How to Talk to a Pisces Man About Feelings

When a Pisces man is not into you, you’ll know it. He won’t hide the fact that he’s not interested because he doesn’t want to lead you on. When he’s in love, you’ll know it too.

How does a Pisces man test you? He’ll want to see how you handle it when he shows his feelings. The best way to prepare to talk about feelings with a Pisces man is to be grounded.

A Pisces man will express his emotions in many ways, but he doesn’t always articulate his emotions verbally as easily. You will need to be patient.

Be Honest

How does a Pisces man act when he likes you? He will tiptoe around you and he may not overtly tell you how he feels at first. He’s likely to test the waters and see how you respond. Always be honest with a Pisces man.

When a Pisces man is done with you, it may come as a shock. Sometimes, he will minimize his unhappiness because he doesn’t want to argue. Yet if a Pisces man feels you’ve been dishonest or manipulative, he will back away from you. He may even leave altogether.

When a Pisces man is playing you, he’ll show you mixed signals. You may feel like he’s leading you on. A Pisces man who seems to be a player may actually just not trust you yet. He may be waiting to see if you follow through on your word.

A Pisces man can be cautious at first when he’s falling in love. If you want him to open up about his feelings, it’s best to be honest and consistent. As soon as he knows he can trust you, a Pisces man won’t hesitate to tell you how he feels.

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Speak Symbolically

What happens when you ignore a Pisces man? He won’t know how to interpret your silence. As a creative and imaginative man, he will automatically imagine the worst. He may jump to the conclusion that you don’t care about him.

If a Pisces man isn’t ready to speak about his feelings directly through verbal communication, try to use symbolic communication to reach his heart. Send him emojis or gifs through text to show him how you feel.

He’s good at responding through pictures and symbols, instead of words. He is also good at understanding metaphoric communication. Set the foundation for communication about feelings by telling him a story.

Send him a poem or make reference to a parable or myth that best conveys how you feel. This will also help him respond in kind by going deeper into his own vulnerability and sharing his emotions through these symbolic types of expression.

If you’re wondering how to know when a Pisces man is interested in you, look at his actions as well as listening to his words. A Pisces man will be more open to talking about his feelings when he feels comfortable and can relax and be affectionate.

Encourage His Creative Expression

If you see signs a Pisces man is falling in love, don’t try to push him to say the words. Instead, encourage him to be creative. It is more likely a Pisces man will express how he feels in artistic ways long before he speaks about his feelings directly.

A Pisces man needs to feel like his emotions will be validated. He’s used to people calling him a dreamer and dismissing his emotional nature. He’s had more than the lion’s share of people judging or negating his feelings.

Often, a Pisces man is concerned that he will open up to you and be laughed at, misunderstood, rejected or abandoned. He can feel insecure about how you’ll react to his feelings. Even if he thinks you’re on his side, he will be reluctant to directly state how he feels.

Also, he doesn’t always fully understand how he’s feeling. He may have mixed feelings or intense emotions that pull him in two different directions at the same time. He may be overwhelmed by emotions he can’t describe directly or feel he can’t put his finger on exactly how he feels.

When you encourage a Pisces man to express himself and share his feelings, you’re helping him clear his mind and get to the bottom of what he is actually feeling. You’re helping him to work through a labyrinth of confusing emotions in order to understand how he actually feels.

A Pisces man may write poetry, create a painting or play music for a while and through the process of being creative, he will come to better understand how he is feeling. When he understands what he really feels, he’ll be better able to talk about feelings with you.

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Use Metaphors

It’s easier for a Pisces man to talk about his feelings when the conversation isn’t directly about him. When you sidestep the issues by using metaphors, a Pisces man can become much more comfortable speaking about how he feels.

It’s easier for him to talk about his feelings when he can mask some level of intimacy through metaphor. He needs this emotional space to feel comfortable being open without feeling too vulnerable.

A Pisces man can also become more open to expressing how he feels when he doesn’t feel like he’s being put under the spotlight. When you talk in terms of metaphor or simile, it makes him feel free to share his emotions without feeling like he’s bearing his soul.

When you talk to a Pisces man in metaphors, he instantly understands you are speaking about your own feelings but doing so in a slightly obscure way. This will be a relief to him. He’ll want to follow your lead and contribute by sharing his own emotions in a metaphoric way.

Talk About Your Feelings

You can also encourage a Pisces man to talk about his feelings by simply taking the initiative and talking about your own feelings first. Often, a Pisces man will hold back because he’s waiting for you to initiate.

When a Pisces man knows exactly how you feel, he will know how to express himself to avoid rejection or criticism. Pisces are like the chameleons of the zodiac. They will change their image to fit what you want from them.

The way they ascertain what you want from them is to listen carefully to you when you talk about how you feel. A Pisces man will mold his own feelings around what you feel about him. He may love you, but if he thinks you only like him as a friend, he’ll downplay his own feelings.

You may have to take the lead and show more dramatic interest in him for a Pisces man to open up and share his heart with you. You may have to be the first to say “I love you.” But if you really want him to talk about feelings, it’s worth taking the initiative.

This is a strategy to use when you want to talk about love, but also works when it comes to talking to him about feelings in general. If you want him to be candid about how he’s feeling about something, role model this.

Be the one to break the ice and talk about your own feelings first. Then ask how he feels about it. From simple things like “I’m really happy about how this project is going, what about you?” If you really want to encourage him to reveal deeper feelings, be candid about your own mixed feelings.

Tell him you’re really happy with how the project is going, then add that you are frustrated with one aspect of it. This will encourage him to speak more candidly about what he, too, is frustrated by.

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Encourage His Vulnerability

When a Pisces man starts to feel vulnerable, he’ll become more distant. He won’t ignore you, but he will try to suppress his feelings. He may try to distract himself from his vulnerable emotions through a series of addictions or addictive behavior.

A Pisces man will try to ignore his own feelings. Asking him to talk about how he feels will only come across as putting salt on a wound to a Pisces man who is trying hard to downplay his feelings.

He goes to great lengths to avoid feeling uncomfortable. He may start to tune you out or get lost in a book or video games. He may try to avoid conversations about emotion altogether because he doesn’t want to feel insecure.

The best thing to do when you want a Pisces man to talk about feelings, is to show him that you can be supportive and encouraging when it comes to his more vulnerable emotions. He has a tendency to feel things on a deeper level.

He will want to know that you can handle his rollercoaster ups and downs. The more you encourage him and recognize when he actually is being vulnerable, the better.