Who’s The Scorpio Man’s Soulmate?

Scorpio men tend to have strong connections with other water signs, as well as earth signs. This doesn’t mean he won’t fall in love with a fire or air sign, though!

Scorpio wants to have a partner he can trust above all else. Somebody honest and loyal is going to have an easier time winning his heart. He needs to feel a strong connection.

He needs a partner who is adventurous and ambitious as well. If you want to be with him, you need to be able to match his energy.

Emotional Connection

Scorpio men in relationships need to feel a strong emotional connection with their partners. Somebody who is emotionally closed-off or who isn’t willing to open up to him isn’t going to have a good relationship with him.

Scorpio has a hard time opening up to people so it’s best if he has a partner who has an easier time with being emotionally open.

He sometimes needs some coaxing to truly open up to his partner. He needs somebody who is good at understanding his emotional boundaries while also being able to get him out of his comfort zone.

Without a deep emotional connection, there is no relationship for a Scorpio man.

He wants his partner to also be his best friend. He needs somebody he can trust with his secrets and who will be there for him when he needs emotional support.

A Scorpio man will feel truly happy when he and his partner understand one another on a deep emotional level.

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Physical Connection

Scorpio’s twin flame is somebody he has a physical connection with as well. When he has both an emotional and physical connection with somebody, that creates a strong relationship.

This isn’t just about sex. Scorpio men are very affectionate, even if they may not always seem like it. A Scorpio man needs somebody who will be affectionate and intimate with him, even when it’s non-sexual.

When a Scorpio man touches you, it means something. He doesn’t exchange hugs with strangers just to be pleasant.

He won’t kiss a partner out of obligation. He won’t stick around to cuddle if he’s not feeling it.

Some Scorpio men are only physically affectionate within the confines of their romantic relationship. They might be touch-averse with other people.

This makes a physical connection especially important for a Scorpio man.

If he’s not getting physical affection from other people, he needs to get it from his partner. A partner who is open with affection will attract him more.

Patient

One of a Scorpio man’s weaknesses in love is his difficulty opening up to people. He takes a long time to trust somebody enough to give them his heart.

Not everyone is patient enough to wait for a Scorpio man to let them in. The early stages of dating a Scorpio man can be difficult because he might take a long time to get on the same page as you.

He isn’t going to trust you right away. He isn’t going to open up until he’s sure it won’t be a mistake.

Somebody who is patient will find that waiting for a Scorpio man is worth it. Let him go at his own pace. Let him take his time in opening up to you.

He needs a partner who will remain patient throughout their relationship as well. He might slip back into old habits. It might take him a while to get used to having a partner. He needs a lot of love and patience.

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Loyal

The best match for a Scorpio man is somebody who is just as loyal in a relationship as he is.

How does a Scorpio man show love? One way is with his loyalty and devotion to his partner.

He would do anything for his partner. When he loves somebody, he gives them his whole heart. He doesn’t want to do anything to break his partner’s heart and he certainly doesn’t want them to break his.

He needs a partner who will keep their promises to him. If he wants a monogamous relationship and his partner agrees to that, they need to remain faithful to him. He’ll be faithful and he expects the same in return.

He needs somebody who will stand by him through thick and thin. He knows he can be difficult sometimes. He knows he has flaws. He needs somebody who will love him and stay with him anyway.

Empathetic

Scorpio men have big emotions. They feel things deeply, even if they don’t always show it.

Somebody who can understand his emotions is going to be the best partner for him. This is one of the reasons Scorpio is often compatible with other water signs. They tend to know his emotional depths.

He isn’t always good at telling people when he’s feeling sad or upset. He needs a partner who will be able to tell when he’s feeling down and who will do what they can to get him to open up.

In addition to being empathetic, he needs a compassionate partner. He needs somebody who will not just understand his feelings but validate them.

He also needs somebody who knows how to cheer him up. He needs someone who can be his shoulder to cry on or who can just distract him when he needs it.

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Ambitious

Scorpio men like it when their partners are ambitious. Scorpio tends to be an ambitious sign and he is attracted to people who are as well.

This is one of the reasons Scorpio gets along well with earth signs. They are hardworking and goal-oriented.

Scorpio isn’t necessarily focused on career-related ambition, though. He just wants a partner who has goals and who will do what it takes to reach those goals.

Whatever your goals are, he’ll gladly support you in them. If you can support him with his goals too, your relationship will be even stronger.

Observant

An observant partner is going to have a better relationship with a Scorpio man than one who is not.

Things aren’t always what they seem with Scorpio. Scorpio men are good at hiding their emotions and their true motives when they want to.

He needs somebody who can see past the facade and actually see him for who he is.

A Scorpio man needs a partner who will be able to tell when something is “off” because he won’t always tell his partner. He doesn’t like to seem weak and he also doesn’t like to feel like a burden.

He needs a partner who will notice the little things about him. He’s used to noticing minor details about other people. It’s nice when somebody notices him for once.

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Independent

What attracts Scorpio men is independence. He doesn’t want to be with somebody who needs him to take care of them.

He wants to be with somebody who wants to be around him and who is choosing to have him in their life because they desire him, not because they need him.

This doesn’t mean that he won’t take care of his partner when they need it. If his partner is sick, he’ll take care of them. If his partner needs help, he’ll gladly offer it.

He just doesn’t want to be in a relationship with somebody who has an ulterior motive for the relationship.

If somebody is just with him for his money or because they think he’ll take care of everything for them, the relationship won’t last long.

Adventurous

Scorpio men are adventurous! They enjoy experiencing all life has to offer almost as much as fire signs do.

A Scorpio man needs a partner who will join him on his adventures. Whether it’s traveling halfway across the world or just trying something new in bed, he wants a partner who is open to new experiences.

Scorpio men like to have fun. They can’t stand feeling bored.

He will fall into routines and he’ll sometimes have certain ways he likes things done. However, he also likes to mix things up and transform his life if he feels like he’s stuck in a rut.

He needs a partner who will encourage him to get out of his comfort zone when he does get stuck. He wants a partner who will be willing to join him on whatever wild adventures he comes up with too.

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Mutual Respect

The best match for Scorpio is somebody who respects him and who he respects just as much.

One of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you is that he’ll care about the things you care about.

Even if he doesn’t necessarily like a specific hobby of yours, he’ll still listen to you talk about it. He’ll even go out of his way to get you gifts related to the hobby.