How To Beat a Virgo Man At His Own Game

Be calm and patient, and remain rational, even if you’re competing with a Virgo man. If you want to beat him at his own game, you can’t let your emotions get the best of you.

You can bring a Virgo man down by criticizing him and telling him he’s wrong. Outsmart him and show him that your way is better than his. That will definitely get under his skin.

Be consistent if you want to beat a Virgo man. He’ll beat you if he catches you in lies or you stop trying to win against him.

He Usually Doesn’t Play Games

A Virgo man’s mind games can be hard to figure out, but you won’t need to most of the time. Virgo men usually do not play games.

Virgo men don’t usually have time to play games with people. They would rather focus on people they care about instead of messing with those they don’t.

If your Virgo man is doing certain things that seem like he’s messing with you, he might not be trying to play games.

For example, Virgo men are incredibly particular. They are picky with everyone. If yours criticizes you or insists you do things his way, he probably does that to everyone.

How do you know if a Virgo man is playing games with you? He’ll treat you differently than others. If he’s more critical of you or only picks at you, then he’s likely messing with you.

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Be Calm & Patient

Be calm and patient if you want to beat a Virgo man at his own game. If he sees you freak out or become impatient with his behavior, he’ll think he’s won.

Virgo men try to appear logical and unemotional. They think they’ve won an argument if their “opponent” becomes emotional or upset, so remain calm even if you’re disagreeing with a Virgo man.

You should also remain patient even if you think a Virgo man is intentionally messing with you. You’ll beat him at his own game if he knows that he can’t get a reaction out of you.

If a Virgo man is acting distant, be patient with him. If he only acts this way to mess with you, he’ll see that he can’t get under your skin.

Remain Rational

If you’re playing games with a Virgo man, you must remain rational. You want to get the best of him, not the other way around.

A Virgo man’s mixed signals can be incredibly frustrating, but don’t let them get the best of you. If your Virgo man has upset you, don’t let him see that!

Focus on logic when arguing with a Virgo man. Back things up with facts, not emotions, when you tell him he’s wrong.

If your Virgo man sees that you can outsmart him while remaining as rational as he likes to think he is, you’ll beat him at his own game. You might even earn his respect as well!

A Virgo man will think he’s won the second you do or say something that he thinks is illogical. Don’t give him the satisfaction, and try to be entirely rational when arguing.

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Criticize Him

One of the signs a Virgo man is using you is that he will maliciously criticize you. If you want to beat him at his own game, criticize him too!

What pushes a Virgo man away? A Virgo man can be a hypocrite because he criticizes people constantly but can’t handle it when others criticize him. If you want to beat him, you need to criticize him.

Virgo men criticize everyone for a variety of reasons. A Virgo man will likely criticize the people he cares about because he’s trying to be helpful. He might not always understand why these criticisms don’t go well.

You can show a Virgo man exactly how it feels by criticizing him. Offer unsolicited criticism any chance you get. If you don’t want to push him away entirely, you can be gentle but still drive your point home.

Tell Him He’s Wrong

Virgo men have a hard time being wrong. Some Virgo men are better about it than others, but some Virgo men hate hearing that they are wrong more than anything else.

If your Virgo man always thinks he’s right, call him out when he’s wrong. Don’t let things go if you want to beat him at his own game.

Some Virgo men like to do things a certain way and will tell people who do things differently that they’re wrong.

A Virgo man will use things that are a matter of opinion or preference to prove that he’s “right,” even when there is no correct answer.

If your Virgo man doesn’t do things your way, tell him he’s the wrong one. Don’t let him convince you that you’re in the wrong or that his way is better. Fight back instead!

It will get under his skin if you can prove a Virgo man wrong. A more mature Virgo man who cares about you will get over it, but one who cannot be wrong will be incredibly frustrated.

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Outsmart Him

Virgo men think of themselves as being rational and intelligent. They tend to be highly knowledgeable about the subjects they’re interested in and constantly want to learn new things.

Some Virgo men understand that people are intelligent in different ways and are humble about their intelligence. Others think they are always the most intelligent person in the room, though!

If your Virgo man thinks he’s more intelligent than you, outsmarting him will get under his skin! He’ll hate this just as much as he hates being wrong.

You can outsmart a Virgo man by being more witty or clever than him. You can also point out any details he gets wrong when telling a story or tell him that he doesn’t have his facts right.

If you outsmart a Virgo man more than once, you’ll beat him at his own game. He’ll realize he’s not the most intelligent person in the world and can’t pretend he is when you’re around.

Do Things Your Way

Virgo men are used to doing things a specific way, and some will try to make other people do things their way too.

For example, your Virgo man might load the dishwasher a specific way. He might insist that you do things exactly how he does and may become irritated if you load the dishes differently.

Something like the dishes or other household chores might seem insignificant, but you can beat a Virgo man at his own game by insisting on doing things your way, not his.

Don’t just refuse to do what your Virgo man wants. Insist that he should do things your way because they’re better. Act as he does, and that will get under his skin.

If your Virgo man tries to call out your behavior, turn things around on him. Tell him that he is the one who always insists on doing things his way and that you are just doing the same thing he does.

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Set Firm Boundaries

It’s important to set firm boundaries with a Virgo man if you want to beat him at his own game. If a Virgo man is not serious about you, he might still try to push those boundaries, so you must be firm with them.

Boundaries are essential to Virgo men, so yours will likely have clear ones. Don’t allow him to set boundaries with you and then disrespect yours. Enforce your boundaries, or he’ll be able to get under your skin.

If a Virgo man is pulling away from you after you’ve set boundaries, he likely doesn’t care about you. He’ll win if you give in and let him push your boundaries. Don’t let him!

Beating a Virgo man at his own game is only possible if you have firm boundaries. He will likely start to push back against certain boundaries to try and get the upper hand if you are both playing with one another.

Be Consistent

You need to be consistent if you want to beat a Virgo man at his own game. You cannot back down or allow him to get what he wants.

If you tell your Virgo man that he’s wrong but go back on what you said or back down when he argues, you’ll never get the best of him.

If you end up doing things his way instead of insisting on doing things your way, your Virgo man will be the one who wins.

You need to show your Virgo man that you are strong and independent. Be consistent and stick to your guns. If you’re inconsistent, a Virgo man can find flaws in you. If you’re consistent, he won’t have anything to pick at.

The second a Virgo man sees an inconsistency in your behavior, he’ll point it out. Do your best not to let that happen!