Are Virgo Men Loyal?

When you see signs a Virgo man is falling in love with you, you can be sure he wants to be with you forever. He’s loyal to friends and lovers.

Understanding a Virgo man is important so that you’ll know when to be patient with him. If you can play his waiting game, you’ll be rewarded.

When a Virgo man says “I love you,” he is making it clear he only wants to be with you. He’s almost cheat proof. He’ll stick with you through almost anything.

What Loyalty Means to a Virgo Man

A Virgo man is actually loyal from the very beginning. One of the most common Virgo man characteristics is that he is always looking for security. This means loyalty is the basis of his relationship even when he’s casually dating you.

He’s grounded in practicality. He sees loyalty as a natural extension of this. It’s too much drama to stop and start relationships. A Virgo man would rather take his time, make sure you’re the One, and stand by your side.

To a Virgo man, loyalty is the bedrock of a relationship. He doesn’t believe in playing games or looking outside of the relationship to get his needs met. He is a one woman man once his mind is made up.

To a Virgo man, loyalty also means respect. He sees it as an insult if others aren’t loyal to him and he reciprocates by always being faithful in relationships.

The simple secrets you can use to seduce and keep your Virgo man (they work like magic) →

Why Virgo Men Are Among the Most Loyal

Always the pragmatist, a Virgo man is in some ways programmed for loyalty. He’s slow to open up because he believes in being rational, not passionate. Yet this works to your advantage.

A Virgo man may be frustratingly slow to open up. Yet this puts him in an ideal situation to be faithful because he’s already carefully considered his options from every possible angle. He doesn’t need to play the field. He already analyzed the relationship.

He’s also extremely cautious about his health and his work. He doesn’t want to get entangled in drama by being involved in numerous relationships. He knows doing so could hurt his reputation.

He doesn’t want to be distracted from his work or interests, so he knows it’s best to just stay the course. Also, he’s a germophobe. He doesn’t want to be impulsive about intimacy because of the potential health consequences.

So he is well suited to take his time, find one woman, and make things work through thick and thin. He would rather solve problems than leave a relationship.

He’s Focused on You

A Virgo man is detail oriented. When he’s in a relationship, even casually dating and preparing for exclusivity, he’s focused on you. He’s analyzing and evaluating every aspect of the relationship. Rest assured, he’s so focused on you, he has no time for anyone else.

He’ll take an intellectual approach to the relationship. This takes so much of his energy, that he would have no desire to throw caution to the wind and impulsively pursue someone else.

He’s used to having friends, but you don’t have to worry about him suddenly leaving you because he’s fallen in love with a friend. He takes his time and cautiously eases his way into a relationship.

Feelings aside, a Virgo man will always let his logic and reason prevail over passions and emotion. He won’t let himself be seduced by another woman when he’s serious about you.

Use these secrets to make your Virgo man love you (they work like magic) →

He’s Too Practical to Stray

If you’re wondering what a Virgo man likes in a woman, start with intellect and intelligence. Then add patience, pragmatism, resourcefulness and helpfulness. He loves it when a woman is consistent.

A Virgo man’s compatibility is best with a woman who is as serious but slightly more nurturing than he is. He needs to know you take commitments as seriously as he does but also that you have a softer side.

He’s stable and loves to feel secure. He is attracted to a no-nonsense, no-drama woman who is down to earth like he is. All of these qualities, he knows, indicate that a partner will be faithful and committed.

These are also the qualities that influence his ideals and tendency to be loyal and trustworthy. He’s slow to open up not because he has “trust issues” but because he is carefully selecting his ideal partner for life.

A Virgo man is observant. He’s seen what happens when guys play around and cheat. He has seen the heartbreak and downright chaos it causes, and he wants no part of that.

A Virgo man in bed is sending a clear message, he trusts you to only be with him and for practical and emotional reasons, he plans to only be with you. This is just as much about health and safety as it is about emotion.

He Takes Commitments to Heart

A Virgo man’s word has the weight of a legally binding contract. One reason he won’t give any guarantees is because he wants to make sure he can deliver on his promises.

This can be frustrating, but it is an example of how seriously he views his commitments. This is the case whether you are his colleague, friend or partner. A Virgo man in love is every bit as devoted.

He doesn’t let emotion or temptation change his mind. He will be personally devastated if he has to go back on his word. Even if it is a matter of a simple mistake, he’ll take it to heart. This is because he always wants to be consistent.

His loyalty in relationships is a natural extension of this common Virgo characteristic of consistency and reliability. You can set your watch by a Virgo man. For him, monogamy and exclusivity go hand in hand with stability. He doesn’t have to even think about his decision.

A Virgo man is just naturally inclined to show fidelity to those he cares about rather than rock the boat. He’ll stick with you even when things get challenging. He works to establish the foundation of a relationship and doesn’t want to jeopardize it.

Is your Virgo man painfully distant? Rekindle your love. →

He Loves Consistency and Hates Change

Another practical reason a Virgo man is naturally inclined to be loyal and faithful is because he hates to make any major life changes. It’s easier for him to stick with what works than to act on impulse.

He is intelligent and practical. He knows the best way to avoid catastrophe and change is to just abide by the social contract of loyalty in his relationships. He would rather do the same thing all the time than chase excitement and new romance.

He’ll love to see that you are consistent because this reminds him you are faithful. He will feel reassured that you are his perfect partner when you show him that you are as reliable as he is.

Being with the same person for a long-term relationship is grounding and makes a Virgo man feel secure. He doesn’t want to be a serial dater who goes from one relationship to another. He wants to commit for good.

What Will Challenge His Loyalty

Though he will hang on to a relationship and try to work through difficulties rather than move on or seek love on the side, there are some things you should know about a Virgo man’s loyalty.

He is not one to be taken advantage of. He may love you, but he knows that unconditional love can be felt even if he moves on from a romantic relationship. He won’t tolerate certain things.

A Virgo man hates change, but he will become frustrated and end the relationship if he feels the obstacles are irreconcilable. If he repeatedly tries to get you to work on the issues in the relationship and believes you aren’t following through, he’ll give up.

If he perceives you as being unfaithful, dishonest or too invested in drama and chaos, he’ll move on. If you put his health in jeopardy because of sloppiness or carelessness or if you are chronically messy, he’ll end the relationship.

The common thread, as you can see, is if he’s pushed to his limits, he still will usually not cheat. Instead he’ll just end the relationship. He wants to be loyal, but he understands that his security is paramount.

He won’t stay in a relationship that has turned into an uphill battle. If you challenge his limits or boundaries or jeopardize his work or reputation, he won’t tolerate it.

Yet even if he moves on, he still shows his loyalty. He won’t betray your secrets. Even in defense of himself. He’ll keep your confidences. He doesn’t want to expose your flaws. He just wants to reconcile your differences or move on.

A tiny trick to snatch your Virgo man's heart?... even if he's cold and distant... →

Ways He Shows His Loyalty

A Virgo man shows his loyalty through his unwavering commitment to you. When he says he’ll do something, he follows through. Though this may seem mundane, it is a big deal to a Virgo man.

He puts infidelity and inconsistency on a similar scale. Although these are two very different things, a Virgo man shows he is loyal through small decisions, so there will be no doubt in your mind that he’s loyal when it comes to big decisions.

A Virgo man will show his loyalty by staying with you and trying to help you advance and live up to your best potential in every way. His loyalty doesn’t mean he’ll take your side if you’re wrong. In fact he has no problem correcting you.

Yet to a Virgo man even this is an act of love, not criticism. He will show firm boundaries in his relationships with other women and other friends. He’ll find routine ways to remind you that you are a top priority.