How to Apologize to an Aquarius Man

When apologizing to an Aquarius man, remain calm. Make sure you are giving him a genuine, honest apology. If you’re still angry or just want to make excuses, don’t bother apologizing.

As long as you acknowledge that you did something wrong, he’ll be willing to forgive you. He’s not going to dwell on things. He won’t stay angry if he knows that you’re truly sorry.

After apologizing, talk things over to see how you can do better in the future. Actively show him that you care about him and that you want to be better going forward.

Be Centered

The best way to deal with an Aquarius man ignoring you or being angry with you is to remain calm and centered.

Aquarius men like to appear logical when they are upset. They hide their emotions behind a mask. If you want him to listen to you, you should also try to keep any negative emotions out of your apology.

Take the time you need to center yourself. Work through any emotions you’re feeling before you talk to him. That will make the conversation go much more smoothly.

If he is upset, the last thing he needs is for you to come at him with your own emotions. If you’ve hurt him, you need to put aside your feelings and apologize to him first.

If you react to him being upset with anger, that won’t make anything better. If you’re still angry when you apologize, your apology isn’t going to go over well.

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Be Open

An Aquarius man expressing feelings is something difficult for him. If you have done something to upset him and he opens up about it, you need to be open and honest with him in return.

You won’t solve any problems by being closed off. If you did something to hurt him, you need to be open about why you did it.

Sometimes after an argument, you will both need to apologize. If this is the case, you need to be open with him about what he did to hurt you as well.

You can be open and honest without being overly emotional. You don’t need to cry or yell at him to express how you feel. Just let him know what is going on and don’t hide things from him.

Be Honest

An Aquarius man isn’t going to hold a grudge against you forever after you’ve hurt him. He’s a forgiving person. What hurts an Aquarius the most is when people he loves aren’t honest with him.

You should never lie to an Aquarius man. Even if you think the truth will hurt him, he’ll ultimately be more hurt if you lie to him.

If you did something to hurt him as retaliation for something he did to you, you need to let him know that.

If you said something to criticize him and there is some truth behind what you said, you need to let him know that too.

It might hurt to hear that your partner is annoyed with something you do but he needs to hear it so you two can work it out.

If you aren’t sorry or legitimately don’t feel like you owe him an apology for something, you’ll need to explain why to him. Be honest and explain what your thoughts are.

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Don’t Be Defensive

When you’re deciding how to apologize to an Aquarius, keep in mind that you should try your best not to be defensive.

It never feels nice to know you’ve done something wrong. If you said or did something to hurt your Aquarius man, it can be hard to admit that you are to blame for how he feels.

Put aside any of those defensive feelings when you are apologizing to him. Maybe he also owes you an apology but you can talk about that after giving him your apology.

What does Aquarius hate the most? They hate insincere apologies. He won’t accept your apology if all you do is get defensive and make excuses.

You can explain to him why you did or said something without being defensive. You can give him an explanation in a calm manner while also acknowledging that you are still to blame for hurting him.

Don’t Argue

You might need to apologize to an Aquarius man after an argument. The worst thing you can do is start up another argument instead of apologizing.

When an Aquarius man ignores you, the best thing to do is give him his space. Don’t pester him and don’t continue to argue with him.

He won’t remain angry for long. He usually comes back fairly quickly after an argument and will let you explain yourself.

Don’t start arguing with him again! If he says you hurt him, accept that you hurt him. Don’t try to turn things around on him. Even if you don’t understand why he’s upset, don’t argue with him about his feelings.

Again, he might also have some things he needs to apologize for. You can apologize to him and then talk to him about those things without starting up a new argument.

If you are still angry with your Aquarius man, take some more time to calm down. You won’t be able to give him a proper apology until you are calm.

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Acknowledge Wrongdoing

If you want to know how to fix things with an Aquarius man, the most important thing to do is truly acknowledge that you did something wrong.

If you said something rude to him, acknowledge why it was rude and why it hurt his feelings.

Even if you made a valid criticism, the way you said it might have hurt him. You can acknowledge that you didn’t go about offering the criticism in the best way.

If you did something accidentally or did something that you didn’t know would upset him, you still need to acknowledge that you did it. Take responsibility for it and let him know that you’ll do better in the future.

If you can’t acknowledge that you did something wrong, there’s no point in apologizing! He needs to know that you understand what you did to hurt him.

Explain Your Actions

Explaining your actions is not the same thing as making excuses. There are reasons behind everything we do. Sometimes, explaining those can help to not make the same mistakes in the future.

If you said something hurtful as a reaction to something your Aquarius man did to you, let him know that. He can then avoid doing whatever it was that upset you in the future.

If you were just upset and said something you didn’t mean, tell him that. It might make him feel better to know that you don’t believe the rude thing you said about him.

When you do something accidentally, it’s good for him to know that it wasn’t on purpose. You still hurt him, no matter what your intention was, but he’ll feel better knowing you weren’t trying to hurt him.

Explaining your actions can also help you. If you understand the reasons behind why you do certain things, you can catch yourself next time you almost say or do something to hurt your Aquarius man.

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Talk Things Over

It’s usually not difficult to get an Aquarius to forgive you. He’ll always be willing to talk things over with you so that you two can resolve whatever issues you’re having.

After you two are calm and you’ve apologized, you might still have some things that need to be said.

If he’s upset about a criticism you made, that criticism might still be valid. Talk to him about it in a kinder way.

Let him know that you care about him and that you appreciate the positive things he does but that something about his behavior needs to change.

Make Amends

Winning back the heart of an Aquarius man is much easier when you actively try to make amends.

Show him how truly sorry you are. Make sure he knows that you care about him. Actively show him that you’re working on yourself and that you won’t make the same mistakes in the future.

He won’t fault you for making a mistake. Everyone does sometimes. He will be less likely to forgive you if you keep making the same mistakes over and over again.

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Listen To Him

An Aquarius man might have some things he needs to talk to you about following an argument. Listen to what he has to say.

Even after you’ve apologized, he might still have some things he wants to talk about.

He may want to come up with a plan for better dealing with disagreements in the future. If he also has something to apologize for, he’ll want your undivided attention for that as well.

It will be easier to avoid the same mistakes in the future if you can listen to him and keep communication open between you two.