Who’s The Cancer Man’s Soulmate?

Men born under the sun sign Cancer are destined to be some of the most loving, loyal, and faithful guys around. They sound like an absolute dream of a romantic partner.

Unfortunately, it isn’t always easy for a Cancer male to find his soulmate. It takes someone with particular qualities to be that perfect match.

We know there are potential candidates for his heart out there, but they might miss out. All because they don’t realize exactly what it takes to be Cancer’s soulmate.

Straightforward

So who is Cancer’s soulmate? The first quality she needs is to be straightforward. Cancer men don’t do so well with hints, clues, coy smiles, or passive-aggressive comments, so getting right to the point suits them fine.

Of course, he’s sensitive enough to know you may not always want to get things out in the open. That’s not a problem for this water sign. Cancer men would prefer you to be direct about the things you are happy to share.

Cancer men are attracted to women who are confident about expressing their thoughts, ideas, and opinions.

His soulmate needs to do the same in an intelligent, reasonable way. Debates are fine, but screaming arguments don’t feature on the sensitive Cancer man’s wish list.

As time passes, a Cancer man will soon get bored being around someone that holds eithersome things or everything back, and tired of those who are blunt to the point of rudeness.

Nobody could accuse Cancer guy of being intolerant or impatient. Okay, he can be moody sometimes but that’s usually a result of him feeling uneasy, or very unsure.

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Trusting

A soulmate could easily be Cancers best friend because both roles are very much about trust.

A soulmate must always be that one person you know beyond doubt has got your back. They keep your secrets, and they know both your greatest strengths, and your weaknesses.

Cancer men don’t find it easy to trust someone, and it will take some time to build that up. Still, without it, a relationship can only ever be superficial.

One thing potential soulmates should understand is that Cancer men heal quite slowly. If he’s been hurt before by a woman he loved, that wound will be raw for a while.

The good news is that Cancers do bounce back, so stick with it. Let him set the pace and do nothing to risk him feeling wary. Over time and with effort trust will develop naturally.

Sensitive

Potential Cancer twin flame candidates are always extremely sensitive, just as the Cancer man is.

Here sensitive refers to being aware, thoughtful, and kind. Like being on the same wavelength all of the time when around your soulmate.

It also covers consideration and empathy. These essential elements of sensitivity help soothe and reassure the emotional Cancer.

They allow him firstly to identify his soulmate, and then enjoy all the benefits that relationship brings.

What a soulmate would never do is flirt with other people to make their Cancer men jealous. That applies whether they’ve just met, or have made a commitment to each other. Safety and security are paramount for a crab.

As a cardinal sign, Cancer men have plenty of confidence, but this is more obvious in work-related environments.

When it comes to anything personal, the influence of their ruling planet, the moon, is easy to spot. Great waves of emotion are commonplace.

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Empathetic

You can spot a genuine Cancer soulmate in various ways. One of these is through her empathetic attitudes and actions. The moon, that all-powerful planet that governs our emotions, also rules Cancer men.

A Cancer man isn’t the most open of people, so he needs a life partner who can cope with his ups and downs. No wonder that empathy is essential if he’s to spend the rest of his life with someone.

An empathetic soulmate can respond naturally to a Cancer man’s mood and offer the appropriate response without any fuss. Being sensitive himself means your Cancer man will always return the favor.

Imagine being close to someone who is just as willing to share your smiles, joys, and celebrations, along with down days, setbacks, and problems. That’s how a Cancer’s soulmate is.

Compassionate

The absolute best match for a Cancer man is someone genuinely compassionate.

This trait suits his sensitive nature because compassion leads to fair and worthwhile actions and decisions. It’s not unusual for Cancer men to work in a field where understanding is critical.

Compassion is described as the ability to identify with people’s struggles in challenging circumstances and then being moved to take action.

Cancer men are no armchair warriors! He’s the person who donates to a local charity but then holds a fundraiser to help them further.

Cancer’s soulmate would have to share his commitment to compassionate action, which means she’ll be equally kind and understanding by nature.

Plus, of course, totally into the idea of actually making a tangible difference in and to the world.

It’s pretty easy to underestimate Cancer men. They may be more openly in touch with their emotions, but that’s not the weakness opponents would have you believe.

Neither should a Cancer man’s initiative and leadership abilities surprise anybody.

After all, Cancer is one of the four cardinal signs. This sign launches the summer solstice and pushes life forward as the Earth transitions from one season to another.

His soulmate needs to be just as keen to surrender to any new and exciting experiences that show themselves.

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Financially Independent

Anyone looking for a meal ticket should keep on walking, right past a Cancer man. It’s not that Cancers are particularly penny-pinching; they just dislike people who make assumptions and being taken advantage of.

Most Cancer men like to create stability in their lives, and of course, finances are pivotal to the kind of lifestyle you can enjoy.

It’s not about having unlimited funds or winning the Lotto, but managing what you have in the best way possible.

Ultimately, regardless of anything, Cancer men really care about being loved for who they are, not what they have.

Cancer’s soulmate would never take advantage or expect him to fund every date they enjoy. For him it’s about attitude, not the money directly.

Good Listener

Understanding a Cancer man isn’t particularly difficult, so long as you can look beyond the obvious, or the bland, everyday face he presents to the world. . Being a good listener is part of this process.

It takes quite a time for Cancerians to build up a high level of trust, so he’ll open up in stages.

Drip feeding confidences to test the waters until being more open feels comfortable. His soulmate developing solid listening skills will help him get there.

Ultimately Cancer’s soulmate will provide an invaluable listening ear. Be keen to hear about their partner’s everyday ups and downs, and provide support, praise or comfort as needed. Just as he happily does these things for her.

Being a good listener encourages a Cancer man to be more open, to let out feelings usually kept inside.

Sharing these things is much better for both his physical and emotional health. There’s no way a relationship without this connection could survive.

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Fun

Cancer men are naturally funny, although their sense of humor can be a little quirky and goofy at times. Being intelligent adds an extra edge to their antics and stories, and a Cancer’s soulmate will appreciate that.

Laughter at the right moments is what a Cancer man wants to hear, from the one person they always want to impress.

Although Cancer men aren’t attention-grabbing like some signs, they enjoy entertaining a smaller audience of people they know well.

Sometimes a Cancer man’s idea of fun may seem a little strange. For example, they are very good at making clever, cutting comments that target themselves.

These are entirely about generating a comic effect, but this jokey style can unnerve people who don’t know him.

Motherly

Whatever a Cancer soulmate’s age, she’ll be a caring and maternal kind of person. Cancer men rate family ties very highly, so he just wouldn’t be attracted to someone who is not close to her folks.

Marriage to a Cancer man is like having a whole extra family of your own, so his soulmate would need to be comfortable with that. She would also need to truly respect his bonds with and commitment to his parents and siblings.

Although family and children are important to a Cancer man, he values a motherly soulmate in other ways too. His ultimate need is for a stable and secure life, with more happiness than conflict.

The average Cancer man isn’t looking for a mother figure, just a warm, caring, easy-going partner who creates a welcoming environment.