Are Virgo Men Freaks?

Is a Virgo man a freak in bed? More often than not, the answer is no. At least, that’s what he wants you to think.

Virgo is often too high-strung to be a freak. He worries too much. So many things make him anxious and nervous.

He also worries about other people judging him and gets self-conscious even if he does want to do something freaky.

Some Virgo men straight up just aren’t freaks. The ones that are aren’t going to be obvious about it and it’ll take some time to discover their freaky side.

Neat Freak

This is the phrase you’re going to see most often when you see both “Virgo” and “freak” in the same sentence.

Being clean is one of a Virgo man’s characteristics. He is happiest when he’s in a neat environment and everything is clean and tidy. He keeps his space in perfect order at all times.

What does this have to do with being a freak in bed, though?

Being a neat freak stops him from being too freaky in the bedroom. He doesn’t like a mess. If the environment is messy, he’ll be turned off. Some sexual acts are too dirty for him as well.

There have likely been times where a Virgo went home with somebody, only to leave because their home wasn’t cleaned to his standards. His obsession with cleanliness can get in the way of letting loose.

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Self-Conscious

Virgo worries about what other people think of him. He pretends he doesn’t. He feigns being confident and secure in himself. He’s not.

Virgo gets very self-conscious. He is often hyper-aware of the people around him. If he thinks somebody is looking at him, he tries to control his actions so he doesn’t do anything they might take issue with.

He doesn’t want people to judge him. For this reason, he might hide any freakish tendencies he does have.

Even if he wanted to try out something wild in bed, he might not ask his partner about it. He gets too worried about how they might react.

He often catastrophizes. People likely aren’t judging him or noticing him as much as he thinks they are. What he thinks is freaky might be considered totally normal to somebody else too.

Judgemental

How does a Virgo man flirt? He mostly does so by striking up intellectual conversations and telling intelligent jokes. He can be very judgemental about people who flirt by “throwing themselves” at the other person.

He worries about people judging his bedroom habits but he absolutely judges theirs.

He might judge somebody just based on their appearance and decide that they’re not compatible with him in bed. He has absolutely no idea if they are but once he’s written somebody off, it’s hard to change his mind.

If you’re with a Virgo, be prepared to be turned down if you ask to do certain things in bed. He likely won’t always be nice about it either.

There are certain things he thinks are too dirty for him. He likely has some strong negative opinions about particular sex acts. It’s hard for him to get freaky when he’s busy judging everyone else who is.

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Doesn’t Take Risks

Virgo isn’t the type of man who has many one-night stands or multiple partners at the same time.

One reason for this is that he isn’t a risk-taker.

There are all kinds of risks you take when you have sex with somebody you don’t know. He has no way of knowing if a person he just met is safe to have sex with.

He doesn’t want to get an STD. Plenty of people have casual sex without worrying about STDs because they use protection, get frequently tested, etc. Virgo still worries about the risk.

When he’s in a committed relationship with somebody and they are exclusive, he feels safer having sex with them because he knows they’re clean.

He also worries about taking somebody he doesn’t know back to his house or going back to theirs. He doesn’t know if they’re trustworthy or if they have good intentions.

Plays It Safe

Virgo plays it safe when it comes to sex. As mentioned, this means he doesn’t often have a lot of partners and he doesn’t usually like one-night stands.

He always practices safe sex and he gets tested if there’s any chance he might have been exposed to something.

He still plays it safe when he’s having sex with somebody he’s in a committed relationship with.

If his partner wants to try something new in bed, he wants to research it before they do anything. Some sexual acts come with risks, especially when you start introducing kinks into the bedroom.

He wants to know all the risks before he does something. He wants to know how to do it correctly. He wants to know what to do if something goes wrong.

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Always Has a Plan

Getting a Virgo in bed can be hard if he hasn’t made any plans on diving into bed with somebody that night.

He rarely goes home with somebody at a bar unless he specifically went to the bar looking for somebody to have sex with. If it’s not in his plan, he’s probably not doing it.

He plans things out when he does have sex too. This isn’t always extreme. There are likely a few Virgo men who schedule out their sex life down to the hour but most of them don’t.

As mentioned, he does like to have a plan if he and his partner are trying something new. This can get in the way when it comes to spontaneity.

He doesn’t like to be surprised in bed. He likes to do things he’s comfortable with and that he knows he likes.

If he’s going to get out of his comfort zone, he wants to be prepared for that beforehand.

Like Having Control

Virgo likes to be in control. This is especially true when it comes to his emotions and the way he acts.

He has an image he presents to the world and he wants people to see him a certain way. He hates it when he slips up and ruins that image.

One reason he doesn’t try new things in bed is because that would mean giving up some of his control to the unknown. It can be difficult for him to let go enough to take a risk and experience something new.

A Virgo man’s ideal woman is somebody who doesn’t mind it when he’s in control. However, his best match is actually somebody he’s comfortable giving up control to.

He does like to be in control when he’s in bed sometimes. However, he also has a great time when he’s able to let go of that control and allow somebody else to take the reins.

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Anxious

Virgo men can get very anxious. This is a man who is easily stressed out and he lets that stress affect all areas of his life.

For some Virgo men, physical touch can be anxiety-inducing. He doesn’t let just anybody touch him and has to work up to physical affection with most people.

This makes things like casual sex difficult. He doesn’t want to have sex if he doesn’t feel comfortable with somebody. He might feel too anxious to have a good time if he’s around somebody he doesn’t know.

Anxiety is another reason he doesn’t try new things. He can sometimes get himself worked up thinking about all the ways things could go wrong.

Worries too Much

Understanding a Virgo man can be difficult at times. Even if a Virgo man is attracted to you and wants to have sex, he sometimes lets his worries get the best of him.

He might worry that you won’t like his body once he takes his clothes off. He might worry about his lack of experience. He might worry about his skills in bed.

His worries can stop him from doing things he wants to do at times. Sometimes, he needs help calming down before he can get into bed with you.

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Secret Freak

A Virgo man’s fantasies aren’t things he discusses with everybody. In fact, he probably has partners who have never even heard of all the things he fantasizes about.

Being patient with a Virgo man is vital if you ever want to learn about his secret fantasies.

Not every single Virgo man only likes “boring”, vanilla sex. Some have certain kinks they like. Some may even have some truly freaky fantasies.

He doesn’t let his freak flag fly easily, though. He needs to be extremely comfortable with somebody before he lets them see that side of him.

If you’re in a long-term, committed relationship and he’s committed to you fully, he might start to open up more.

It might be easier to get him to try new things. He might not become a freak in the sheets overnight but he will loosen up.