How Do You Mentally Stimulate a Libra Man?

You can learn a lot about what stimulates a guy by exploring his zodiac sign’s typical characteristics and psychological traits.

By learning more about him, you can figure out what excites him and makes the wheels in his brain turn.

Once you become familiar with his astrological sign’s personality, you will have no trouble mentally stimulating your Libra man.

Discuss the Arts

If you are wondering, “Why are Libras so attractive?” It’s because Libra is ruled by the planet of love and beauty.

Every zodiac sign has a governing heavenly body that tells us something important about that sign’s personality and values. Libra is ruled by Venus, the planet of pleasure, aesthetics, and relationships.

Not only does Venus’s influence make Libras alluring and physically attractive, but it also often makes them creative and skilled in the arts.

Having a keen eye for aesthetics means that Libras are usually skilled photographers, designers, or painters. They thrive when they have a creative outlet to channel their artistic abilities.

If you want to mentally stimulate your Libra guy, take him to an art museum or start a conversation about the arts.

You will impress him by mentioning your creative endeavors and can get his mind working when you ask him about his artistic pursuits.

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Compliment Him

Libras are innately charming and they know just what people need to hear to feel good about themselves. Libras compliment everyone, but sometimes his compliments are more meaningful.

One of the signs a Libra man likes you is that he gives you specific and personal compliments.

He will praise you for your latest achievement at work, your new haircut that nobody else has noticed, or something else that shows he pays close attention to you.

You can mentally stimulate a Libra guy by returning his compliments and tailoring them specifically to him. It will make him wonder what you are thinking and if there is a deeper meaning behind your words.

For example, instead of simply saying, “I like your shirt,” you could tell him, “I love the color green on you. It brings out your eyes and makes you look extra handsome.”

He will wonder if this means that you always think he looks handsome, if he should wear green more often, when you noticed his eye color, and more.

If nothing else, flattery keeps the conversation flowing pleasantly and makes him want to talk to you more often.

Be Flirtatious

As a social sign ruled by the planet of love, Libras are natural flirts. A Libra guy can’t help but seduce and flirt with nearly everyone he meets.

If you want to know how to handle a Libra man and mentally stimulate him, then you have to know how to flirt with him.

There are many different ways of flirting, and a Libra man’s preferred style is sweet, witty, and romantic.

He won’t say anything too aggressive or make you uncomfortable. He knows just how to say the right thing to make you feel attractive and desirable.

To get his mind working, flirt back with your Libra man. Don’t just giggle and blush at his flattery, but instead return his clever and kind compliments.

As much as this flirtatious sign enjoys flirting, he appreciates getting a little flattery back, too.

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Explore His Passions

Each zodiac sign has a unique symbol that reveals something significant about that sign’s personality. Libra is the only zodiac sign with an inanimate object for a symbol.

Libra is symbolized by the scales, which tells us that Libras are concerned with justice, equality, and fairness.

It also means that Libras strive for balance in everything they do. They know how to work hard, but they also know how to relax and pursue their passions, too.

You can bet that your Libra guy has a vast range of hobbies and interests. You can spark his intellect by talking to him about his passions, or better yet, exploring them with him.

If your Libra guy is a music lover, take him to a concert or a record store. Ask him who his favorite artists and musical influences are, and encourage him to learn to play an instrument.

Tell Him Something New

The typical Libra man personality is innately intellectually curious, so Libras adore learning new things. You can endear yourself to a Libra man by teaching him something he doesn’t already know.

Don’t be afraid that it seems like you’re bragging or being condescending when you explain something to a Libra guy. He is fascinated by learning new things and will admire your expertise.

Libras love being around others that make them into better people. If you can train him to perform a new skill or enlighten him with novel information, it gets his mind working and makes him attracted to you.

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Don’t Talk Negatively About Others

If you want to mentally stimulate a Libra guy, don’t think that engaging him in petty gossip will spark his interest.

He likes learning about people and getting to know them better, but he prefers to do it first-hand. When someone starts gossiping or talking unkindly about others, he runs in the opposite direction.

When a Libra man stops talking to you, it could be because he heard you speak negatively about someone behind their back, and he is worried you will do the same to him.

Don’t bore him or turn him off by talking about other people when you can delight and excite him by talking about almost something else.

Show Off Your Intelligence

Some women think that playing dumb is a good way to attract a man, but nothing could be less accurate when it comes to a Libra guy.

If you want to know how to make a Libra man obsessed with you, don’t be afraid to show off your intelligence.

Libras are clever and curious, and they like to surround themselves with intelligent people. A Libra guy isn’t intimidated by a smart woman, and he doesn’t mind if she is even smarter than he is.

Show your Libra man that you are his intellectual equal, and he will seek you out for mentally stimulating conversations and opinions.

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Be Charming and Witty

Libras are smart and sassy, which means they are usually charming and witty conversationalists. They love puns, hyperbole, metaphors, and other forms of wordplay.

Don’t be embarrassed to tell a clever joke in the presence of your Libra guy for fear he won’t understand it or will be offended.

As long as you aren’t making fun of someone else in a cruel way, a Libra man will laugh along and will try to match your sharp wit.

Making him laugh and being quick-witted is sure to get your Libra guy’s ming working as he attempts to meet your jokes with clever quips of his own.

Be Open and Direct

If you are in the early stages of getting to know your libra man, it can be a challenge for him to share his feelings. But don’t take his reluctance to open up as one of the signs a Libra man is not into you.

For a Libra man, secrets are sacred and only to be shared with a select few. He is guarded and private when it comes to his emotions and won’t let just anyone into his head.

One of the characteristics of a Libra man in love is that he opens up to his partner. He goes beyond the superficial small talk he makes with everyone and tells her about his profound thoughts and feelings.

If you want to mentally stimulate your Libra man, challenge him by probing into his deeper emotions and opinions.

He may try to dodge questions about himself, but even being evasive takes brainpower and will get the wheels in his head turning as he figures out the best way to respond to you without giving too much away.

And if you succeed in getting him to open up, you will definitely stimulate his mind because he so rarely gets introspective and explores his own feelings.

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Balance Talking and Listening

Libras are great conversationalists because they are great at talking and listening.

Some people talk so much that nobody else can get a word in, while others are so silent that the other person has to do all the work in a discussion.

But Libras are excellent to talk to about almost anything because they know how to both contribute to the conversation and be an attentive listener.

When a Libra man goes quiet, it’s not an awkward silence or a sign that anything is wrong. He is simply providing space for you to share your thoughts.

You can mentally stimulate your Libra guy by being as active a listener as he is. You should have plenty to say, but make sure that you aren’t monopolizing the conversation.

When you give him a chance to speak, not only does it show that you care what he has to say but it also allows him to articulate his thoughts and get his brain working.