How to Make a Virgo Man Confess His Love

There’s no easy way to know how to make a Virgo man obsessed with you. If he’s not into you, it may be impossible to change his mind.

Once he is already into you, though, you can do things to progress the relationship and get him to confess his love to you.

When a Virgo man says, “I love you,” to somebody, he means it. It can take some time for him to get to the point where he is comfortable saying it. Once he does, though, you can trust that he’s telling the truth.

Show Your Love

You may not know what to say to a Virgo man to get his attention. It’s not always about what you say, though, but what you do to show you care.

Virgo has an analytical mind. He thinks things through before he commits to them, and relationships are no exception. Before he says he loves you, he wants to know that he’s not going to be rejected.

He will be looking for signs that his feelings are reciprocated.

Of course, the easiest way would be to just tell him you love him first. The problem with this is that Virgo likes to be in control and he may want to be the one to confess first.

You may need to sit back and wait for him to be the first one to say, “I love you”. Be patient and do things to show him that you love him, rather than telling him.

Spend time with him. Make sure he knows how much you love being around him. Listen intently when he talks to you. Be there for him when he’s down.

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Open Up to Him

When he opens up to you about his feelings, that is one of the signs a Virgo man is serious about you. Once he starts doing this, it’s only a matter of time before he confesses his feelings for you.

Opening up to him will show him that you’re serious about him as well. This will be more effective if you’re also somebody who takes time to trust other people with your inner thoughts and feelings.

If you need emotional support, go to him. He’ll appreciate that you are trusting him with your feelings.

Virgo isn’t always comfortable when people are upset and emotional around him. If he cares about you, he’ll try his best to comfort you, even if he is uncomfortable or unsure.

If you’re an open book and you trust others easily, try finding something that you don’t normally open up to others about. Everyone has secrets. Everyone has things they don’t like to tell other people, even if they trust them.

Share with him the things you never share with other people. Make sure he understands how important it is that you’re sharing these things with him too.

Talk About Your Relationship

The best way to make a Virgo feel like he is on solid ground is to have open discussions about the nature of your relationship.

He is somebody you need to have “the relationship talk” with. You two need to properly define your relationship so that you’re on the same page.

If he isn’t sure where he stands with you, he’ll be less likely to confess his feelings for you. You can’t just casually date him without defining the relationship and expect a love confession from him.

This is especially necessary if you two previously defined your relationship as a casual one, a friends-with-benefits situation, etc. If he still thinks you’re not serious about him, he won’t tell you he has feelings for you.

You two need to sit down together and figure out exactly what you want out of the relationship. Are you two exclusive? Do you see this relationship working out long-term?

This is important even if you’ve only been on a few dates. If you want to be in an actual relationship with him, make that clear.

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Make Him Feel Special

Virgo wants to feel like he is special to you. If he loves you, there is something about you that sets you apart from other people in his life.

When he does something for you, show him you appreciate it. If he helps clean things up when he’s over at your house, thank him. If he gives you a gift, let him know how thoughtful it is.

Show him that you notice things about him and that you remember things he tells you.

If he mentions his favorite food to you, try making it for him one night. If he likes a specific band, get tickets the next time they are in town.

Let him know that he’s the only one occupying your love life at the moment too. He won’t know that you’re only going on dates with him if you don’t tell him that. It’s common for people to date around until they define a relationship.

He wants to know that he’s important to you. Make time for him. He will find time for you in his schedule even when he’s busy if he cares about you. Make sure you are returning the favor.

Meet His Family

Virgo’s family is usually important to him. Whether it is the family he was born into or his chosen family, showing you are willing to meet his family is one way to make a Virgo man happy.

Even if you and a Virgo man are just friends, showing that you want to meet his family could change that. If you two get into a relationship, you’re likely to see his family often.

If you two just recently got into a relationship and he wants to take you home to meet his family, don’t turn him down. He doesn’t take just anybody home to his parents.

Show interest in his family when you meet them as well. Actively engage with them. Don’t just sit around while he talks to his siblings, join in on the conversation.

Meeting his family might make you feel nervous. Just relax. If he’s asking you to meet them in the first place, that’s a sign that he’s serious about you.

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Converse Often

You can’t make a Virgo man confess his love to you if he doesn’t love you in the first place. Before you put in the effort to get him to confess, figure out how he feels about you.

Look for signs a Virgo man is falling for you when you two are talking together. He’ll have some tells.

Virgos aren’t always the most forthcoming with their emotions. They do have feelings but they often prefer to hide them.

Pay attention to how he looks at you when you’re talking. When he loves somebody, he can’t hide it entirely, especially when he makes eye contact with them.

He will be willing to have emotional conversations with you if he cares about you as well. You two won’t always stick to intellectual discussions or “safe” topics if he loves you.

He’ll feel comfortable talking about feeling more with you if he loves you. This might be his way of working up to a confession. He may take baby steps and reveal more and more about his feelings until he finally tells you he loves you.

Be Affectionate

This isn’t necessarily how to make a Virgo man commit to you but it is one way to make him feel secure. If he’s comfortable with you, he’ll be more likely to open up and tell you that he loves you.

Don’t overwhelm him with affection. Build up to it. Hold his hand, rest your head on his shoulder while you watch a movie, or put an arm around his shoulder.

Do little things to show that you care about him. Not all affection is physical. Doing chores or running errands for him when he’s busy shows that you care. Bringing him lunch when he’s working more than usual does too.

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Make Him Feel Secure

Do you want to know how to make a Virgo man chase you? If he feels comfortable and secure with you, he’ll keep coming back.

A Virgo man’s insecurities in love might hold him back from saying he loves you even if he does. If he’s been hurt in the past, he’ll be reluctant to open up too soon out of fear of rejection.

Show him that you intend to stick around. Let him know that you are serious about the relationship.

When he makes plans with you, don’t cancel on him or show up late. When you say you’ll do something for him, show him that he can rely on you.

When he does confess his love for you, make sure you are 100% clear about the fact that you reciprocate his feelings. Don’t leave him wondering if you love him. Make sure he knows.