How You Can Attract a Virgo Man at Work

The key to understanding a Virgo man is to see him in his natural habitat: work. For this reason, fostering a relationship at work actually gives you the best view of his personality.

You may wonder if the Virgo man traits he shows in his profession actually reflect his personality in his private life. It’s part of a Virgo personality to be consistent.

Seeing who he is at work gives you a good idea of who he is at home. All of a Virgo man’s characteristics make him a workaholic. You’ll see the best of him at work.

Be Patient and Foster a Strong Connection

You may be more reserved at work, but he’s true to his authentic nature. Your work persona is likely to help you convey exactly what a Virgo man likes in a woman.

When you’re at work you’re likely to be prompt, timely, efficient and professional. He’s not looking for you to be seductive, romantic or flirty. He’s going to be attracted to your productivity.

Given that you’re in a work environment you’ll need to be extra patient. If you’ve read Virgo horoscopes before, you know he’s slow moving and cautious. This is especially true at work. He won’t risk his professional reputation with a risky relationship.

He values his career and wants to make sure he upholds strong boundaries. Don’t panic, though, he may be open to personal relationship with a co-worker but he’ll proceed very carefully.

He’s got a reputation not only in his career but in the Zodiac. The famous Virgo work ethic leads him to act with the highest of expectations and integrity. To get his attention show him that you also have a strong work ethic.

Try to match his eye for detail and show integrity in all that you do. Be honest and direct and show him that you are productive and efficient. Show him you take your tasks seriously and avoid drama in the work place.

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Ask for His Help and be Helpful to Him

Whether or not the Virgo man you’re interested in is your boss or a colleague, there are things a Virgo man loves regardless of his role. He loves to be of service. He likes sharing data and information so he can help others.

Ask for his professional help and advice. Treat this tactic like salt or powerful spice in a recipe. Sprinkle it on but don’t be too heavy handed about it. Most importantly, if you ask his advice, follow it.

He’ll be turned off if he thinks you are asking for him to help you but then ignoring his advice. He’ll interpret it as his time being wasted. Show appreciation for his instruction and guidance. Make it a reciprocal exchange, be helpful to him as well.

When you go out for lunch, ask if you can pick anything up for him. When you learn a new way to accomplish a task, offer to share knowledge and resources with him. Rather than jumping to personal connection, help him advance professionally.

He’s more likely to notice you if you seek his assistance to become more productive and if you help him to be more productive. He’s highly motivated by perfectionism and accomplishing tasks.

Ask His Advice

As you form a friendly work relationship, you may begin to ask his advice about things outside of work. Don’t jump right to the most intimate levels of your personal life. Instead, notice his traits and interests and start there.

Is he an IT guy? Ask his advice about the best router to use. Notice an interest in healthy foods? Ask about his favorite recipe for organic gluten-free cookies.

Asking his advice on slightly more personal non-work related categories helps to create a bridge from your professional relationship to personal life. This bridge is gradual and doesn’t make him feel rushed.

This also helps him get to know you. A Virgo man’s compatibility is based on how much he feels your goals align. He’s not ruled by passions and other emotional markers. Instead he’s motivated by his desire for security, order and organization.

Asking for his advice makes him feel important and recognized. He’s usually quite humble but when someone takes notice of him it makes him feel good. He doesn’t need praise or admiration but likes to know his skills are valued by you.

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Respect His Opinions

As a follow up to asking his advice, show him you respect his opinions. You don’t have to do everything he says or share his ideals. Yet a Virgo man cares more about his skills, talents and tangible aspects of his personality.

He doesn’t give much credence to the abstract idea of “self.” So if you love and care about him but disregard his ideas or things he does, he will feel disrespected.

One of the biggest signs a Virgo man is falling in love is that he’ll show his thoughtful consideration and pay special attention to you. He’ll do things to help you to be productive and efficient.

Show him you respect and appreciate what he does for you. Of all the signs of the Zodiac, a Virgo man is one of the few who won’t take things personally if you disagree with him. He can understand intellectual differences.

Yet respect is important to him. If he feels you’re stepping on his toes or one-upping him he’ll be turned off. If he feels you’re asking his advice and then disregarding it, he’ll be turned off. Yet you can agree to disagree.

Help Him Achieve his Professional Goals

A Virgo man is devoted to his tasks. Whatever job he does, he knows holding up his end of things is important. This isn’t to say he thinks he’s all that important. Rather he takes his tasks seriously.

Whether he has a large scale role as a CEO or a humble role in an entry level position, he sees his work as a matter of duty and obligation. If you go out of your way to help him advance in work he’ll take notice.

He’ll also feel a close connection to you if you are able to help him excel in his career. If you have skills that can help him become more productive, knowledgeable or successful, he’ll be in your debt if you share your expertise.

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Gradually Become More Friendly

Make the transition from all work to work and personal relationship very slowly. Virgo men are notoriously cautious. He won’t want to stir up work gossip.

In fact, if other colleagues start to notice you’re taking lunch together, he may back off. This isn’t because he’s lost interest. It’s because he doesn’t want others paying attention to his personal life.

He likes to keep a low profile as much as possible. He may start to back away if it seems like the workplace rumor mill is catching on to your attraction. If this happens, keep calm. Don’t try to crowd him or get him to open up right away.

Instead slow the pace of the relationship. Look for opportunities to connect as friends with common interests first. Then gradually edge closer to romantic interest.

Don’t Embarrass Him or Overstep Boundaries

Even if a Virgo man is madly in love with you, he’ll back away if he feels you don’t respect his boundaries. You may crave more, but let him set the pace of the relationship.

Don’t try to talk him out of his decisions and boundaries. These are his rules of conduct and they are dear to him. Especially if your Virgo man is the boss, don’t try to convince him that there won’t be a conflict of interest.

Instead work on strengthening the connection until he reaches the point where he is willing to explore a personal relationship and set the fears of a conflict of interest aside.

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Avoid Office Drama

Your second biggest rule of engagement should be avoiding office drama. That’s not just drama in your relationship with him. Avoid the gossip, the pettiness, the distracting things that go on in work places.

He’ll have much more respect for you if you keep your focus on your work and don’t get caught up in interpersonal conflicts with peers. Leave the water cooler talk for others and focus on the tasks that make you successful.

Uplift and help others when you can. He’ll appreciate your thoughtful nature. He’ll love seeing that you’re ambitious but not just out for yourself. Show him you’re a team player and avoid negativity at work.

Notice Details About His Interests

Virgo men are known for being detail oriented. When you notice details about him, he’ll be impressed. Pay attention to how he likes his coffee. Notice if he talks about his diet, family, favorite sports team and so forth.

When you’ve observed the little things that are important to him, show him you’ve been paying attention. Pick up an extra coffee, just the way he likes it. Mention you saw that his team won the big game.

When his favorite snack in the staff lounge is running low, bring in a few extras to replenish the supply. Show him that you are thoughtful and conscientious just like he is.

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Talk to Him About Intellectual Topics

In addition to showing your interest in him and his preferences, show him that you are also an intellectual. Brush up on literature, research facts about his and your favorite topics.

Show him you can have a discussion on an objective, intellectual level without getting caught up in opinions and emotions. When a Virgo man falls in love, it’s because he’s attracted to your mind and intelligence.

Your wit and attention to details, knowledge and expertise appeal to him far more than any aspect of your physical appearance. Let him know you’re a cut above the crowd and can match his brilliance with your own.