10 Signs a Virgo Man is Serious About You

Virgo man crush signs are understated. You have to understand how he thinks. Otherwise, you’ll miss the cues that he’s serious about you.

A Virgo man, when he likes a woman, will move with caution. You may think he’s not serious. Will a Virgo man test you? No, but he will tiptoe around his feelings.

Even a Virgo man obsessed with you will remain rational, calm composure. He won’t let his passions rule his decisions. When he’s serious about you, he’ll want things to be perfect.

1. He Makes Time for You

A Virgo man hides his feelings. There are some clear signs of a Virgo man in love. He won’t show his passion overtly. He’ll do small things to make you part of his life.

As obvious as it may seem, a Virgo man will make time for you when he loves you. Don’t underestimate his willingness to do this. It takes a lot for a Virgo man to make changes to his schedule or routines. His time is more precious than gold, to him.

When a Virgo man changes his routines to allow him to spend time with you, it’s like he’s moving mountains. This is important because it is one of the most significant early signs of a Virgo man in love.

Yet because it seems so ordinary, it is also one of the easiest signals to overlook. When you recognize him making time for you as a sign of serious interest, you’ll be able to nurture the blossoming relationship.

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2. He Introduces You to Family and Friends

A Virgo man’s insecurities in love will lead him to doubt his feelings and focus on his rational appraisals of your potential. He won’t announce his interest to anyone until he’s serious. It’s not that he’s embarrassed by you.

Don’t personalize his discreet nature. He’s not keeping you a secret. He’s setting a foundation. He needs to feel sure of his decision. He’ll evaluate the potential of the relationship carefully. When he starts to introduce you to people, he’s serious.

He may actually introduce you as his girlfriend. But even if he doesn’t, don’t panic. He has very strong boundaries. If he introduces you to friends, you’re in good shape. If he introduces you to his family, he’s even more serious.

He doesn’t like to let people in to his inner life. So when he introduces you to his inner circle, and introduces his closest friends and family to his love interest, two worlds are colliding. This means he’s serious.

Otherwise he would keep family, friends and romance all in separate compartments. When he brings you into his personal life and lets you meet his family, he definitely sees a future for the two of you.

3. He Invites You to His Home

A Virgo man’s home is his sanctuary. When a Virgo man says “I love you,” rest assured, he really means it. Yet he may not come right out and say it at first. He’ll always show it.

One way he indicates that he’s serious about you is when he invites you into his home. Virgo men always need to feel like they are in charge of their surroundings.

They usually don’t feel comfortable having others into their homes. There is just too much opportunity for things to be moved, touched, broken, spilled, all the things super-tidy and meticulous Virgo can’t stand. When he invites you in, you know he’s serious.

Otherwise he would never take a risk of feeling anxious about having another person in his private space. This may seem odd, since you’re sitting in his living room and not rifling through his underwear drawer, but a Virgo feels exposed when you’re in his home.

He’ll only do this when he really trusts you and wants to bring you closer into his life. A Virgo man is serious about you if he lets his guard down and brings you into his home. This is a major milestone for him.

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4. He Texts You Regularly

If you want to get him to be serious, you need to know how to text a Virgo man. His style is completely practical. If you don’t understand him, you may think he’s being cold.

He’s really not, though. He won’t waste time texting. He doesn’t make small talk. He only reserves texting or other communication for important issues that require exchange of information.

If you text him cute pictures or funny videos to get his attention, he’ll think you’re wasting his time. Don’t get into this habit. He only wants to be interrupted to check his phone if it is truly important.

Also, he won’t text you back right away most of the time. He still may care about you. Don’t read into his texting behavior. It really is as simple as him being busy, or driving, or not being able to respond.

When you send a text, treat it the same way you would leave a voicemail. No one wants to hear a voicemail rambling on and on about topics of no real importance.

Likewise, a Virgo man will consider it rude if you text him chunky paragraphs full of information that could be condensed to a few lines. Text in a way that shows respect for his time.

When he’s serious about you, he may not text morning, noon and night. He will text to check in with you, though. He’ll also text you to share information pertinent to specific plans. Once in a while, he may text more.

5. He Never Cancels Plans

When a Virgo man is really interested in you, he’ll steadily make plans to see you. Even if it’s just weekly, you’ll have a standing appointment in his life.

A Virgo man who is serious about you will never cancel plans. He will set a date with you and treat this like it is a sworn oath.

He always follows through and you never have to guess about his reliability. When a Virgo man is serious about you, he’ll go the extra mile to start making commitments, plans and promises and he won’t back out.

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6. He Talks About a Future

A Virgo man’s dominant concern is stability. He wants to create a secure foundation. Will a Virgo man lead you on? No, but he will approach commitment slowly.

If a Virgo man wants you back when a relationship ends, or if he’s ready to make a new relationship more serious, he’ll talk future plans. Virgos are down to earth. They don’t start planning the wedding on the third date.

Instead they carefully analyze every part of the relationship. He doesn’t have a fairy tale fantasy about living happily ever after. He knows relationships are hard work and strategy.

When he starts to talk about his strategy with you, he’s serious. This could be his future plan to live with you, his plan to potentially marry or have a family someday and so forth.

If he’s serious, he’ll start planning for practical matters. Making sure you have health insurance, putting you in his will, blending your lives and financial responsibilities together.

These seem like morbid steps to take, but this is the type of planning a Virgo man loves to do. He is all about making sure that you are safe and secure.

7. He Tells You Openly

An unbeatable sign that a Virgo man is serious about you and the relationship is when he comes right out and tells you. He doesn’t lie about his feelings.

If anything, he’ll downplay his interest. By the time he expresses his love and commitment openly, he’s already felt it for a while.

A Virgo man will express his desire for a serious relationship in a way similar to hashing out a business deal or sales contract. He will speak matter-of-factly about his intentions and won’t keep you guessing.

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8. He Starts to Make “Rules” for the Relationship

One of the ways a Virgo man sets the stage for a more serious relationship is by setting his ground rules. He’s clear about his boundaries.

He’ll make his expectations known to you in no uncertain terms. A Virgo man may have a contract-like way of explaining his expectations for the relationship. It is wise to take note of his standards.

He doesn’t go into the rules of the relationship until he is ready to actually commit and be serious. By this point, he’s analyzed the relationship and given himself time to get to know you.

9. He Starts to Get More Emotional

Though this can be one of the final steps that a Virgo man will take to show his sincerity, it is also rare. Virgo men are not, by nature, emotional.

Yet when he does show vulnerability and become slightly more emotional than usual, it’s a good sign he’s really in love with you. Women often get restless before this happens.

They assume if he isn’t showing feelings, he’s not interested. This isn’t true. He takes a long time to warm up. Even then, he prefers to be emotionally under control and stoic.

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10. He Tries to Help You

Virgo men are always friendly. Yet when he goes out of his way to try to help you, he’s taking a vested interest in your life. He tries to be of service to you as a signal of his feelings.

When a Virgo man spontaneously starts fixing things for you or giving you advice, he’s showing his love. He’s not being nosy or intrusive. He’s trying to show he cares.

When a Virgo man is serious he starts to act like you are part of his life. He may feel responsible for you. If you want to know how to reconnect with a Virgo man, ask for his help with a project.