Do Virgo Men Like Kinky Stuff?

A Virgo man, when he likes a woman, will want to please her. He’ll fulfill his love’s fantasies but he’s still modest. He draws a line with anything too kinky.

If you’re looking for a kinky lover to explore sexuality with, you may feel let down by a Virgo man. It’s important to keep your expectations reasonable.

When you see how a Virgo man interacts with you, it should be no surprise that he’s shy in bed. He’s always methodical and practical. He doesn’t like to take chances.

Virgo Men Are Moderate, Not Kinky

If you’re wondering how to tell when a Virgo man is interested in you, look for consistency. He’ll show up in your life regularly and he’ll want to make seeing you a part of his routines. Yet he never makes dramatic displays of affection.

Instead he remains lowkey and subtle. A Virgo man doesn’t want to draw a lot of attention to himself. Instead he likes to stick with tradition and work behind the scenes to make others happy. When it comes to sex, he opts for tradition as well.

He never gets bored. Not even when he follows the same sexual routines and sticks with the same one or two positions. In fact, the more methodical and routine his life is, the happier a Virgo man is.

This means he may not explore or experiment sexually at all. He will instead follow his same patterns. This can become boring for you, understandably. If you’re looking for ways to expand his repertoire, patience is a must.

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Virgo Men are Middle of the Road in Life and Intimacy

A Virgo man is as mild mannered as possible. He always tries to take the middle path and avoids extremes or controversy. He hates drama and would rather keep his routines stable and secure.

He resists change and can feel threatened by new routines or any other changes in his life. This is true as well in his sex life. He doesn’t want to break from his traditions.

When he knows what he likes, he doesn’t try to experiment with anything different. When you see the signs a Virgo man has a crush on you, you may have some leverage. A Virgo man will try to please a woman he loves.

Even so, it’s important to move slowly and be patient. Before spontaneously rushing to try something new with your Virgo man, talk to him about your fantasies. Make a plan to slowly explore your desires.

Will a Virgo man test you? No. To him, a test is too much of a mental manipulation and he lacks the duplicity to play mind games. He prefers to be direct and honest.

He’ll be honest about what he likes and doesn’t like in bed. He will set very strong boundaries about certain things that are off limits. Even if he may become flexible an open to trying new things, don’t push him to break his strong boundaries.

He Doesn’t Like Anything Controversial

A Virgo man doesn’t get involved in drama or controversy. Even a Virgo man in love will be neutral when it comes to showing his emotions. He prefers to be subtle and pragmatic.

He may look at sex as a simple act intended to serve very specific purposes. To him, sex is procreative and a way to relieve tension. He seldom looks at sex with the same emotional lens as many other people.

For this reason, he won’t get involved in anything too wild and controversial. He doesn’t see any purpose in pushing the boundaries of sexuality. A Virgo man flirting will also show this preference for neutrality.

He isn’t into edgy and adventurous sexting. Instead he prefers to be professional and even can be a perfectionist. He likes to be in control and isn’t interested in showing affection or sexual interest in dramatic ways.

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He’ll Avoid Anything Potentially Embarrassing

A Virgo man also doesn’t want to feel vulnerable. He’ll avoid getting involved in anything too kinky because he’ll feel embarrassed if he expresses his wilder desires.

Even if he has a kinky side, he’ll suppress it. No matter how much he trusts you, he will bury his desires and fetishes and instead remain controlled and methodical.

If you’re wondering how to text a Virgo man to flirt with him, try to keep your messages neutral and practical. If you flirt a little, keep it family friendly. It will embarrass a Virgo man to receive an explicit text at work or in public.

He’s so practical, in fact, that he may avoid letting loose in bed because he knows that at you may be angry with him or you may break up with him. He doesn’t want you to have an embarrassing secret to hold over him.

Virgo Men Aren’t Risk Takers

A Virgo man, when he wants you back, may become more flexible. Only to a point, though, as he has strong boundaries and very clear definition of what is and is not acceptable in bed.

He may even have rules for sexual encounters. He has rules for every part of his life. A Virgo man has rules for how to act in the kitchen, rules of when and how to text and so forth. He organizes his whole life with strict rules.

This helps him to maintain his sense of control at all times. Virgo men aren’t risk takers. They need life to be orderly, controlled and stable. He needs to see that you are modest and share his high standards.

If you are too careless and spontaneous. He may feel intimidated or insecure around you. It’s best to avoid this. Keep your expectations modest when it comes to sex with a Virgo man.

Even when he’s trying to impress you, there are certain lines he won’t cross. If he does try to entertain your desires and fantasies, he will do so in his own timing and with his own rules.

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The Kinkiest He’ll Get is Mild to Most People

The key to understanding how to reconnect with a Virgo man is to understand his personality. If you go through a breakup and want to get him back, you’ll need to show him you respect his boundaries.

The kinkiest a Virgo man will get will still seem mild. He doesn’t have a truly wild side. When he sees that you understand and are accepting of his style, he’ll be reassured and may be motivated to come back.

If he does have any fetishes at all, they are likely the kind that keeping him more at a distance from you, not closer to you. He’s naturally aloof. He is also germophobic and very health conscious.

If a Virgo man has any kind of kinky side, it will involve things that keep him at a safe distance. He may have a desire to look at erotic material, either alone or with you. He may have fantasies involving sexting or distanced intimacy.

If he does, he needs to be in control of when and where this happens. He doesn’t want to be interrupted at work with erotic texts for example. You may think that these fetishes can lead to deeper intimate connection with you.

Sometimes this is the case, but other times it is simply a matter of efficiency. A Virgo man would rather treat sex as a practical process of releasing energy so he can go back to his other daily routines.

If he does have an experimental side, it may even involve things he can do on his own. This can make him seem less interested in sex altogether. In some ways this is the case. Virgo is the Virgin of the Zodiac.

He’s concerned with perfectionism and purity. He doesn’t like to act on impulse. He also doesn’t see the need to dramatize or experiment with sexuality.

He’ll Carefully Analyze Before Trying New Things

A Virgo man will occasionally try new things in order to please you. It takes a lot to get him to open up to this extent. Before he’ll try new things, he will think about it for a long time.

Don’t expect him to be spontaneous. Instead he is a researcher. He’ll analyze the safety, risk, efficiency and every other possible aspect of anything new and experimental.

He won’t get into risky exploration or even fulfilling your fantasies, unless he’s spent some time analyzing every angle of what is being asked of him. Only then will he agree to try new things. He’ll become experimental but only on his own terms.

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Once He Finds a Comfortable Routine, He Stays With It

A Virgo man firmly believes “if it isn’t broken, don’t fix it.” When it comes to sex, he won’t try to reinvent the wheel. When he finds a position, routine or technique that he likes, he sticks with it.

He sees no reason to be experimental or adventurous in bed. A Virgo man would rather feel comfortable and secure than feel aroused. He doesn’t want to change up his routine and may even keep sex limited to specific times in his schedule.

His life is that rigid and controlled. He does this for a reason. He feels threatened by change. A Virgo man would rather continue to do what is familiar. He feels more secure when he’s in control.