How to Play Mind Games With a Scorpio Man

Scorpio is one of the most mentally powerful signs of the zodiac, so playing games with a Scorpio man’s mind is especially tricky.

As long as you know the ways he likes to manipulate others, you can turn his own games around on him.

By learning more about his zodiac sign’s typical personal traits and psychological characteristics, you will be able to figure out how to play mind games with a Scorpio man and win.

Make Him Jealous

When a Scorpio man wants you, he wants you all to himself, and he gets jealous very easily.

One of the best mind games you can play with a Scorpio guy is to intentionally make him jealous.

It’s best if you don’t let him know that you are trying to provoke his jealousy, but if you just want to make him mad, it’s fine if he knows what you are doing.

If you want to mess with your Scorpio guy’s mind, flirt with other men in front of him. Tell him about your cute coworker, talk about your ex, or be flirtatious with the bartender on your date.

Your Scorpio guy might not ask you out again, but he will feel like he can’t measure up to other men and it will drive him crazy.

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Be Unreliable

If you are wondering what kind of woman attracts a Scorpio man, it’s someone he can count on to be his rock. He wants a woman he can depend on who is always there for him, no matter what.

If you want to mess with a Scorpio man’s head and make him insecure, be inconsistent and unreliable.

Even in the early stages of dating a Scorpio man, you can drive him crazy with your unreliability by making it impossible for him to nail down plans with you for a date.

Cancel your plans at the last minute, wait too long to return his messages until the date he suggests has already passed, or tell him you will get back to him with plans but never do.

It will drive him wild trying to pin you down for a date, and he will wonder why you are being so elusive.

Scorpio men are notoriously unreliable unless they are in a committed relationship. When they are playing the field, they may disappear for weeks at a time without a word and then suddenly pop back into your life.

You can beat an inconsistent Scorpio guy at his own game by being just as inconsiderate and unreliable as he is.

Don’t Tell Him Your Secrets

Scorpios are very curious and like to learn everything about a person they are interested in as quickly as possible.

When you are dating a Scorpio man, he will try to figure you out by observing you carefully and asking you lots of personal questions.

You can drive him crazy by deflecting his attempts to get to know you and never revealing anything about yourself.

When he asks you about your childhood or your family, turn the question back around on him. Give him only vague answers and never go deep with him about your history and feelings.

You could try telling him that he’s much more interesting than you are and you would rather listen to him than talk about yourself.

When your Scorpio guy realizes he has been doing all of the talking and doesn’t know a single thing about you, it will confuse him and mess with his mind.

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Spill His Secrets

Scorpios are naturally guarded and secretive. They are afraid of getting hurt by others, so they keep their thoughts and feelings private most of the time.

When he opens up and tells you his secrets, it’s one of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you.

What he doesn’t expect is for you to turn around and share his secrets with everyone else.

If he tells you something personal, text it to your mutual friends immediately. When he shares something private with you, put it on social media for the world to see.

When he confronts you about it, act naive and say that you didn’t realize it was a secret and that he should be more careful next time about warning you not to tell anyone.

Lie to Him

What a Scorpio man wants in a relationship is a partner who is honest at all times. Although he is a master manipulator, he hates when other people try to deceive him.

One of the best ways to get into a Scorpio man’s head and mess with his mind is to lie to him.

You have to be very careful when lying to a Scorpio man because he is excellent at reading people and will probably know intuitively when you are lying to him.

Lie about small, unnecessary things just to make him feel confused and insecure. Tell him he’s crazy when he accuses you of lying.

He won’t understand why you are lying to him and will be frustrated that he hasn’t learned how to read you.

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Don’t Let Him Control You

Scorpio is one of the most power-hungry signs of the entire zodiac. Scorpios crave control and need to feel like they are in charge of everything.

Nothing messes with a Scorpio man’s mind more than someone who deliberately disobeys him or cannot be controlled.

Don’t let him tell you what to do, and don’t be accommodating when he’s acting like a control freak. Show him how strong-willed you are and do the opposite of whatever he says.

If he asks you for a massage, tell him that you would love one and sit in front of him until he rubs your shoulders.

If he tells you to make dinner, say you have other plans with friends and he can order a pizza.

The more you disregard his orders and refuse to do his bidding, the crazier you will make your Scorpio man.

Be Disloyal

If you are wondering, “How does Scorpio man show interest?” The answer is that he will be loyal to you and let you know that he’s not interested in seeing any other women.

For a Scorpio guy, being loyal is about more than just being faithful in a relationship. It also means taking that person’s side, no matter what.

When you want to mess with your Scorpio guy’s head, be disloyal and don’t support him when he needs it.

If he is having an argument with a friend, take the friend’s side. Tell your Scorpio man that he is wrong and needs to apologize.

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Never Be Vulnerable

The truth about a Scorpio man is that while he hates being vulnerable, he loves when other people are unguarded and honest with him.

He never wants to appear weak, but he enjoys other people telling him their innermost thoughts and private feelings.

What a Scorpio man wants to hear is your darkest secret or your most embarrassing story, not surface-level chit-chat about the weather.

If you want to drive your Scorpio man wild, never be vulnerable with him. Don’t show him any emotion, and always be calm and stoic.

He will go crazy wondering why nothing ever seems to phase you and why you hide your feelings from him.

Be Insincere

Scorpios are very earnest and cerebral, so it messes with a Scorpio man’s mind when you don’t take him seriously.

They understand and enjoy sarcasm, but it makes Scorpios crazy when they can’t get someone to stop joking around so they can have a serious conversation.

If you want to mess with your Scorpio man’s head, be flippant, superficial, and insincere.

Always use sarcasm and never make it clear whether or not you are joking. If he tries to bring up serious topics, change the subject, and keep the conversation shallow.

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Withhold Affection

Scorpios aren’t particularly touchy-feely, and they prefer not to touch strangers or people they dislike unless it’s absolutely necessary.

But when it comes to his loved ones, a Scorpio guy is warm and affectionate. When a Scorpio has a crush on you, he won’t be able to keep his hands off of you.

If you want to make him insecure and uncomfortable, withhold your affection from a Scorpio man. Push him away when he tries to hug or kiss you, and never initiate intimacy.

On the other hand, if you aren’t close with your Scorpio guy and want to mess with him, force physical contact upon him.

As much as he craves affection from the people closest to him, he loathes it from strangers or enemies.

If you know your Scorpio man doesn’t like you, give him hugs, handshakes, and kisses on the cheek whenever possible. Sit too close to him and touch his arm when he’s not expecting it.

The contact will make him highly uncomfortable and he will go crazy trying to figure out why you are being so affectionate, especially if you don’t get along with each other.