Catching an Aquarius man’s eye can be difficult at times. He often has a lot going on. If he’s caught up in something, he might not notice you.
You’ll have to work to get his attention but it will be worth it.
You won’t get an Aquarius man’s attention by throwing yourself at him. That will turn him off. He likes somebody who is a bit of a mystery. He likes independent women who know when to give him the space he needs.
He also likes people who are both intelligent and creative. Catch his eye by showing off some art or talking about your area of expertise. Engage him in conversation.
Whatever you do, remember not to push or pressure him. That might get his attention but not in the way you want.
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Be Mysterious
Will an Aquarius man chase you? He will if he thinks you’re a mystery that needs solving.
Aquarius men love a bit of mystery in a relationship. Don’t feel like you have to try too hard or throw yourself at him to get him to like you.
This is one of the reasons Aquarius is often compatible with Scorpio. That alluring sense of mystery a Scorpio has is irresistible to an Aquarius.
You don’t have to be a Scorpio to catch his eye, though. Just play coy sometimes. Let him message you first. Don’t spill your entire life story the first few times you two talk.
Leave some things to the imagination when you’re talking to him. Don’t lie or refuse to answer any questions he asks. Just always make sure there’s more about you for him to discover.
Make sure mutual friends know not to reveal too much if he does ever ask about you. Let them help you out with projecting an air of mystery.
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Get Him Alone
If he’s entirely unwilling to ever be alone with you, that’s a sign that an Aquarius man is not into you.
You’ll be able to better see how an Aquarius man acts when he likes you when you two are alone. He isn’t always into public displays of affection and it can be hard to read him when he’s in a crowd.
It will also be hard to truly catch his eye if you’re getting lost in a group of people. You need to get him alone so you two can interact one-on-one to get him to notice you.
The best way to get him alone is to engage him in a conversation about something he finds interesting. If you have mutual friends, ask them what some good topics of conversation are.
If you’re completely in the dark about his interests, strike up a conversation about work. He’ll likely be willing to talk to you about what he does and you’ll be able to pick up some other interests of his from there.
Be Classy
An Aquarius man will take notice if you’re a classy, sophisticated woman.
He likes to have fun but he doesn’t like to be too loud or messy while doing so. You don’t need to be the loudest person in the room to catch his attention.
He’ll notice if you’re the only one at a party with your wits about you. He’ll notice when your outfits always look nice and put together.
You don’t need to pretend to be somebody you’re not. Again, he likes to have fun! Don’t be a wallflower if you’re not. Don’t hold yourself back.
Just let your classy side shine through when he’s around. Show him that you can have intellectual conversations and that you’re the kind of person he can take out to events without worrying about you.
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Be Smart
One sign an Aquarius man is interested in somebody is that he will try to impress them with his knowledge. He’ll always appreciate it if you try to get his attention by showing off how smart you are.
If you want to know if an Aquarius man doesn’t like you, just pay attention to how he acts when you talk. If he’s interested, he’ll pay close attention. He’ll want to hear what you have to say. He’ll actively engage in what you’re saying as well.
If he’s not interested, he’ll just ignore you. It won’t matter how smart you are or how interesting what you have to say is. He won’t pay attention.
If you are talking and he’s listening, that’s a good sign you’re succeeding in catching an Aquarius man’s eye.
Be a Good Friend
It’s often easier to spot signs an Aquarius man is falling for you when you two are already close friends.
Aquarius is the kind of person who likes to be friends with somebody before he dates them. If you two are already friends, you have a higher chance of catching his eye.
Aquarius men make excellent friends. Even if things don’t work out romantically, you’ll likely have a friend for life if you’re able to develop a connection with him.
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Don’t Pressure Him
Do Aquarius men avoid their crush? This is one sign that will ignore somebody they have a crush on, for a variety of reasons.
If you think he’s avoiding you, don’t push him too hard. He might need some space or he might be unsure about the relationship.
If you pressure him too much, that will only tell him you don’t respect his boundaries. He needs his freedom sometimes.
You won’t catch his eye if you’re constantly pursuing him and bothering him. When he wants to be left alone, leave him alone!
He’ll notice how respectful you are if you back off when he needs you to. You’ll stand out from everyone else who was bothering him and not giving him the space he needs.
Be Logical
Aquarius men aren’t overly emotional people. They are the type who would rather try to rationalize through their emotions than feel them.
You don’t have to be an emotionless robot but if you can remain logical in times of high stress or high emotion, an Aquarius man will notice you.
One of the signs an Aquarius man secretly likes you is that he will be willing to show some emotion for you now and then. Until you get to that point, try to stick to your more logical, rational side.
Unlike some other logical signs, like Virgo, Aquarius men know that you can’t always be logical. He likes to think outside the box and get a little wild sometimes. He likes to have fun.
Be sure that you can have a logical, intellectual discussion with him if that is what he’s looking for, though. He’ll notice you if you can do that.
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Keep Him Guessing
As mentioned, Aquarius men love a bit of mystery. They also hate to be bored or fall into a routine.
If you two are already talking or you see him regularly, keep him guessing about you.
Don’t always answer questions in a way he’d expect. Bring up unique topics of conversation and don’t always stick to the same old things.
Ask him off-the-wall questions while you’re talking to him. He loves answering odd questions or talking about weird things! Don’t worry about seeming too weird around him either. He loves weird things and people.
If you have a unique hobby, make sure he knows. If he has a certain image of you, do something to break that image. Make sure he’s never able to stick you into a box or predict how you’re going to answer something.
Be Independent
Even when an Aquarius man has a crush on you, he won’t want to spend all his time with you. If you want to pursue a relationship with him, you need to show him how independent you are.
One thing an Aquarius likes to hear from any potential partner is that they value freedom and independence as much as he does.
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Be Creative
Aquarius men are just as creative as they are logical. As mentioned, he’s not a stick-in-the-mud and he’s not always going to be all about logic.
He likes creative people. Even when problem-solving or having intellectual conversations, he likes somebody creative in their thinking and can come up with things other people wouldn’t think of.
You can be creative in an artistic way but your intelligence can also be creative. Not everybody is book-smart.
Being smart doesn’t mean knowing all the same things everyone else knows. You don’t have to parrot his thoughts for him to think you’re smart.
He wants to hear what you think. He wants to see what makes you unique.
If you can let your logic shine through in your creativity and vice versa, you’ll catch his eye. He likes to see both those traits in the people around him.
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