10 Libra Man Red Flags (Learn To Spot Them)

A Libra man shows red flags above and beyond his routine inconsistency and indecisiveness. He can be accommodating, but dishonesty is a red flag.

A Libra man’s red flags also include a lack of communication. Libra is an air sign, and men born under this sign are talkative. If he ghosts you, it’s a bad sign.

Libra men who flirt with others when you’re in a relationship or find reasons to argue with you are not serious about you. Manipulation is a red flag.

1. He Flirts with Others

When you first date a Libra man, expect him to flirt with others. Yet once you are in a serious relationship, he focuses on you. If your Libra man continues flirting indiscriminately, he’s showing a red flag.

He can’t resist being charming. Libra men often sound flirty in communication. You can tell a Libra man isn’t serious about you when he continually sends flirty messages to other women.

If he won’t stop leaving suggestive comments on other women’s social media profiles or flirting with others when he talks, your Libra man is playing games. As a red flag, flirting with other women is one of his earliest warning signs.

What does a Libra man look for in a woman? He wants to be with someone romantic, loyal, and attentive. If he flirts with others around you, it’s a red flag that he is uninterested in you.

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2. He’s Noncommittal

A Libra man can be noncommittal. The sign of the scales fears losing autonomy. He wants the freedom to choose and can be elusive.

You can tell a Libra man is wasting your time if he doesn’t follow through after you’ve invested time in the relationship. Expect him to backpedal when you’re initially dating.

But a Libra man who is not committed to you after you’ve been dating for months is playing games. A Libra man’s red flags include not being reliable. He won’t commit to the relationship.

How does a Libra man test a woman? Men born under this sign can be confusing in love. They don’t commit until they can trust you. But if a Libra man refuses to settle down no matter what you do, he won’t change his mind.

One of the signs a Libra man just wants to be friends is when he doesn’t commit to a date. Rather than telling you he doesn’t have feelings for you, he continually cancels plans or is too busy to spend time with you.

3. He’s Dishonest

Libra men can be flattering and love keeping the peace. They may be compliant. Their people-pleasing nature can make them hide from confrontation.

But if a Libra man is lying to you, it’s a red flag. A dishonest Libra man won’t change for you. He uses lies to manipulate you. Libra men are typically honest and forthright. They care about justice and are usually candid.

If a Libra man lies to you, it is a warning sign. You can confront him with the truth, and he makes excuses. A Libra man who won’t acknowledge the truth, and avoids giving you direct answers is bad news.

Unlike an Aquarius or Virgo man’s red flags, a Libra man who gets caught in a lie is showing you he is not trustworthy. He won’t change and shows a sign of disrespect.

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4. He’s Testing the Waters

You may think you’re seeing a red flag when your Libra man acts fickle, but he is notorious for testing the waters. He is tentative in relationships until he feels secure. But if he pushes your boundaries and continually tests you, be warned.

A Libra man who continues to test you is suspicious. He doesn’t trust you and can cause drama and prolonged frustration because he won’t settle down. Your Libra man tests you to see if you are reliable.

But if he is more obsessed with testing you than learning to trust you, it’s a warning sign. When a Libra man shows you a red flag, he doesn’t deal with his insecurities. He makes you jump through hoops.

You may think you’re seeing signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings. But if a Libra man tests you with no follow-through, he is showing you a red flag.

5. He Ghosts You

Another Libra man red flag is when he stops talking to you suddenly. When a Libra man ghosts you, it’s a bad sign. He believes in being fair and can be communicative and genuine.

Libras are peacekeepers who want to address their grievances and work through their issues rather than cease communication. When a Libra man ghosts you, he is not ready for a relationship.

He sabotages the relationship to avoid making any commitments. Libra men can become shy after they start to develop feelings for you. A Libra man who becomes distant or goes quiet for a few days is responding to pressures.

But a Libra man who ghosts you is not interested in a relationship. He drops the ball suddenly to avoid taking responsibility if he’s using you. He may be using you if he suddenly disappears.

He shows subtle cues if you’re wondering how to know if a Libra man is serious about you. He becomes distant but always comes back. But if he ghosts you, a Libra man is not serious.

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6. He Hides You

Libra men are social and love going places together when in a relationship with you. But if your Libra man doesn’t want to go out with you during the day, it’s a red flag.

If he hides you, he’s up to no good. Libra men love doing errands with their partners. They don’t like being alone and go everywhere with their partner when serious about a relationship.
A Libra man is playing you when he doesn’t invite you to parties. If he goes to events or spends time out in public and doesn’t want you with him, it’s a red flag.

If you’re wondering how to know if a Libra man is playing you, actions speak louder than words. When a Libra man is not serious about you, he doesn’t introduce you to his friends. He doesn’t go places in public with you.

7. He Doesn’t Text First

When a Libra man likes you, he is eager to communicate with you. He flirts over text and surprises you throughout the day with messages. You can tell a Libra man isn’t serious about you when he doesn’t text first.

Your Libra man who doesn’t text you first is not interested. Don’t chase a Libra man. If he doesn’t show initiative when he texts you, it’s a red flag. He is not as serious about the relationship as you are.

If you play hard to get, you can get a Libra man to step up his game. But if your Libra man only responds to your texts and doesn’t contact you first, he doesn’t want a relationship.

You may be the best wife for a Libra man or the woman of his dreams, but he won’t acknowledge this if he’s playing games with you. When you see this red flag, it’s best to move on.

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8. He Forgets Milestones

Libra men are thoughtful and considerate. If a Libra man likes you, he remembers your birthday and anniversary. He acknowledges special occasions with gifts and surprises.

But if a Libra man forgets your birthday or other significant dates, it’s a warning sign. He ignores you when you expected to hear from him. When you always have to remind him it is your birthday or anniversary, your Libra man is not serious about you.

He doesn’t have intentions of settling down with you if he can’t recall milestones. Libra men are sentimental and romantic. They love finding excuses to celebrate.

When milestones pass without acknowledgment from your Libra man, you can tell it is a red flag. You can remind him, but he won’t follow through, and you end up chasing him.

9. He Doesn’t Communicate

You can tell a Libra man is manipulating you if he is not a good communicator. He acts shy and indifferent. You can tell a Libra man is playing you when he doesn’t return your texts.

If he sends two-word messages instead of talking with you, it is a red flag. You can tell a Libra man isn’t serious about a relationship when you can’t get him to open up.

When a Libra man is always shut down and aloof, he is not interested in you. If the only time he talks openly is after a few drinks, you don’t have a connection with him. He is not ready for a relationship.

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10. He Picks Fights

One of the most obvious red flags that a Libra man is not interested in you is when he picks fights. Libras usually want peace, harmony, and connection. When a Libra man gets into arguments, he is trying to push you away.

He doesn’t want to get serious in a relationship and sabotages himself by looking for reasons to criticize you. He starts arguments for no reason when he doesn’t want a relationship.

He may fight with you over petty issues and acts irritable when he is done with you. He doesn’t let go of the past or seeks conflicts. They are usually peacekeepers, but Libra men who start fights are playing games.

Of all Libra’s red flags, initiating conflict is a blatant sign he is trying to push you away. He avoids problems and tries to make you happy when he likes you. If he picks fights he wants you to get mad and leave him alone.