Cancer Man Hot & Cold

Cancer men can be loving and loyal partners but don’t always have an easy time dating or initiating relationships. A Cancer man might seem interested, then pull back for various reasons.

Sometimes, a Cancer man is acting hot and cold because he’s afraid of commitment or distrustful. He’ll warm up to you, then pull back when he gets scared or insecure.

A Cancer man may act hot and cold on purpose because he’s testing you or trying to manipulate your emotions. If he’s not actually interested in you, he’ll also act this way.

He’s Moody

Cancer men are highly emotional. They are sensitive and have difficulty hiding their feelings. Even though some Cancer men are emotionally mature, others are moody and temperamental.

A Cancer man might seem hot and cold because his emotions are tumultuous and unpredictable. He’ll act warm and caring when he’s in a good mood. He’ll act cold and distant when he’s in a bad mood.

His moodiness and hot and cold behavior aren’t always a reflection on you. Your Cancer man may have trouble sharing his feelings with you, so he’ll pull back and act cold if he’s in a bad mood.

You might not always know what to do when a Cancer man is moody, especially if you don’t know him well yet. As you get to know him better, you’ll likely learn to anticipate his moods and how to comfort him.

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He Might Be Afraid of Commitment

If you’re seeing signs a Cancer man likes you, but he’s hiding it, it might be that he’s afraid of commitment or insecure about your relationship.

If your Cancer man is acting hot and cold in your relationship, he may have fears and insecurities. He might act warm and open up but pull back when things get too serious for him.

Pay attention to when your Cancer man goes cold. If it’s always after you bring up commitment or start getting serious, he’s afraid of committing.

This doesn’t necessarily mean your Cancer man doesn’t want to commit, though. He might genuinely care about and want to be with you, but his fears and insecurities are holding him back.

All you can do is try to reassure your Cancer man. Take things slow and be patient with him. Grow your bond, build trust, and attempt to soothe your Cancer man’s fears.

He’s Distrustful

Why does a Cancer man act distant sometimes, even if he’s warm and affectionate other times? One potential reason is that he’s distrustful.

Some Cancer men trust easily, but not all of them do. A Cancer man might like you and be interested in getting to know you better, but that doesn’t mean he’ll trust you immediately.

If a Cancer man has been hurt or betrayed in a past relationship, he’ll be more distrustful toward the next person that comes along. His hot and cold behavior could indicate that he’s struggling to trust you but wants to.

Your Cancer man will act warm and open up, only to pull back due to insecurity. His hot and cold behavior is sometimes a sign that he’s trying to open up and trust you but is having difficulty.

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He Doesn’t Want to Get Hurt

Is a Cancer man hard to get? Sometimes, he is, but that’s not necessarily because he’s playing hard to get. Some Cancer men are afraid of getting hurt and will hold back because of that fear.

If your Cancer man is afraid of getting hurt, he might pull away and act cold because he feels like he’s getting too close to you. His feelings for you will scare him, especially if he’s unsure of your feelings.

A Cancer man might warm up to you and act affectionate because he likes you, but pull away and act cold if you give him reason to believe you don’t feel the same way.

If you think your Cancer man is afraid of getting hurt, show interest in him and reassure him. Let him see that you won’t hurt or reject him. Be a little more affectionate and supportive.

He’s Testing You

A Cancer man pulling away is sometimes a sign he’s testing you. He wants to see how you’ll react when he goes cold or suddenly starts acting distant.

Some Cancer men want to know that a potential partner will reach out if they’re upset. They want someone who can anticipate their emotions and will make an effort to cheer them up, even if they don’t always ask for support.

Your Cancer man wants to see if you’ll check in with him when he pulls away. He likes to know that you’ll actually notice his absence, too!

If your Cancer man starts acting distant, don’t immediately assume he wants space and leave him alone. First, reach out and ask him how he’s doing. If he’s testing you, he’ll likely warm back up when you express concern.

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He’s Playing Games

While not all Cancer men play games in relationships, some do. Your Cancer man might be hot and cold because he’s simply playing hard to get. Something more sinister might also be going on.

If your Cancer man is playing hard to get, he’ll go cold until you reach out and give him attention, and then he’ll warm back up again. All he’ll want is your attention and affection, and he’ll stop acting cold when he gets that.

One of the signs a Cancer man is playing you and isn’t invested in your relationship is that he’ll go cold as a way of punishing you for not doing what he wants. If he asks for something and you say no, he’ll go cold.

If you think your Cancer man is playing games, talk to him. If he genuinely cares about you and isn’t trying to mess with you, he’ll feel terrible for his behavior and try to make things right.

He’s Manipulating Your Emotions

If a Cancer man is using you, he might try to manipulate your emotions to get what he wants. Playing hot and cold is one tactic he’ll use to play with you and mess with your feelings.

Cancer men might get a reputation for being compassionate and kind, but they can also be incredibly manipulative. They’re good at manipulating the emotions of others because they have a deep understanding of feelings in general.

Your Cancer man might be kind to you to make you do what he wants. He’ll be sweet and caring, so you trust him. He’ll act like he cares if you give him whatever he wants.

He’ll pull back and act cold if you stop doing what he wants. He may also pull back for seemingly no reason to get you to go after him and put more effort into your relationship.

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You’re Moving Too Fast

If you’re dating a Cancer man and he starts to pull back and act cold, despite being affectionate and open before, you might be moving too fast for him.

Some Cancer men like to take things slow. A Cancer man might want to date someone for a while before having sex, for example. He may not want to move in together or start talking about marriage for a while.

Your Cancer man will be warm and affectionate while getting to know you and becoming more comfortable with you. If you try to initiate sex or talk about taking your relationship to the next level before he’s ready, though, he’ll pull back and act colder.

He’s Not Actually Interested

If your Cancer man is inconsistent, that could be a sign he’s not interested in you. While many Cancer men are caring and compassionate people, it’s not impossible for them to play others in relationships.

Your Cancer man might act hot and cold because he’s just trying to get something specific out of you. He may be warm and caring when you’re giving him what he wants, then cold when you aren’t.

He might be playing you intentionally, but a Cancer man may also not realize he’s not genuinely interested. He might be worried about being alone or feel secure in your relationship, even if it’s not you that he’s interested in.

If you think your Cancer man might not be interested in you, talk to him. If something else is going on, he’ll open up. If he has genuinely lost interest, it’s time to end things.

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Be Patient & Do Your Own Thing

Your Cancer man will act hot and cold sometimes, even if he genuinely likes you. If you believe your Cancer man has good intentions but is having trouble expressing himself, be patient.

A Cancer man sometimes takes things slow. He isn’t always quick to open up and connect with someone, even if that’s what he wants. He will open up sometimes and be caring toward you but pull away due to his insecurities.

If your Cancer man is hiding his feelings, acting hot and cold, or refusing to open up to you fully, do your own thing. You can still spend time with him but don’t cling to him too much.

Instead, be patient and focus on yourself. Don’t spend too much time over-analyzing and worrying about your Cancer man’s hot and cold behavior. Try not to become frustrated or upset.