How to Make a Scorpio Man Fall in Love with You

Every sign has unique personality traits, including what they look for in a romantic partner.

You can use astrology to determine exactly what a Scorpio guy likes and dislikes in a woman.

By looking at his zodiac sign’s typical personality traits and behaviors in love, you can figure out how to make a Scorpio man fall in love with you.

Be Mysterious

If it seems like your Scorpio guy is avoiding you, don’t assume it’s one of the signs a Scorpio man is not interested in you.

Scorpios like to play a little hard to get because they prefer to maintain an air of mystery.

He might make it difficult for you to see him, especially at the beginning of your relationship, because he doesn’t want to come on too strong.

A Scorpio man is attracted to a woman who is as restrained and mysterious as he is.

To make him fall in love with you, you have to have self-control and leave him always wanting more.

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Be Available

Although you should be mysterious, you also need to show your Scorpio guy that you are interested in him for him to fall in love with you.

If you are wondering how to tell if a Scorpio man really loves you, a Scorpio guy with feelings will want to spend all of his time with you.

Playing too hard to get and leaving a Scorpio man alone for too long is a sure way to lose him.

You need to walk the line between being available, but not too available. Show him that you like him and want to spend time with him, but you are busy doing other things, too.

For example, if your Scorpio guy suggests going out on a date on Friday night, tell him you are busy and suggest Saturday night instead.

Don’t try to make him jealous by saying you have another date, but don’t spell out for him what you are doing, either.

Let him wonder what you are up to, but make time to see him after your other plans.

Be Open and Honest

One of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you is when he asks you lots of personal questions and wants to know all the details of your life.

Although he is a sensitive guy, he values honesty before sensitivity. What a Scorpio man wants to hear is the brutal and honest truth rather than a white lie to spare his feelings.

If you want a Scorpio man to fall in love with you, you should never lie or try to deceive him.

Scorpios are very intuitive and great at reading people, so they always know when someone is being dishonest with them.

Even if he takes his time opening up to you and won’t reveal anything about himself, you still need to be honest and direct with your Scorpio man if you want him to fall in love with you.

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Be Discreet

Because he is so private and reluctant to share his thoughts and feelings, a Scorpio man needs a partner who knows how to be discreet.

When he finally trusts you enough to confide in you, the worst thing you could do is to spread his secrets.

A Scorpio man wants a woman he knows he can tell anything to without fear of judgment and without worrying that she will repeat what he says.

To make him fall in love with you, you need to be his closest confidante. Never repeat anything he tells you privately, and check with him first before sharing his words with others.

Be Sexy

Every zodiac sign correlates with a set of body parts that tells us something important about that sign.

A sign’s body parts could be the features that sign finds most attractive, causes them the most physical discomfort, or is their erogenous zone.

The body parts correlated with Scorpio are the reproductive system, the excretory system, the bowels, and the genitals.

This tells us that Scorpio is perhaps the most intensely sexual sign of the entire zodiac and as such, a Scorpio man needs a sexy partner.

Sex is an important aspect of any relationship, but it’s even more important to a Scorpio man. Being sexy, to him, isn’t about having lots of sexual partners or getting busy on the first date.

It’s about self-confidence and being able to express yourself sexually, and knowing what you want in bed and how to ask for it.

To make him fall in love with you, you need to have a high libido and be as wild and experimental in bed as he is.

Show your Scorpio partner that you are willing to give yourself completely to him in the bedroom, and he won’t be able to help but fall madly in love with you.

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Be Ambitious

Scorpios are driven and ambitious, so they are always working on their careers or other projects.

They are interested in self-improvement and consistently work towards bettering themselves.

What attracts Scorpio men is a woman who is just as ambitious and motivated as he is.

If you want a Scorpio guy to fall in love with you, you need to show him that you have dreams and goals of your own.

Tell him about the promotion you are trying to get at work, the self-help book you’re reading, or the fitness goals you are trying to reach.

It doesn’t matter what dream you are working towards as long as you have a goal and a realistic plan to achieve it.

Your Scorpio man will fall in love with your drive and be impressed by your ambition and work ethic.

Be Reliable

A Scorpio man craves a partner who can be his rock. He wants to know that he can count on his partner to have his back no matter what.

Although he wants you to be mysterious, he also wants you to be reliable. It’s important that he feels secure in the relationship.

There are lots of little ways you can prove your dependability to your Scorpio man. Don’t make any promises you can’t keep. He would rather you not make any commitments than promise something and not follow through.

Be consistent with your calls and texts, and don’t disappear on him without giving an explanation.

When you prove that you are steady and reliable, your Scorpio man will only want you more.

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Be Loyal and Trustworthy

Knowing how important loyalty is to him is an important part of understanding the Scorpio man in love.

Even in the early stages of dating a Scorpio man, you may notice some of the signs that he is a possessive and jealous guy.

Scorpio men in relationships are loyal and devoted, so they expect the same out of their partners.

Never try to make your Scorpio man jealous on purpose, and never talk about your past relationships or other men.

If he is going to fall for you he wants to know that he is your one and only, without having to compete with any other guys.

Be Intelligent

Scorpios are highly intelligent and have powerful minds. A Scorpio man won’t settle for a partner he views as ignorant or boring.

Some men are intimidated by smart, strong women, but a Scorpio man isn’t one of them. He would rather have a partner who is his intellectual equal or someone even smarter than he is.

If you want a Scorpio guy to fall in love with you, never play dumb or pretend to be more naive than you really are.

He wants a wise partner who can carry a conversation, not someone who can’t think for herself.

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Be Easy-Going

Scorpios can be difficult to deal with at times because they are both controlling and mercurial.

They experience their emotions intensely and can swing wildly from one mood to the next. They also need to feel like they are in charge, otherwise, they become cranky and irritable.

The best match for a Scorpio man is a patient, easy-going woman who can handle his mood swings and need for control.

She needs to let him take the lead sometimes and know when to laugh off his bad moods.

Better yet, if she can cheer him up instead of letting his occasional negativity get to her, he will fall even more in love with her.

When your Scorpio guy lashes out at you because he’s really mad about something that happened at work, don’t let him start an argument with you, and don’t exacerbate his bad mood.

Steer clear of him and give him some alone time to recover, or put on his favorite show and bring him a snack to help make him feel better.

Once he’s back to feeling like himself he will more than make it up to you for being so grumpy, and he will appreciate and admire how well you understood his needs.