with a short attention span makes connecting with others difficult for them at times.

Perhaps you want to hurt an Aquarius man because he hasn’t been responding to your calls and texts. This is typical for an Aquarius because they are inconsistent with communication.

Although they have no problem ignoring other people, Aquarians hate when you ignore them back. Since they lack communication skills, they are used to other people going the extra mile to reach out to them.

When an Aquarius man ignores you, you can hurt him back by not responding when he eventually contacts you. He won’t understand what he did wrong and not knowing will drive him crazy.

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Lie to Him

One of the facts about an Aquarius man is that he is honest to a fault. An Aquarius guy will never lie to you, but he also won’t spin the truth to spare your feelings.

Perhaps you want to hurt an Aquarius man because he said something harsh, but true. He rarely tries to hurt people, but an angry Aquarius man can cut deep with his sharp words.

An Aquarius man when hurt can be ruthless, but it’s more likely he will unintentionally be unkind to you by saying something brutally honest.

Aquarians expect total honesty in return. They hate being lied to and see it as a betrayal and an insult to their intelligence.

If you want to hurt an Aquarius, break his trust and lie to him. This will especially hurt him if you are close because he is more trusting of his loved ones.

Break Up with Him

Aquarians value their freedom and independence. It takes a lot for them to give these things up and commit to a monogamous relationship.

When an Aquarius man is done with you, he has no problem breaking things off, as long as it’s early on in the relationship and he hasn’t gotten too close to you.

It’s not that they want to play the field so much as they don’t want to be accountable to anyone else or responsible for other people’s emotions.

An Aquarius man invests a lot of time, energy, and emotions into a person before he will commit. Although it takes a long time, when he finally commits he’s in the relationship for the long haul.

Their dedication to their partners is one of the reasons why Aquarius men can’t let go after they get dumped.

Because they let so few people get close to them, one of the worst ways you can hurt an Aquarius is to break up with him. For an Aquarius man, getting over someone takes even longer than falling in love.

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Stifle His Freedom

Aquarians hate feeling restrained and they prize their independent lifestyle. If you want to make an Aquarius man suffer, do what you can to take away his freedom.

Overschedule him with plans, chores, work, and activities. Get him to commit to so many things that his days are regimented and he has no time for himself.

You can hurt him by locking him into any sort of commitment, such as a shared phone plan or signing a lease. He hates contracts or any decision that can’t be changed.

When you take away his freedom, you deprive him of one of his strongest desires. Be warned that if he realizes you’re stifling him, he will become resentful.

Make Him Feel Stupid

Although they are quite intelligent, because of their dreamy nature Aquarians can get a bit of an unfair reputation as airheads.

In truth, they are very smart and value intelligence and education. It deeply hurts an Aquarius to be called stupid or made a fool.

If you want to bring an Aquarius down, call him dumb and treat him like he is incompetent. Act frustrated at his inferior intellect and tease him for his stupidity in front of others.

You could also engage him in a debate and beat him at his argument. Aquarians like to banter about an issue, but they don’t like losing or being belittled.

Aquarians are humanitarians and pride themselves on keeping up with social issues and current events. Calling him ignorant is perhaps even more hurtful than calling him stupid because it implies carelessness.

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Betray Him

Aquarians are very trusting, especially of those they allow to get close to them. They are so honest that they expect other people to be just as honest as they are.

Although they are hard to tie down, once an Aquarius commits to you he will remain faithful, and he expects the same from you. Aquarians expect loyalty from their partners, but also their friends, family, and coworkers.

There are many ways to betray someone. If you’re his partner, cheat on him. If you’re his coworker, take credit for something he has done. If you’re his friend, spread his secrets and talk negatively about him behind his back.

Betraying an Aquarius hurts him so much because he doesn’t expect it and he takes it personally. If you betray an Aquarius guy, it will have a profound effect on him.

Be Selfish

Aquarians are independent and stingy, which can make them seem a bit selfish. In truth, they are one of the most giving signs and they care deeply about others.

When an Aquarius loves someone, whether it’s a friend, lover, or family member, he gives them his all. An Aquarius can easily get trapped into giving more than he gets back in a relationship.

You can hurt him by taking advantage of his generosity and not reciprocating it. Let him lavish you with gifts and attention, but give nothing back. Ask him for favors, but never be available or willing to return them.

Aquarians have huge hearts and are immensely compassionate. They aren’t very in touch with their emotions, so an Aquarius will give everything to make another person happy without realizing his efforts aren’t returned.

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Don’t Trust Him

Aquarians are very trusting and they expect the same level of trust from others. They take pride in their integrity, so when someone doesn’t trust them it feels like an insult.

If you want to hurt an Aquarius man, make it clear that you don’t trust him. Watch his every move, ask him where he’s going, and accuse him of infidelity and dishonesty.

This method of hurting an Aquarius works in two ways, because not only does it show you question his character but it also impedes on his freedom.

An Aquarius likes to come and go as he pleases and enjoy his freedom within a relationship. If he is committed, he will be loyal and give you nothing to worry about.

But if you are constantly keeping track of him and questioning him, it takes away some of his independence, which hurts him just as much as insulting his integrity.

He hates checking in with anyone or having someone in authority over him. If you are dominant and overbearing with your Aquarius guy, it will suffocate and enrage him.

Tell Him He Hurt You

If you are close to an Aquarius, it’s almost impossible to avoid getting unintentionally hurt by him. They can be brutally honest and insensitive, so it’s easy for them to say or do the wrong thing and upset you.

Aquarians rarely try to hurt anyone unless they have a lot of anger built up over time. So when you call out an Aquarius for hurting you, it bewilders him because he has no idea what he has done.

Also, an Aquarian’s natural compassion will make him feel bad for hurting your feelings. Even when an Aquarius man is upset, he doesn’t want others to suffer and he certainly doesn’t want to be the cause of that suffering.

He is also uncomfortable with expressing negative feelings. Showing an Aquarius man that he has hurt you, especially with an emotional display of tears or rage, will definitely affect him.

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Call Him Boring

Aquarians are contrary and rebellious, and they prefer to think for themselves rather than follow the herd. They proudly march to the beat of their own drum.

For these unique thinkers, one of the worst insults you could call him is boring. Nothing is worse to him than being traditional or just like everybody else.

Tell him he’s trendy, or that you’ve seen the shirt he’s wearing on every mannequin at the mall. Tell him his ideas are lame, unoriginal, and uninteresting.

Aquarians are also very progressive and embrace innovation. If you tell him he’s too conservative or close-minded, it will cut him deeply.