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How to Get a Cancer Man to Respond to Your Text

Updated October 11, 2024

When it comes to dating a Cancer man, a text response is the least you should expect.

This generous sign is very giving of his time and is generally good at communication.

But what message can you send him to guarantee a response? What can you say to him that will make him unable to resist sending you a reply?

If you want to know how to get a Cancer man to respond to your text, you have to understand the way he thinks.

By looking at his astrological sign’s personality traits, you can get a better sense of what to say to a Cancer man to make him text you back.

Text Him A Direct Question

One of the best ways to get a response from a Cancer man is to send him a direct question.

If you ask him a question, it’s much easier for him to formulate a response and he won’t become so nervous and flustered that he doesn’t say anything at all.

Ask him the name of the book he mentioned he was reading the last time you saw him or what he thinks of the latest news.

This type of message is much more likely to get a response than a simple, “Hey,” which doesn’t require or inspire a response.

It also shows that you care about his opinion and want to know his thoughts. A Cancer guy appreciates this form of flattery and will happily answer your questions.

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Text to Make Plans

One of the signs a Cancer man has feelings for you is that he wants to be around you as much as possible.

He will go out of his way to show up at events he knows you will attend and always jumps at an invitation to hang out with you.

On the other hand, if you can never nail him down for a date or he seems to be avoiding making plans with you, it’s one of the signs a Cancer man is playing you.

To guarantee a response, send a text message to your Cancer guy asking him to get together. Name a specific time and place, and he is sure to reply.

If he doesn’t get back to you or never seems available to get together, it could be a sign that your Cancer guy isn’t interested in you.

But if he likes you, he will respond to you. Even if he is too busy to see you when you offer, he will suggest another time for you to get together instead.

Tempt Him With a Secret

When you want to make sure a Cancer man texts you back, tease him with a secret.

Cancers love when other people confide in them and they can’t resist knowing what it is you’re hiding.

Say something like, “I want to tell you something but you have to promise not to share it with anybody,” or even, “Wanna know a secret?”

You’ll make him so curious that he won’t be able to resist replying to find out something private about you.

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Text to Tell Him About Your Feelings

Many signs are uncomfortable with strong emotions or are reluctant to deal with another person’s feelings, but Cancers embrace anything to do with emotional expression.

If you text a Cancer guy about your feelings, he is sure to respond because he enjoys helping other people work through their emotions and solve their problems.

You could text him about your feelings for him if you want to see how he reacts without having to have an in-person conversation about where your relationship stands.

You could vent your frustrations about a mutual acquaintance or just say that you’re feeling really happy because something good happened that day.

A Cancer man appreciates it when you open up to him and he likes to share feelings, so try getting a response from him by telling him what’s in your heart.

Text to Ask About His Feelings

Of course, talking about feelings shouldn’t be a one-way street. If you text him about your feelings, you should also ask him about his emotions.

When he likes you, he will be happy to engage in this conversation because Cancers love to analyze their feelings.

He will also appreciate that you not only want to share your emotions with him but also care about how he is doing.

If he still doesn’t respond, it could be a sign that he’s not into you or he might just not be comfortable enough to talk about how he feels with you yet.

If you are wondering how to tell if a Cancer man is interested, text him to ask about his feelings to see how he reacts.

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Text Him Right Away

Cancer men don’t like it when a woman plays hard to get because it makes them feel like she isn’t very interested in him.

A Cancer man testing the waters in a new relationship might wait a few hours to get back to you so he doesn’t appear too eager, but normally Cancers are quick to respond.

Treat him the same way by getting back to him as quickly as you can instead of playing mind games by making him wait.

When you’re checking your messages and a new text from your Cancer guy pops up, don’t make him sweat by putting off responding. Show him how much you like him and get the conversation going by replying right away.

Don’t Be Afraid to Text Him First

When a Cancer man has a crush on you, he might be too nervous or shy to send you the first text message.

Even if he worked up the courage to ask if you could exchange phone numbers, it doesn’t mean he will be bold enough to follow up by contacting you.

He could be agonizing over his phone, wondering whether or not he should call, text you, or wait for you to reach out to him.

Don’t be shy when it comes to making the first move with a Cancer man. If you have his number and want to hear from him, send the first text.

Even something as simple as, “Hi, how are you doing?” with a sweet emoji is enough to get the ball rolling.

He will be relieved that you took the pressure off of him to text first and will happily respond to you.

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Text Him a Compliment

If he showers you with compliments when you see him or over text, it’s one of the signs a Cancer man is flirting with you.

Cancers can be very insecure and self-conscious, so as much as they like to give compliments to the ones they love, they like to receive them, too.

If you want to guarantee a response from your Cancer guy, say something nice about him. Tell him that you love his smile, that he’s the sweetest man you know, and that you can’t wait to see him.

If you’re not super comfortable with him yet and don’t want to sound too flirty, just tell him something simple that you like about him, like that you appreciate his taste in music or films.

When you send a Cancer man a flattering text message, you are almost certain to receive one back.

Send Him a Sweet Photo

If you want to know how to make a Cancer man miss you and guarantee a reply from him, try sending him a picture of yourself.

This doesn’t have to be anything too revealing or naughty; in fact, it’s better if you keep your photos sweet rather than sultry.

But if he likes you, he will be thrilled to receive a cute photo of your smiling face and will likely send you a message to show his appreciation. He might even send you a similar picture of himself.

If you want to know how to make a Cancer man obsessed with you, take a flattering photo of yourself looking happy and natural in a feminine dress that accentuates your curves without revealing too much skin.

Not only will he respond to your text message, but he also might even make your picture the background display on his phone.

This magic will make your Cancer man want a relationship with you. →

Text Him Something Subtly Sexy

Every zodiac sign has a ruling planet or heavenly body that reveals something about the personality of that sign. Cancer’s ruling heavenly body is the moon.

The moon is mysterious, almost always hiding parts of itself in the shadows and only coming out at night.

Cancer men, too, appreciate a little mystery and subtlety, especially when it comes to sexual behavior.

If you are wondering how to make a Cancer man want you, don’t be overtly sexual in your texts. Instead of talking dirty to him, send him a flirty or suggestive message.

You could say something like, “I can’t wait to be alone with you later,” with a wink or a heart emoji.

If you want to know how to make a Cancer man chase you, you’ve got to leave something to the imagination.

That’s more alluring to a Cancer guy than spelling out exactly what you want to do with him when you’re alone in a text message.

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