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How To Catch a Virgo Man’s Eyes?

Updated December 15, 2024

Catching a Virgo man’s eye can be difficult sometimes. He’s a discerning man with particular tastes in women. He can be picky.

Don’t let that discourage you, though! There are definitely things you can do to catch his eye.

How do you catch a Virgo man’s eye? You shouldn’t change yourself just to make him like you, of course, but there are some things you can do to make him notice you.

Confidence, an elegant, clean appearance, and intelligence are just some of the ways you can get a Virgo to look your way.

You won’t always know how to tell if a Virgo likes you but there are some things you can do to try and catch his eye. From there, you’ll have to figure out if your efforts are working.

Clean Appearance

Many of a Virgo man’s likes and dislikes in a woman have to do with her appearance. This doesn’t mean he’s shallow or obsessed with looks, though.

Virgo will pay more attention to you if you have a neat appearance. He notices when people have (or haven’t) been keeping up with their hygiene routine.

If you show up to a party with a clean, wrinkle-free dress, clear skin, and a neat hairdo, he’ll notice you.

Just being clean won’t make him fall head over heels for you, of course. This is the first step in making sure that you don’t turn him off.

A clean appearance tells him that you care about yourself and you make an effort to look nice. Your exact fashion sense isn’t going to matter to him, he just wants to see that you take the time to look put together.

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Elegant Outfits

A Virgo man’s ideal woman is elegant, graceful, and sophisticated. One way to show him you possess these traits is in the way that you dress.

There are different ways to be elegant. You don’t need to start wearing fancy dresses or expensive jewelry to catch his eye. You can be elegant while sticking to your own fashion sense.

Whatever your style, a cohesive, well-put-together outfit is going to look more elegant than something you threw together at the last minute.

Pay attention to your whole look. Your outfit, makeup, hair, shoes, jewelry, etc. should all go together. Make sure you don’t neglect any aspect of your appearance.

An elegant appearance is made even better when you walk with grace and act in a sophisticated manner. You’ll pull the look together by being light on your feet and adopting a sophisticated air about you.

Be Mysterious

If a Virgo man is observing you, don’t let him figure everything out all at once. Be mysterious. Make him wonder about you.

Virgo is sometimes attracted to signs like Scorpio because of their sense of mystery. Something about that kind of energy just draws him in.

He likes to learn about the world and he knows there are so many things out there that he still doesn’t know. If he can’t quite figure you out, he’ll want to talk to you so that he can get his questions answered.

When you show up to a party he’s at, don’t walk over to him right away. Stand across the room. Catch his gaze and then continue doing whatever it is you were doing.

If you’re having a conversation when he walks over, suddenly stop talking. He’ll have to speak with you to figure out what was going on before he got there.

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Be Confident

If a Virgo man is attracted to you, one thing he’s likely attracted to is your confidence.

Be comfortable in your own skin. Own who you are and don’t hold back any aspect of your personality just because you think somebody might not like it.

If Virgo doesn’t like your genuine personality, he’s not worth going after to begin with.

Walk as if you have somewhere to be. When you say something, say it confidently. Don’t let anyone make you doubt yourself.

He’ll be able to pick up on that confident aura right away. He likes to put on a confident air as well, even if he isn’t always actually confident.

He is attracted to people who are confident because they can help him to develop his own confidence. When you’re comfortable just being you, he’ll take notice.

Socialize Around Him

Don’t just socialize with Virgo, socialize around him.

Show him that you are a witty, social person who has plenty of people to talk to. Have intelligent conversations with people who aren’t him. Make them laugh.

You’ll be able to easily find out a Virgo man’s likes and dislikes when you spend a lot of time around him.

If you spend time with his friends or just see him frequently, you will start to pick up on specific ways to get his attention.

Do Virgos stare when they like someone? He tries not to get caught but he does. Pay attention to where his gaze is when you’re in a group with him.

One of the obvious signs a Virgo man likes you can be seen when you are socializing in groups. If he’s talking to somebody else when you show up, he might cut his conversation short and head your way.

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Speak Intelligently

If Virgo is around, strike up an intelligent conversation with someone. It doesn’t have to be with him for him to notice you.

He appreciates intelligence in a woman. He’s not turned off by a woman who is capable of having an intellectual conversation.

You don’t have to be the smartest person in the room to catch his eye. Just speak about what you know. Think before you speak. Gather your thoughts and carefully consider your words.

If he overhears you having an intense discussion, he might want to join in. He loves learning about new things and interacting with people who know what they’re talking about.

Ask for Help

This is something you have to be careful with. It won’t work with all Virgos.

Some Virgo men love to help everyone around them. He’ll gladly assist friends, acquaintances, even strangers. If you ask him for help with something, that will appeal to the selfless side of his personality.

Don’t ask for help too much, though. Don’t ask for help when you don’t actually need it either. You want to show him that you trust him to assist you with whatever it is and that you’re not afraid to ask for help.

If he declines, that might be a sign he still considers you a stranger and that he isn’t the type of person who likes helping people he isn’t close to.

If you’re looking for signs that a Virgo man secretly likes you, pay attention to how often he offers to help you.

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Be Proud of Your Work

Virgo is a hard worker. He loves it when people notice his accomplishments but he’s often humble about it.

When you take pride in your work, though, he’ll notice you.

Virgo often wishes he had confidence in his work and that he was able to be proud of it. He’s overly critical of himself and isn’t always pleased with what he does, even if everyone else is.

Showing that you’re proud of what you’ve done is another way of displaying confidence. It’s also a good way to get him to notice your work.

If you’re an artist, show off your art! If you just got a promotion, brag about it a little. When you nail a presentation at work, let everyone know how well you did.

This will show him that you’re a hardworking, accomplished person.

Help Tidy Up

What do Virgo men like in a partner? One thing he enjoys is somebody who is as tidy as he is.

At the end of the party, you can often find Virgo wandering around gathering up bottles and picking up trash that was left behind. He doesn’t like to leave a mess and will gladly tidy up even if he’s not the host.

Join him. Help gather things up, sweep, do dishes, etc. Help clean up in any way you can.

If you’re at his place, you’ll need to make sure you ask first, though. He doesn’t always like it when other people touch his things.

You can do small things like put recycling in the bin or make sure there’s no trash on the tables.

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Be Compassionate

If you are a kind, caring person, other people will notice. This includes Virgo.

Virgo notices when somebody is genuinely a good person. He’ll see the way you treat other people around you. If you have mutual friends, he’ll hear stories about your deeds (good and bad).

Be compassionate to everyone around you. If somebody seems down during a group outing, check in with them. Be willing to help if somebody needs it. Help cheer up your friends when they’re having a bad day.

Virgo needs compassion in his life. If he sees that you’re a compassionate person, he might want to get to know you.

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