How do You Get a Libra Man to Open Up?

When a Libra man is interested in you, he will try to spend more time in your company. He’ll talk to you about many topics. Yet he won’t open up emotionally right away.

The best way to get a Libra man to open up is to be his intellectual equal at first. Let him get comfortable with you before expecting him to open up.

He may seem comfortable when you spend time together, but his focus on intellect instead of emotion speaks volumes. He won’t be ready to show vulnerability at first.

Talk to Him about Art

One of the signs a Libra man is not interested in you is when he backs away even when you appeal to his interest in art and culture. Yet if a Libra man likes you, these topics will help him open up.

Though you may want to get right into his heart, if you are too forward and focused on his emotions, you’ll scare him away. A Libra man needs to open that door slowly. Focusing on his interests distracts him from emotion, but in a good way.

The distraction helps him ease up so he will feel more comfortable letting his guard down. Talking to him about art reminds a Libra man of his love of beauty.

This will help him further associate you with beauty and pleasure. He will feel more comfortable around you when he sees that you have a shared interest in the same artists and cultural institutions. You can impress a Libra man with your knowledge of art history.

This will lead him to become more attracted to you. Naturally, he will then start to open up more in the relationship. Thus when you talk to him about art, you’re taking a roundabout path to putting him at ease and getting into his heart.

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Share Your Reading List

If you’re wondering how to know if a Libra man is playing you, the key is to watch for signs that he talks to you about topics other than sex. If he shows an interest in your mind and not just your body, it’s a good sign.

If he only flirts and sexts with you or shows an interest in pleasure but not intellectual topics, it’s a red flag. This is a sign a Libra man is not interested in you.

If you know how to flirt with a Libra man, you can be romantic and intellectual at the same time. You can flirt with him as you talk about what you’re learning from the books you’re reading. Share your favorite books with him.

Libra men are usually well read. Stimulating his mind will encourage him to open his heart. It may actually be easier for him to open up emotionally when he is in the midst of an exciting conversation about books.

If you slip some titles of books you’re reading that feature a romantic or personal theme, you’ll more easily be able to get him to open up emotionally. He’ll let his guard down when you are both lost in comparison of your favorite books and literary topics.

One of the signs a Libra man is not into you is that he will have no interest in talking about books. This is unusual for a Libra man. Usually he’s eager to talk about his favorite books and get new recommendations for books to read.

Share Your Feelings First

If you want to know how to make a Libra man obsessed with you, you may have to set the stage by sharing your feelings first. This takes vulnerability and risk. Yet if he’s attracted to you, it will pay off.

He’ll appreciate your courage in making the first moves. This saves him the stress of showing vulnerability. He never likes to open his heart and would rather hide his feelings.

If you are willing to share your emotions first, you’ll encourage him to open his heart. The secret to divulging your feelings to a Libra man without scaring him away is to keep your emotional communication superficial.

Don’t overload him with emotional communication. When you tell him how you feel, instead of pouring your heart out to him, simply state that you care about his health or success. Don’t be too passionate when you share your feelings for him or you’ll overwhelm him.

If you’re wondering how to know when a Libra man is done with you, look for signs that he is acting indifferent. If he seems to take no notice of your feelings, it’s a red flag. If he doesn’t respond by matching your sentimentality, he’s not interested.

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Compliment Him

If you know how to compliment a Libra man, you’ll find it easier to get him to open up. He responds well to flattery as long as it is sincere. When you compliment a Libra man, he’ll start to let his guard down.

He still may not completely open up to you emotionally on the level you are seeking. This is because Libra men are always detached to a degree. Yet when you compliment him and build up his self-esteem, he will start to show more emotion.

He may still intellectualize his feelings. Understand this is a big deal for a Libra man. Take baby steps. When he is comfortable sharing on a deeper level, he will. You are setting the stage for this by showing admiration and praise.

In particular, compliment a Libra man for his artistic abilities and originality. He doesn’t like false flattery so be sure to be sincere. Admire his good looks, his talent for painting or song writing and his intelligence, for example.

Be Patient

The secret to knowing how to text a Libra man and encourage him to open his heart is to take very small steps and be patient. Flirting with a Libra man by text is like planting seeds with the intention of growing a garden.

The more you establish that you are trustworthy, exciting, interesting, intelligent and kind, the more you’ll reassure a Libra man and encourage him to open up to you. When he starts to let his guard down, still be patient.

Expect a Libra man to take two steps forward and one step back. As the sign of the scales, he is always trying to strike the right balance. But he doesn’t always get it right the first time. He may go overboard and then panic.

He needs to continually adjust how much he gets involved or opens up. He isn’t good at setting boundaries and may open up at first and then panic and start to grow distant. Pay attention to his actions over time.

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Be Kind and Considerate

Libra men are perfectionists. They dream of an ideal woman who is compassionate, intelligent, beautiful, successful, kind and gentle. He wants his ideal partner to be both his muse and companion.

The more you show a Libra man that you are kind and compassionate, considerate and gentle, the more you’ll reassure him that you are the woman for him. He loves to know that you are friendly and diplomatic.

Since he’s peace loving and strives to create harmony, a Libra man will want to make sure you aren’t going to create drama in his life. The more you are patient, understanding, compassionate and kind, the more he’ll open up to you.

You’ll make him feel safe because he won’t worry about letting his guard down and being manipulated. Even if you prove your compassion through kindness to strangers, a Libra man will be more likely to feel a close connection and open up to you.

Support His Dreams

When you support a Libra man’s dreams, he will feel more secure with you. He’ll feel safer opening up to you about his feelings because he’ll see that you are not going to judge him. Libras can be idealistic.

As a result, they are used to being told they are not rational or practical. If you don’t judge him in this way and instead show support for his bigger dreams and ideals, you’ll stand out. He’ll open up to you because you’ve proven yourself trustworthy.

He won’t have to worry about you criticizing him or downplaying his aspirations. This is a significant way to impress a Libra man. If he knows you have the imagination and respect to encourage his dreams, he’ll open his heart to you.

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Be Flirty and Romantic

Think of an old-fashioned courtship. One in which a couple would spend hours just talking and then eventually upgrade to holding hands long before kissing or anything more intimate.

As outdated as it may seem, this is the kind of romance a Libra man dreams of. He wants to enjoy a long process of flirtation and courtship. He wants to linger in this phase because it’s about pleasure, discover and low pressure.

If you allow him to take his time and go at his own pace while being flirty and romantic, a Libra man will eventually let his guard down. He’ll start to open up to you. He’ll trust you to not overwhelm him with feelings and expectations.