How to Turn On a Pisces Man in Bed

A Pisces man in bed with a Taurus woman can act different from a Pisces man in bed with a Cancer woman. He’s a master of disguises and easily changes his tactics.

A Pisces man in bed can be imaginative, resourceful, creative and exciting. However, a Pisces man in bed with a Virgo woman can be more subdued.

It all depends on what he thinks you want. Figuring out what he wants can be tricky because he hides his fantasies in an effort to please you.

Be Vulnerable

What does a Pisces man look for in a woman? He looks for someone who is compassionate, nurturing and more stable and assertive than he is. When it comes to relationships, a Pisces man easily loses himself.

The same is true of his intimate relationships with you. He’ll disguise his own feelings and desires in order to please you. One of the best ways to elicit what he really wants and help him open up about his fantasies is to show vulnerability.

As an added bonus, he will also find this sexy. But more importantly, when you show your own vulnerability, you’re helping a Pisces man open up about his fantasies. You’re proving to him that you won’t try to overwhelm him.

Show a Pisces man that you have a soft side and it will accentuate his connection with you. In bed, this can create a stronger intimate connection. He may even begin to open up to you more about his sexual interests.

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Be Sensual

What attracts a Pisces man is affection and sensuality. He loves to connect romantically and when you show your sensual side, he will become more aroused and excited.

Pisces men need to explore their hedonism and pleasure-seeking side. When you act sensual, he will be seduced and fall more deeply in love with you. Pisces men love to see that you are completely immersed in the moment.

Plan the perfect music for a night of intimacy. Set the scene and make sure everything about the bedroom is comfortable and luxurious. Make sure the atmosphere helps to accentuate his desires and fantasies.

Sleeping with a Pisces man too soon is not reason to worry. He will be comfortable with you because you were willing to take a risk and explore sexuality with him. Just be sure to pay attention to all of his senses.

Set the Mood

Mood is important to a Pisces man. He is completely aligned with his feelings one moment to the next and his moods can vary widely. When you want to get him excited and help him enjoy intimacy, play to his moods.

Make sure everything about your bedroom embodies the love nest a Pisces man needs it to be. Make him feel like he can completely relax and let go. Fresh bedding, extra soft sheets, numerous pillows of all shapes and sizes can make him feel relaxed.

Don’t stop with the bed specifically. If the room is clean, clear and free of clutter and messes, your Pisces man won’t be distracted. He’ll be able to focus all of his attention on you. He’ll also enjoy himself more.

Light incense and candles and set the tone for romance and mystery. Dim lighting will always be more enticing for a Pisces man. He likes the way a softly lit or completely dark room emulates a dreamscape. It also enhances his nonvisual senses.

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Dress for Seduction

What does a Pisces man find physically attractive? His desires can range from the innocent image of the Girl Next Door but he can also become enamored with a more openly sexual image. In fact, his tastes may vary.

He may vacillate between these two extreme images of sexuality. When you dress for seduction with a Pisces man, don’t be too revealing at first. If there is one universal law, it is that a Pisces man’s imagination is your friend.

The more you trigger his imagination and fantasy, the better. Dress to keep him guessing but also play up your most seductive feminine features. Show your Pisces man that you understand his desire for romance and sentimentality.

Role Play

One of the fun and exciting attributes of most Pisces men is their love of role play. It stands to reason that such creative and artistic guys would be fond of theater and role play. Also, as sensitive as they are, they love hiding behind a mask.

Dressing up for imaginative games in the bedroom appeals to so many aspects of a Pisces man’s nature. They love Live Action Role Play and will enjoy enacting their fantasies as if they were a favorite character or archetype.

They don’t always want to play the same role, however. They may want to put themselves in someone else’s shoes and then reverse roles. A Pisces man may want to wear your clothing or even dress up as a historic figure or fictional character.

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Explore His Fantasies

If you want to please a Pisces man in bed, exploring his fantasies seems like an obvious tactic. You may not always know exactly what his deeper fantasies are because he’s sensitive and will hide his vulnerability at first.

But as he starts revealing his deeper desires, pay attention. He will start to show you what he dreams about. Play to his imagination and desires for pleasure. Explore his broader fantasies.

He may have fantasies about making love on the beach or in a hot tub. He may have fantasies about acting out specific scenarios or tropes as part of the intimate experience as well. Be open to anything when you explore intimacy with a Pisces man.

If you are a traditionalist in the bedroom, and seldom change up your repertoire, a Pisces man may still enjoy your intimate connection. Yet you can also be sure to satisfy your Pisces man when you remain open minded and nonjudgmental.

Show Affection

How does a Pisces man test you? He will watch to see how you respond to him when he pulls back. Always show affection. Even when you are giving him space, act compassionate and sentimental.

Affection appeals to your Pisces man’s sexual nature. He loves to blend both love, intimacy and affection. He may be more enticed by affection than by sexuality specifically. This is an important distinction.

Cuddling and affection can go a long way for a Pisces man. He will be more open and receptive to you because he already feels a strong connection to you. If you want to know how to get a Pisces man to chase you, affection is one of the best ways.

Make affection sexual. Be playful and encourage your Pisces man to explore physical contact. Use feathers, ice, silk scarves or other accessories to encourage different kinds of touch and sensations.

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Take Your Time

Signs a Pisces man is in love with you can encourage you to rush into intimacy. Take your time, though. A Pisces man will enjoy sex more if he has the dream-like sensation of time standing still. When you focus on the present moment, the pleasure grows.

Help a Pisces man become grounded in the present as well. They often wander off into their own inner fantasies. This can help add to the pleasure of sexual encounters but it can also distract him.

Take things slow. Pay additional attention to every aspect of your intimate encounters with a Pisces man. Be sure to spend even more time and energy lingering in any areas where you know he is extra sensitive.

Though being with a Pisces man can be exciting and thrilling, try to not rush ahead. Keep a slow and steady pace and your Pisces man will feel the sensuality even more.

Blend Spirituality and Sex

When a Pisces man is exploring sexuality, he is ultimately looking for a way to transcend spiritually. While sex can be physically satisfying for a Pisces man, he is more concerned with how to expand his mind and become more spiritually connected.

Blend sexuality and spirituality and you’ll have your Pisces man’s complete attention. He won’t be able to resist your seduction. He’ll feel even more intensely aroused by you because the sexual encounter will also stimulate his intuitive and mystical side.

There are many resources that can help you explore the intersection between sexuality and spirituality. You can also become more deeply connected with a Pisces man by bringing a spiritual or occult focus to your intimate exploration with him.

Kundalini, Tantra and other systems that encourage such a combination between sexuality and spirituality can be highly arousing to a Pisces man. This can be a great way to enhance his connection to you.

He won’t limit himself based on religious dogma, but rather will look for ways to open his spiritual connection based on sexual encounters with you. He may, for instance, enjoy meditating or inducing a trance state before initiating sex.