10 Tips for When a Pisces Man is Ignoring You

When a Pisces man is done with you, he will be prone to ghosting. He can’t tolerate confrontation. He would rather bury his head in the sand.

Yet if he’s ignoring you and you don’t want to lose him, there are ways you can encourage him to come around. The best time to act is when a Pisces man distances himself.

There are a few different issues that can lead to a Pisces man silent treatment. It doesn’t always mean he’s angry. Nor does it mean he’s going to leave.

1. Give Him Space

If you know how to make a Pisces man miss you, you’ll have little to worry about. The key is to give him space. A Pisces man who becomes distant may need to process deeper feelings. He may be in a reclusive mood.

If you’re too adamant about trying to pull him out of his shell, you could actually end up driving him further away. When he starts to pull back, let him at first. He needs to see that you trust him.

A Pisces man who needs to decompress may do so by shifting his focus and becoming more introverted. He needs to go into his own little world because this helps him to make sense of his emotional ups and downs. It’s best to give him some down time.

Don’t count him out just because he starts to become quiet. If he outright ignores you, it can feel insulting. But remember, Pisces men aren’t good at assertiveness. They avoid confrontation at all cost. It’s just easier for them to ignore a situation rather than addressing it.

Yet if he goes quiet for an extended amount of time or you have reason to believe he’s mad at you, it can be better to drop a subtle line to check in with him. Even when you do this, don’t crowd him or demand a response.

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2. Show Interest in His Family

How does a Pisces man test you? He may go quiet to see how you react to him. If you instantly show interest in another guy or try to make him jealous, he’ll disappear for good.

Rather than reacting in ways that can push him away even more, try a tactic that will bring him closer to you. Show interest in his family. Ask how his kids or siblings or parents are doing.

When you show interest in the people a Pisces man cares about, it will make him warm up to you. He’ll open his heart and start to reconnect with you. If there is a practical reason he’s been quiet, he’ll more likely explain himself.

By asking about his family, you’re reminding a Pisces man of your compassionate and loving nature. This will help him feel comfortable with you again.

3. Ask About His Feelings

What happens when you ignore a Pisces man? That can depend on what precipitates this change. A Pisces man who is trying to get your attention will be deeply hurt if you ignore him. But if he’s gone quiet, he appreciates your silence.

When you ask a Pisces man about how he is feeling, it reassures him that you care. Pisces men are deeply emotional and sensitive. Even if he’s not in the mood to talk, he will still appreciate that you took the effort to inquire about his feelings.

This kind of tactic will encourage a Pisces man to make the effort to reconnect with you. He may be hurt, upset, mad, depressed or just busy, but he will want to talk to you about how he is feeling. If he was ignoring you intentionally, this is a good icebreaker.

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4. Send Inspirational Texts

If you’re wondering what to do when a Pisces man pulls away, the most important thing is to remain optimistic and positive. Even if you suspect he may be spending too much time away from you, it’s best not to react with anger or resentment.

A Pisces man’s disappearing act can have more to do with his own low mood than it has to do with him having a change in feelings toward you. When you send him inspirational quotes, you may be helping him to address his deeper issues.

Even if you don’t know exactly what those issues are. If you leave inspiring quotes for him, you’ll help him connect with his spiritual side and this means a lot to him. You can help him gai perspective.

The sooner he turns his thinking around, the better things will be for his connection with you. He often needs to be uplifted and reminded of how nurturing and supportive you are.

5. Keep Yourself Busy

When a Pisces man ignores you, don’t chase him. Keep yourself busy. Make time with friends or family a priority. Drop him a line to remain in contact and let him know you’re thinking of him, but otherwise, live your life.

Take time to pamper yourself. Do things you’ve always wanted to do. Have a girls’ night with friends. Catch up on your reading list. Go on a day trip. Keep yourself occupied.

This makes the time go faster. It also encourages a Pisces man to wonder what you are doing. When he becomes curious about you, he’ll check your social media. He’ll see posts and pictures about all the fun things you’re doing.

This will encourage him to reach out to you. He may call or start texting again just to remain a part of all the exciting things going on in your life. You can lure him back by remaining upbeat and positive.

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6. Connect with His Friends

Leaving a Pisces man alone can help him decide he wants to re-engage on his own terms. If he doesn’t, you can try this strategy. When you connect with his friends, you’re walking a fine line.

Don’t delve into his inner circle unless you already have a solid connection with his closest friends. Otherwise, aim to connect with those in his outer circle. His acquaintances or friends. But only do this in a way that makes sense.

If you don’t have a personal connection with any of his friends or anyone else in his network, don’t try to establish one now. That would be too obvious and awkward for all involved.

If you do have shared connections, reach out to his friends. Keep your communication light and casual. Don’t come across as needy or desperate. Instead, give the impression of confidence and optimism.

Make it seem like you’re doing just fine and casually inquire about how your Pisces man is faring. Try to act calm and mildly interested but not overinvested. Without being obvious, trust that your mutual friends will influence him to get in touch.

7. Entice Him Online

Take the cat and mouse game to social media. Be subtle and don’t chase him in any kind of obvious way. Tempt your Pisces man to reconnect with you by strategically posting online. Keep him guessing, don’t reveal too much.

Do show your best attributes. Update your social media profile to show you looking your best. Pepper your feed with examples of all the great things you’re accomplishing.

Leave him guessing about some aspects of your life, though. Don’t be afraid to “Vaguebook” and drop hints that keep him on the edge of his seat, wanting to know exactly what you’re referring to. This will lead him to finally reach out.

His curiosity will get the better of him. He will want to initiate contact with you. A Pisces man will want to get right to the source and be part of your life again.

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8. Show Your Wounds

There are ways you can take the high road and entice your Pisces man to come back when he ignores you. Or, you can act in more dramatic ways and get him to take notice.

A word of caution, these tactics may not help to create the most solid foundation. But if your main goal is to get him to communicate with you as soon as possible, no matter the cost, then you can take the low road and get faster results.

When you flaunt your unhealed wounds, he will be drawn to you like a moth to flame. Pisces men have strong healing energy but sometimes this can lead him to codependent patterns in relationships.

If you show your wounds, you’re using this to your advantage and encouraging him to respond to you by appearing to be in a distress. Your Pisces man will come around because he’ll think he can fix your problems and heal you.

9. Create Drama

Another risky strategy is to create drama. Pisces men can’t help but be drawn to someone who appears to be a mess. Ironically, although they don’t like confrontation, Pisces men are drawn to drama.

Tell him a tale of woe about how you are being treated unfairly. Create some chaos, but be careful to not be aggressive toward him directly.

Project an image of helplessness or victimhood and a Pisces man will rush to your rescue. Again, this is not the best way to build a solid and stable foundation in a relationship. But if your main concern is getting his attention, it works.

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10. Play on His Addictions

Pisces men are prone to addictions of various natures. If you use this strategy, know that you are potentially enabling him and may cause more harm than good in the long run. If you want him to stop ignoring you, play to his addictions.

This is not an ideal solution. It can complicate your relationship and exacerbate his own self-destructive behaviors. Yet if the endgame is to just get him to break his silence and talk to you again, codependency, toxic as it is, will work.

If you want to do the least damage, aim for his less lethal addictions. Bake his favorite desserts or surprise him with candy. Treat him to some source of pleasure that is on the benign side of his addictions specrum.