Do Virgo Men Fall in Love Easily?

When a Virgo man says “I love you” you know he’s been thinking it for a while. He will carefully evaluate a relationship before he lets himself love.

Before getting serious, he’ll make sure you’re the right one for him. He has high standards and will carefully analyze your compatibility. He’ll also watch to see if you fit in with his life goals and priorities.

Once you know the signs a Virgo man is falling in love with you, you’ll see his gradual style of opening up. He will easily show his love for you in practical ways.

The Attraction Process for a Virgo Man

Signs a Virgo man has a crush on you can be hard to read at first. He’s not one for dramatic displays of affection. More than words, you need to look for physical signs a Virgo man likes you.

He’ll like you first. It’s almost a guarantee set in stone. Virgo men don’t rush into love. They don’t even give themselves permission to have feelings until they’ve gone through a particular attraction process. He’s always cautious in love.

The signs a Virgo man is serious about you only become obvious once you’ve spent some time with him. You have to see how he treats you in comparison to how he treats people who really are “just friends.”

As he gets to know you, he’ll show special interest in you. He’s going to make you feel like a priority but not like his top priority. His top priority will always seem like work and other responsibilities. But among his friends, you’ll stand out.

He’ll go out of his way to try to help you and do things for you. He’ll give you advice. This is an important part of the attraction phase for him. He’s waiting to see if you show gratitude and appreciation. If you follow his guidance, he’ll feel like you respect him.

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The Road to Love Starts with Friendship

Signs of a Virgo man in love with you can start modestly. He’ll often want to be friends first. Through the process of friendship, he’ll analyze how well you both really work together. He’s going to take his time, though so be patient.

If you’re asking “Is a Virgo man attracted to me?” you’ve got to look at his behavior over time. He’s modest, cautious and slow moving. He won’t rush in. He’ll show you that he cares about you by doing things for you.

He will spend extra time with you. This may seem obvious, but a Virgo man is not one to change his schedule or break away from his work for just anyone. It’s a major sign of interest if he starts consistently scheduling you into his life.

When you’ve shown him that you’re a reliable, loyal, conscientious friend, he’ll feel more comfortable with you. He’ll be reassured that you are not going to be too demanding, too dramatic and that you won’t play games with his mind.

A Virgo man will not skip the friendship stage and go right into dating. He will use the friendship stage to establish the connection and to check to see if you live up to his high expectations and particular standards.

He Avoids Vulnerability

A Virgo man avoids vulnerability at all costs. Even when he’s in a relationship. He may fall in love with you and become deeply emotionally connected but on the surface it will seem like the dial is only moved in small increments.

You may wonder “Is my Virgo man in love with me?” because he acts interested but doesn’t come out and say it right away. You may also be accustomed to a man in love showing his passion and even jealousy.

You may wonder if you’re wasting your time. Yet you have to think about a Virgo in love from the perspective of a Virgo man. He is going to avoid feelings, yet love is all about emotions.

He’ll show his love in practical ways. He’ll do things for you and try to help you. A Virgo man is not going to become starry eyed and passionate. He’s going to need to keep his sense of control and composure even when in love.

That means his schedules, his routines, his rules and standards, his work priorities and all of his mundane obligations remain important to him. The difference is he’s added you as a priority. You need to be patient and let him show his love on his own terms.

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He Has Very Strong Boundaries

A Virgo man has very strong boundaries and this doesn’t change when he falls in love. He seems like a control freak and in some ways he is. He is concerned with maintaining security and stability.

His sense of order and methodical approach is deeply important to him. He will stay in control of his life while also showing his love for you. He’ll do practical things to try to help you.

When it’s time for him to leave, he’ll go even if he’s having a great time with you. When he has to wake up early, he’ll go to bed early even if you haven’t texted him yet. When he’s overwhelmed, he’ll step back.

Do Virgos say “I love you” in order to get you to commit? No. They will only say it when they mean it. Yet even acknowledging love will not guarantee that he will break his boundaries for you.

He Slowly Lets His Guard Down

A Virgo man doesn’t do anything hastily, especially falling in love. He follows his own strict rules and limits. He’ll let his guard down in gradual increments. He won’t just open up right away.

He loves to be there for you and show that he loves you but he will do so in pragmatic ways. He’ll show you that he is devoted to you but he won’t drop his boundaries. He doesn’t have commitment issues, he’s just realistic.

A Virgo man will gradually start to let his guard down when he sees, over time, that you are consistent and reliable. He’ll start to show you more of his personal life and inner world.

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He Starts to Fall in Love before Fully Showing It

Before a Virgo man starts to talk about love, he’s already feeling it. He’ll try to squash his feelings at first and will rationalize how he feels. Yet when he has no choice but to admit he loves you, he still won’t say it right away.

A Virgo man will finally give in and start to follow his attraction to you when he realizes he can’t intellectualize his way out of his feelings. He may start to develop feelings even as you are still friends. Yet he’ll keep strong boundaries.

By the time he does open up and express his love for you verbally, he’ll already have done numerous things to show you physically and practically, how he feels about you. A Virgo man is going to need time to let his heart and mind get into alignment.

A Virgo man will need to feel completely secure before he opens up and admits how he actually feels about you. He will say “I love you” in consistent intervals but he may not say it all the time. He’s not passionate and spontaneous.

He Constantly Analyzes the Attraction

Once he says the magic words, you’ve got nothing to worry about, right? Not necessarily. He is going to still analyze the attraction all throughout the relationship.

He constantly analyzes everything. He will need to feel like he’s not missing any detail. He needs to analyze the attraction and analyze how the relationship is working.

He’ll check to see if the relationship is too much of a distraction, or if you’re helping each other to be successful. If he feels like the relationship is slowing him down or interfering with his goals, he’ll start to pull away.

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He Avoids Facing His Emotions

Relationships bring out a Virgo man’s vulnerability so he will be guarded about falling in love even when his feelings start to take over. He loves to be in control and avoids acknowledging he even has emotions.

A Virgo man is going to speak in terms of his priorities, thoughts, ideas and plans. He’ll seldom speak about his feelings. He may try to run from and avoid them.

Usually, when a Virgo man is in love, he will have to acknowledge his attraction after time has gone by. Yet he will still want to remain stoic rather than show his vulnerability.

Don’t try to get a Virgo man to talk about his deeper emotions and secrets, even when a relationship is official. He won’t want to linger too long in emotional territory.

He’ll Admit He’s in Love Long After the Fact

Even if you think he’s sending you mixed signals, you can rest assured a Virgo man who acts even remotely in love, is in love. He won’t admit it right away but his feelings are already triggered.

He will let the relationship build up before he openly admits to his feelings. By the time he admits it, you may feel like you knew it all along. You need to give him time to overcome his defenses.

Don’t rush a Virgo man into making a commitment. He’ll shy away from any sign of pressure and will not allow himself to be rushed. He also doesn’t want to be controlled. Trust him to eventually open up once you’ve seen the signals.

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He Has High Standards

Why does a Virgo man take so long? He’s not afraid, he’s very picky. He has high standards. A Virgo man will take his time and make sure that he really getting everything he needs and wants in a relationship.

He has a code of conduct that he lives by. Pay attention, you’ll learn his rules. In fact he’ll likely describe his rules directly. He’ll probably even come right out and tell you what he likes and doesn’t like.

Following his rules and taking note of his boundaries and expectations is likely to guarantee that you will remain on his good side. You will need to give him time to make sure he is following his integrity and true standards.