10 Signs a Libra Man is Playing You

Libra men show confusing signs when in love. But if you aren’t careful, you can fall into a trap. Don’t let a Libra man take you for a fool.

Libra men show signs they are playing you. If you understand the subtle nuances of his personality, you can tell when he is playing games.

Libra men run hot and cold early in relationships. But if he is inconsistent, it’s a red flag. Watch your Libra’s mixed signals; he may be playing you.

1. He Runs Hot and Cold

Libra men are indecisive and fear missing out. They can be inconsistent in love when they first start dating you. If a Libra man runs hot and cold the first month of your relationship, it’s normal.

But if your Libra man continues to run hot and cold after you’ve been dating, he isn’t serious about you. He is using you and may be reluctant to settle down.

Your Libra man can be flighty, but when he wants a relationship with you, he shows you. He can be more determined to ensure everyone knows you’re with him.

When you see signs a Libra man is using you, stop chasing him. You won’t get him to change his mind about you if you are too available. Make him pursue you.

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2. He Doesn’t Introduce His Friends

Libras are social and love it when people get together. Yet if he is dating you for weeks and doesn’t introduce you to any of his friends, it’s a red flag. He’s playing you if he keeps your relationship separate from his friendships.

You can tell a Libra man is in love with you when he can’t wait for you to meet his closest friends. When he’s serious about you, he takes you out on dates and invites you to social gatherings with his network.

But when a Libra man has bad intentions, he doesn’t bother introducing you to his friends. He is playing games with you if you don’t know any of his friends after you’ve been dating a Libra man.

If you are wondering how to know if a Libra man is playing you, pay attention to how he interacts with you. If he keeps your relationship hidden, it’s a warning sign. When he cares about you he wants you to get along with his friends.

3. He Avoids Public Dates

In addition to keeping his friends out of sight, if a Libra man is playing you, he won’t go out on dates with you in public. A Libra man who is not serious about you doesn’t take you on traditional dates.

If he always wants to go to your house or his house, he may be playing with you. A Libra man in love with you takes you dancing. He wants to go to movies, concerts, and dinners when he is serious about you.

But a Libra man who is playing you hides you. He comes over for dinner or to watch movies but is thinking about sex. He doesn’t put effort into taking you out for a night of fun and romance.

Don’t chase a Libra man if he is not attentive. You can’t make him change how he feels. If a Libra man is playing you, he only shows up when it is convenient for him.

You may think you’re seeing signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings. Yet even a shy Libra man wants to go out with you as a group. If he doesn’t take you out in public, he’s not into you.

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4. He Texts Late at Night

A Libra man who loves you texts you throughout the day. But when a Libra man is playing you, you’ll only hear from him late at night. When he texts you at night, you may be confused.

You think he is romantic because he texts you before bed. But a Libra man who cares about you checks in with you at various times during the day. The real reason he texts late at night is out of boredom.

He may be texting you because he can’t sleep or no one else is around. Your Libra man can be showing signs he’s using you if you only hear from him late at night. He often texts many women at the same time.

When you respond, he focuses on you, but you may not be the only woman he’s texting. A Libra man playing you can say all the right things, but if he only texts you at night and focuses on sex, he is playing you.

One of the signs a Libra man is not into you is when he texts sporadically. If he doesn’t respond to your texts and only reaches out at night, he is not interested in a relationship.

5. He Makes Excuses

Libra men can be sweet talkers. They build you up and can be flirty and inspiring. But if he doesn’t want to see you after texting you for hours, your Libra man is playing you.

A Libra man can use his quick wit to talk his way out of dates or make excuses not to see you. When he wants to be with you, a Libra man makes plans and doesn’t go too long without seeing you.

But when he is playing games with you, a Libra man makes excuses to avoid getting together. He’s always too busy, or he changes the subject. A Libra man talks around commitments and never has time for you.

When he’s serious about you, you’ll see signs a Libra man is obsessed with you. Yet a Libra man who never has time for you is showing you he is never going to commit.

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6. He’s Dishonest

Libra men don’t like lying but can avoid being honest with you. They dodge the truth or even lie to you if they feel pressured when they aren’t serious about you.

If you catch a Libra man in a lie about where they were and who they were with, you can tell he is playing you. A Libra man who is dishonest is showing you red flags.

Libras typically lie to avoid hurting your feelings. They don’t tell you things that could upset you, but they usually don’t makeup lies unless they are trying to avoid you.

How does a Libra man test a woman? He may test the waters initially by being inhibited. But a Libra man takes honesty seriously. If you catch him in a lie, he is not interested in you.

7. His Status Doesn’t Change

Your Libra man changes his social media status when he wants the world to know he loves you. But if a Libra man is playing you, he avoids leaving clues on social media.

He doesn’t change his status to show he is in a relationship. He doesn’t post pictures of you together. A Libra man playing you doesn’t include you on his social media.

He may show signs he’s playing games if he ignores you on social media. A Libra man uses social media to show off a relationship with someone he loves when he’s serious about a woman.

One of the signs a Libra man just wants to be friends is that he won’t change his status to say he’s in a relationship. You may be wasting your time if you ignore these warning signs.

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8. He Avoids You

Libra men avoid women they aren’t serious about. If he knows you have feelings for you and he’s just playing you, he minimizes exposure. He doesn’t want to lead you on.

A Libra man using you doesn’t bother to spend time with you if he is not serious about a relationship. He only sees you when he’s interested in sex. A Libra man playing you doesn’t invest time in the relationship.

You can tell a Libra man is using you when he always has an excuse not to get together. If you feel you are chasing a Libra man to get his attention, he is not interested in you. He may be playing you or stringing you along.

Will a Libra man test you if he is in love with you? A Libra man goes quiet sometimes to test you. But when he consistently avoids you, your Libra man is not interested in romance.

9. He Breaks Dates

A Libra man who cancels plans is playing you. When you have a date on the calendar, and he calls at the last minute to say something came up, he may be sincere. But if he always cancels it’s a red flag.

In addition to canceling plans with you, a Libra man playing you may not show up. If he leaves you at the restaurant waiting for hours for him, your Libra man is not interested in you.

He’s playing you if he doesn’t follow through on dates. You can tell he’s not serious about you if he acts like he forgot you had plans. He cancels dates with little notice when he’s not serious.

If you watch the body language of a Libra man in love, you’ll see he’s relaxed and open. But if he is playing you, he acts distant. He doesn’t show affection and is not warm and generous.

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10. He’s Always Late

A Libra man is always late when he is playing you. He doesn’t make you a priority and waits until the last minute if he follows through. He is casual about seeing you and doesn’t act interested in keeping promises.

Your Libra man is prone to being late because he can be easily distracted. But if he is serious about you, he can’t wait to see you and is excited to spend time with you.

Yet if a Libra man is always late and at times doesn’t show up for dates, he is playing you. He’s showing you he doesn’t respect your time. A Libra man who can’t show up on time no matter how many chances you give him is not interested in you.