Do Virgo Men Have a Freaky Side?

It’s rare that you’ll meet a Virgo man who really knows how to let loose and explore sexuality. Most Virgo men are modest and humble.

When it comes to sex, you’ll need to know common Virgo man turn offs. If you’re hoping to be adventurous, he may disappoint you. Virgo men are the opposite of freaky.

Under very specific circumstances you may get him to be open to experimenting in the bedroom, but don’t expect this right away. A Virgo man is a traditionalist.

Virgos are Modest

Virgo is the sign of the Virgin. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t like sex, but a Virgo man in bed is quite modest. If you want to explore new techniques or positions, a Virgo man is not likely to be a good match.

If a Virgo man could deprogram himself from sexual urges, he would. The fact of the matter is, he doesn’t like to give in to any instinct or emotion. Even a Virgo man in love would rather focus on building a life together.

He would rather focus on rationality and logic, not passions. Virgo men are confident in many ways, but they are deeply intimidated and disturbed by the fact that they have feelings. Feelings, even sexual arousal, threaten their sense of control.

A Virgo man would rather only invest his time and energy in things that make sense and are easily controlled like ideas and actions. When it comes to sex he can be reserved, trying above all else to control himself.

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Virgo Men Prefer Practicality to Adventure

The key to understanding a Virgo man is to think like a robot. Virgo men are all about practicality and efficiency. This is not a romantic way to approach life, but it is how he is wired to think.

When it comes to sex, a Virgo man is easily able to focus on the act as serving a purpose. Conception is one of those purposes, but so is stress relief. He may look to sex purely as a practical act.

He may feel aroused and think “Ok, now I have to get this over with so I can move on to the next task on my list.” Again, not romantic at all. Yet Virgo men aren’t known for their sentimentality.

Don’t be offended to know that a Virgo man isn’t seeking deep emotional connection through sexuality. He doesn’t want deep emotional connection, ever. He is instead looking for a way to relieve stress, share some intimacy and perhaps create a family.

He is acting off of a physical instinct. The same way that he may eat when he is hungry, a Virgo man will have sex when he is aroused but it is purely for procreation or a release of sexual tension. Usually it is not symbolic of deeper emotions.

Virgo men are more uncomfortable with sex than comfortable with it. It makes them feel vulnerable and exposes them to things they usually try to avoid, like emotions. Also on a practical level, Virgo men can be germophobic.

The practical risks involved in sex present a challenge to a Virgo man who may want to satisfy an instinct so he can return to trying to control things through his intellect. Yet he is also not fully comfortable with giving in to this instinct.

If He Has an Inner Freak Flag, He Doesn’t Fly It

Even if a specific Virgo man has nontraditional sexual desires and fantasies, he will take these secrets to the grave with him. No matter how much he loves you, he won’t show this side of himself.

This is one more way for a Virgo man to feel in control of himself and his life. Some say a Virgo man is selfish in bed. This isn’t exactly fair but it can seem accurate.

He will take care of the basic needs of sexual release and then move on to the next task at hand. He doesn’t take the time to satisfy his partner or explore new things. He isn’t trying to be selfish.

He’s just trying to stick to the basic actions required to do the deed. A Virgo man doesn’t put pineapple on his pizza. Every part of his life is traditional, controlled and efficient. He certainly doesn’t go for frills and thrills in the bedroom.

He doesn’t reinvent the wheel when it comes to sex. A Virgo man is also standard and in some ways old fashioned in the bedroom. A Virgo man in bed with a Capricorn woman are a good combination because they both appreciate tradition.

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He May Be Drawn to Your Freaky Side

What does a Virgo man look for in a woman? Someone who is different enough to break him out of his routines, gradually. At the same time, he wants to be with a woman who shares his perfectionist standards.

He may find your relaxation and confidence in your sexuality inspiring. This can help him relax and be more open to trying new things in bed. First, though, you have to make your interests seem normal to him.

If you have a fetish or desire that is outside of his comfort zone, a Virgo man will shy away at first. Yet if you are able to present your interests to him as research, you’ll appeal to his intellectual nature.

He may appreciate you broadening his horizons, but only if you do so gradually. Respect his boundaries and introduce new ideas as future plans. Don’t try to be spontaneous and jump in to something new and freaky. He’ll feel overwhelmed.

A Virgo Man Won’t Risk Losing Control

When you do introduce the idea of trying new things in bed, talk about it first. Share articles or books you’ve read about your interest or desire. Intellectualizing it puts the conversation in a Virgo man’s safe zone.

Let him see that he is in control. Teach him about something new and encourage him to research it. Then leave the ball in his court. Let him know it is up to him if and when you try these new techniques out together.

This will reassure him. A Virgo man is a control freak but is subdued when it comes to freakiness in the bedroom. If he is open to trying something new, he will likely read and talk about it first. Don’t be turned off by this.

He’s a planner because he is not spontaneous. A Virgo man is not going to give up any measure of control. He wants to be the one to determine the boundaries and his sense of security is of utmost importance to him.

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He Doesn’t Want to Rock the Boat, Ever

A Virgo man’s motto is “If it isn’t broken, don’t fix it.” This is true of his attitude toward sex as well. In his mind, there are one or two ways that people have engaged sexually for centuries, why try anything else?

What he may not know is that there is a much broader spectrum of sexual desires and expression than he realizes. He doesn’t bother to seek this information because once he finds something that works for him, he looks no further.

If his early sexual experiences were moderate and traditional, he won’t go out of his way to find new ways to accomplish the same goal. A Virgo man isn’t out to rock the boat. He just wants to express his sexual energy and then move on to the next thing.

You can use his desire for research and perfection to your advantage. If you find articles about ways to perfect sexual performance, he’ll take interest. Playing to his desire to be a perfectionist will make him open to exploring.

A Virgo Man is Easily Embarrassed

If you’re wondering how to sext a Virgo man, take note this is not a good idea. The last thing a Virgo man wants is to look at his phone at work and see a freaky message. He doesn’t appreciate being sent nude pictures or suggestive messages usually.

Even worse, if his boss is standing over his shoulder and sees you’ve sent him erotic messages, he’ll be humiliated. You don’t want to embarrass a Virgo man. He is modest and humble and takes his reputation seriously.

The only time you know it is ok to sext a Virgo man is if and when he initiates it. This may be his way of exploring his sexuality from a safe distance. If he shows an interest in sexting, follow his lead. Let him set the tone when it comes to sexting.

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He Prefers Tradition to Kinkiness

A Virgo man prefers traditional displays of affection and love to kinkiness of any kind. He doesn’t understand why people are interested in role playing or sex toys. He looks at sex as an act of procreation and pleasure.

He’s a man of simple pleasures as well. A Virgo man doesn’t want to distract from the act of intimacy by turning it into a game. He doesn’t understand the purpose of elaborating on act he views as rather simple and straight forward.

If you are trying to get him to be more experimental, find evidence that your sexual desires or fantasies are quite common or even traditional. If he sees an act as “normal” he won’t be turned off.

He Isn’t Known for Being Creative

A Virgo man isn’t known for being creative. He can fix just about anything that is broken and knows how to build things. He has great survivalist skills. If he was trapped on an island with no one else, he could be resourceful enough to do just fine.

But that is the extent of his creativity. He doesn’t bother to expend energy on imagination. Only when it helps him to solve practical problems. When it comes to sexuality, a Virgo man is happy to maintain consistent routines.

He may seem methodical and unimaginative in bed. This is an extension of his personality in all areas of his life. A Virgo man doesn’t put extra effort into expanding his repertoire.

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He Likes to Play it Safe

A Virgo man easily places health and practical needs above his desires and pleasure seeking. He knows there are myriad health risks from careless sexual encounters. This prevents him from being adventurous.

Combine this with his focus on hygiene and a Virgo man’s sexual interests will become more limited. He doesn’t want to put himself, or you, at risk for momentary pleasures. A Virgo man would rather have less contact if it means he can prevent diseases.

If certain positions or techniques increase the spread of hazardous bacteria, he will lose his all interest and focus in on the risks to his health. He may see the inherent risk of injury or illness in sexual acts others think of as fun.