What is The Weakness of Libra Men?

A Libra man’s weakness in love can become obvious when you’ve been dating a while. When you hope to become closer and he starts to pull away, it’s because of his weaknesses.

When you understand a Libra’s personality, you’ll know why he hesitates to commit. It’s easier to understand his weaknesses. Common Libra traits bring out his weakness to balance his strengths.

He’s Indecisive

This Libra weakness is so entrenched in his personality that even a Libra man’s friends get frustrated with him. Fortunately, Libras are loving and kind. This makes it easier for others to tolerate his indecisive nature. This is an extension of his need for balance.

Every time a Libra man comes close to making a decision, he’ll start to lean in the other direction. A Libra’s weakness in love is based on his fear of missing out. He doesn’t like to limit his options.

This is true of both his decision to make a commitment or not, or even his decision about where to eat or what to wear. You can expect a Libra man to change his mind numerous times because he’s weighing all the options.

One day he may say he loves you and can envision being married to you. The next day he will turn around and tell you he thinks it would be better if you were just friends. Then he’ll want to be official as a couple.

Trying to keep up with a Libra man’s changing mind can be dizzying. Even if he finally makes a commitment to the relationship, expect to be his sounding board daily. He will talk himself out of taking your advice when he asks for it.

You may feel like your conversations are going in circles because he continually argues with whatever you say to try to reassure him. He isn’t doing this to be confrontational. He’s just indecisive because he’s afraid of committing to one course of action.

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He’s Slow to Commit

A Libra man is notorious for being slow to commit. This is the biggest complaint women have about Libra men. He loves to enjoy romance, but he prefers the fun of courtship and dating to the responsibility of a solid relationship.

You may see clear Libra man falling in love signs even when he won’t commit yet. This can be confusing. You’ll wonder why a Libra man can seem like he loves you but not step up to the plate and commit to a relationship.

You may wonder if he’s playing games with you. You may second guess whether you are reading his signals accurately. You may start asking friends for their opinion to be sure you aren’t mistaking his intentions. All because a Libra man is slow to commit.

A Libra man can be difficult to read when he’s in love because he acts like he’s playing games even when he isn’t. He may resemble a guy who isn’t really interested in you even though he’s in love. You may assume he has lost interest.

The truth is usually more complicated. Libra men can be in love and want a relationship but get cold feet. They are likely to constantly second guess their choices before finally making a commitment. A Libra man may even try to avoid defining the relationship.

This is all because he is afraid of losing his independence. He is also afraid of becoming stuck in a relationship that doesn’t align with his ideals. His indecisive nature doesn’t help. He often feels like he can’t trust his own feelings to help him decide.

When a Libra is hurt, he’ll feel justified in his lack of commitment. He may act as if he is the only one with emotions on the line. Though he’s usually not selfish, in this regard he can be short sighted.

He’s Hedonistic

A Libra man in bed has an obvious hedonistic side. Yet his desire for pleasure and sensuality aren’t confined only to his sexual nature. A Libra man’s weakness includes his desire to seek pleasure.

This is part of what makes him fun and attractive. He’s romantic and understands the importance of giving and receiving pleasure. Yet this can also be a weakness for a Libra man. He can’t resist temptation.

When he’s in a casual relationship, he can be distracted by lust or attraction to other women. Even if he remains faithful, a Libra man can still fall prey to his hedonistic side. He may overindulge in alcohol.

He may go overboard with sweets and rich foods. If something is enjoyable or pleasant, he has a difficult time holding back. He strives for balance, but a Libra man is prone to overindulging in anything that tastes, looks or feels good.

This can work to your advantage. If you want a Libra man’s attention you can easily lure him with desserts or wine. Once you know his weak spot for his favorite food or drinks, you’ll be able to leverage this to connect with him.

He’ll come to associate the good feelings he has because of his desire for his favorite guilty pleasure with his feelings for you. This will help him feel connected to you in general.

When you want to seduce a Libra man you can do this successfully by playing on his desire for his favorite treats. This weakness can lead him into trouble, though. A Libra man can be prone to addictions to anything that makes him feel good.

He may over-indulge to the point that it becomes bad for his health. Libra men are good at many things but self-discipline is not one of his strengths. If you encourage him to indulge, he will find it harder to stick with moderation.

If you encourage him to moderate and balance his hedonistic side, he will be more likely to do so. Yet if you go too far trying to keep his indulgence in line, a Libra man may start to distance himself. He doesn’t want to feel like you’re micro-managing him.

A Libra man will find it difficult to restrain himself from eating seconds or thirds or drinking too much. Though he doesn’t like drama, his tendency to overindulge, especially in alcohol, can lead him to use bad judgment and further complicate the relationship.

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He’s Afraid of Feelings

Libra men don’t like to show their emotional nature. He may be openly romantic and show his love through sensuality, but this is not the same as being emotionally vulnerable. Women often interpret this as him sending mixed signals.

It’s confusing when you see him show sentimentality and sensitivity in a romantic way but then not show deeper emotional connection. That is because a Libra man doesn’t like to feel vulnerable and open.

Romance, to him, is an extension of flirting. He’s comfortable with this. But emotional attachment is something deeper and more personal. He would rather intellectualize his emotions and talk about his love in a detached way than show his deeper feelings.

If you’re wondering what it takes to make a Libra man open up, you may be missing the point. Libra men open up in their own way and show it in a unique way. This is because they have a weakness for detachment and avoiding emotions.

Rather than trying to get him to go deeper into his feelings, you may be better off learning to read a Libra man’s signals and recognize when he is in love with you. Libra men need to maintain some emotional distance even when in a relationship.

He Sabotages Relationships

A Libra man is prone to sabotaging relationships. He doesn’t do this intentionally. In fact, usually he doesn’t realize he’s doing it at all. His reason for sabotaging relationships is based on a combination of his characteristics as a Libra.

He loves to be in love and doesn’t get in touch with his feelings. Often he becomes attracted to someone because of their appearance and surface level traits. He doesn’t check in with his emotions because he doesn’t trust his feelings.

Even if he is slow to commit, he is idealistic. He may conjure up a dream vision in his mind of who he thinks someone is and try then fall in love with the illusion he’s created. Then, he will feel disappointed when you aren’t the person that he built you up to be.

This will make him feel justified in his hesitation to commit. What’s more, a Libra man will still want to hold on to hope that the relationship will work out. He won’t give up altogether, but he won’t commit. He’ll keep things in Limbo.

Then, he will let his desire for pleasure and sensuality distract him. He may star to flirt with other women. His overindulgence in alcohol, food or chasing other women may be the last straw. He’s not intentionally trying to ruin things.

Usually, he’s taking a lackadaisical approach to the relationship in hopes that he will either suddenly fall madly in love with you, or that you will end things. This way you set the boundaries for him. This gives a Libra man an easy out to avoid committing.