How to Text a Virgo Man

Virgo men like to talk to people. Some prefer to do so in person so they might only text briefly or if they have to. Others will be more than happy to have a long text conversation with you.

Virgo men are also known for being entirely focused on one task at a time. If you want to text a Virgo man, be patient with him. He won’t always reply right away. He isn’t going to be available for a conversation 24/7.

Most of all, just have fun and be yourself. Don’t stress about texting him.

Be Playful

This is important if you want to know how to attract a Virgo man through text. He often gets a reputation for being a serious person but he is capable of letting loose. He also appreciates people who can be fun and playful.

Your texts don’t always need to be serious. You can text him memes and jokes. You can be silly with him. If he’s had a long day, a playful text from you might be refreshing.

You might be wondering how to know if a Virgo man likes you over text. When he likes somebody, he’ll often be playful and flirtatious in a way he normally isn’t.

When he starts sending jokes or adding emojis to his texts, he probably likes you.

Of course, there is a time and place to be playful. If he texts you about something serious, save the flirting for another time.

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Spellcheck

Virgo is a perfectionist. Knowing this is the key to understanding a Virgo man.

He can be judgemental at times. His texts likely contain full sentences and proper syntax. He might use emojis or common abbreviations but his texts won’t have many of them.

If your texts are full of typos, he’ll notice.

He’s not going to make a big deal out of it if you have one here and there. Everyone makes mistakes. Autocorrect doesn’t always work in your favor either.

If it gets to the point where he can’t understand you or it’s difficult to read your texts, he’ll say something.

Be prepared for this if your usual texting style makes use of a lot of abbreviations and you don’t always use proper syntax.

Use emojis sparingly as well. Sometimes they are appropriate and can add to the conversation. This is especially true if you want to make sure he’s reading your tone correctly. Just don’t overuse them.

Be Brief

Some Virgo men’s texting styles are brief and to the point. Virgo men love to talk but some of them prefer to do it in person.

If the Virgo you are talking to typically sends short texts, respond in turn. He might only message you to make plans or to ask a quick question.

Be direct in your response to him. Don’t go off on a tangent or bring up another topic. If he’s asking a question, he just wants the answer to that question. He doesn’t want to dig through a wall of text to find it.

Not all Virgo men are brief in their texts. Even ones who are aren’t always brief. He may be perfectly happy to have a long conversation over text.

If his responses are brief when they usually aren’t, don’t read too much into it. He may just be busy.

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Don’t Double-Text

Always keep this in mind if you want to know how to communicate with a Virgo man. If you have something to say, try to send it as one message and then wait for a response.

If you have a question for him, just ask one question. Give him time to answer the question. If something is unclear, he’ll let you know. Don’t feel like you have to over-explain before he’s even had a chance to read your text.

If you send a text and don’t hear from him right away, don’t send another text. Be patient.

If you’ve been waiting for a response for a long time, don’t worry. The reasons why Virgo men ignore your texts often have nothing to do with you.

If he’s at work, he’s likely not checking his phone. He likes to focus on one task at a time.

Don’t Always Initiate

Should you text a Virgo man first? Sometimes that’s appropriate. Don’t always be the one to reach out first, though.

Virgo men often like to be in control. He’s comfortable taking the reins and reaching out to you first. If he wants to talk to you, he will initiate a conversation.

If you are always the one to text him first, he might think that you’re clingy. Give him the chance to text you first sometimes. It’s not the end of the world if you two go a couple of days without texting.

You want to make sure the relationship is a reciprocal one as well. If he never texts you first, it might be because he’s not interested. If you go weeks without speaking unless you reach out, think about why that might be.

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Don’t Overwhelm Him

Be patient with a Virgo man. Don’t overwhelm him with constant messages or expect him to always text you back right away.

This is difficult for some people. If you see he’s online but he doesn’t respond, it’s easy to get upset or think that he’s ignoring you.

If it’s been a few hours since you sent a message and he hasn’t responded, you may be tempted to fire off another message. Don’t do that. He becomes overwhelmed when he has too many unread messages on his phone.

If you see him talking in a group chat, that’s where his focus is. If you keep messaging him, it’s going to stress him out. He’ll message you when he has time to focus on the conversation.

Don’t overwhelm him with the content of your messages either. Some conversations should not be had over text. Serious discussions should be saved for another time.

Save Some Conversations for Later

If you’re typing up a text and you realize it’s extremely long, you might want to save that conversation for when you can talk to him in person.

Some topics don’t translate well over text. If you’re upset about something and need to rant, you may want to do that in person. If he’s upset, you can offer to call him so he can more easily get things off his chest.

If you are angry at him, don’t let him know over text. That isn’t appropriate. Let him know you want to talk when he’s available to speak to you in person or over the phone.

Tone is hard to read over text. If you think something might be difficult to explain, save it for the next time you see him.

If you’re talking to him and it’s clear from his responses that he’s misreading your tone, ask to call him or talk later.

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Avoid Deep Discussions

Sudden personal questions or intense emotional discussions are not what a Virgo man wants to hear from you in a text conversation.

This is especially true if you are just getting to know a Virgo. There are some people who you can text out of the blue when you need to talk about something serious.

Virgo isn’t always one of those people, especially if he doesn’t know you well yet.

This doesn’t mean you can’t ever have a serious conversation with him over text. He might reach out to you over text sometimes because something is difficult for him to talk about in person.

He won’t make a habit of it, though. Neither should you. If you do need to have a serious conversation, ask him if it’s alright first. He might be alright with it or he might ask you to save it for another time.

Don’t Scare Him Off

Don’t get too personal with a Virgo too soon. If you just got his number, you don’t need to text him right away.

When you do, just send something simple or let him know who you are if you didn’t also give him your number already.

Don’t come off too strong or too eager. Virgo can be a closed-off person. Even if he’s happy to talk to you sometimes, he may not want to every single day.

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Just Be You

Don’t worry too much about what to say to a Virgo man to get his attention. Just be yourself when you’re talking to him and that will be enough.

He wants to hear your thoughts and opinions on things, not fake thoughts constructed to make him like you.

It’s harder to tell when somebody is being dishonest over text but he will be able to tell the next time you two talk in person. Even if it’s easier to lie over text, don’t get into the habit of doing so.