How to Start a Conversation With an Aquarius Man

If you don’t know an Aquarius man well, you might not be sure about what kinds of things he likes to talk about.

Most of the time, he’ll be fine with talking about whatever as long as you’re an engaging person to talk to.

He likes unique people. If something interesting or weird about you, talk about that! He loves unconventional topics.

If he starts to seem bored, just switch topics. He doesn’t always like to talk about the same thing for too long. He likes to mix things up.

Ask An Interesting Question

If you’re not sure what to say to an Aquarius man, try asking a few ice-breaker questions. The more off-the-wall and interesting they are, the better!

Philosophical questions are always good questions to ask an Aquarius man. If you come up with some silly “would you rather?” questions, that’s also a good idea! He loves answering those.

Questions are a good way to jumpstart any conversation. If you don’t know the Aquarius man well, you might not already know what topics he might be interested in. Asking questions will help break the ice.

Don’t worry about seeming silly. He loves answering silly questions! You might find that he has some interesting views, even on the weirdest of topics.

Your strange question might just kick off a long conversation that will keep you both entertained for hours.

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Unique Topics

It can be difficult knowing what to text an Aquarius man, especially if you don’t know him that well.

If you have a unique hobby or know a lot about a niche subject, try striking up a conversation about that. He’ll be interested to hear what you have to say, especially if it’s something he’s never heard of before.

You might be the type of person who likes researching random topics. He is too! Tell him all about the latest rabbit hole you’ve gone down while looking things up on the internet.

Aquarius men are also the type of people who won’t shy away from political discussions. He will happily discuss current events with you.

If you bring up an article you just read or an event that is happening, he’ll be glad to tell you what he thinks. He won’t necessarily engage in a debate with you. He’ll just tell you his views and listen to yours.

Aquarius men also enjoy talking about conspiracy theories. They don’t always believe in said conspiracy theories (though an Aquarius man might have some he does subscribe to). They just love hearing what odd things other people have come up with.

Nothing is too weird or off-topic for an Aquarius man. Don’t be embarrassed or worry about him judging you for what you decide to talk about.

Be Witty

Aquarius men appreciate people who can communicate in a witty manner.

He likes funny people. Even if you two are discussing a “serious” topic, he’s not going to mind if you slip in a joke here and there.

He likes to joke around. Aquarius men often have odd senses of humor as well. They never aim to offend but some engage in dark humor. An Aquarius man can find comedy in most things.

Loosen up when you’re talking to an Aquarius man. Be light-hearted. If you are a naturally witty person, show him that!

If your sense of humor is weird, that’s even better! He loves it when people can be both witty and weird.

Never be afraid to tell a joke that doesn’t always land with other people. Chances are, the kind of joke others find absurd is the type of joke that will make an Aquarius man laugh.

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Be Creative

If you’re naturally creative or artistic, it will be easier thinking up things to say to an Aquarius man.

You can strike up a conversation by showing him your art. You can mention that you went to a museum or art gallery recently and ask him if he’s been.

Also, try to get creative when it comes to topics of conversation. Aquarius men aren’t the type to sit there and discuss the weather (unless you have some strange things to say about the weather).

If something comes to mind while you’re talking with him, just go with it! Don’t censor yourself or overthink things. Chances are, he’ll appreciate the fact that you aren’t talking about the same things as everyone else.

He likes it when people ask him odd questions. He likes unique topics of conversation. You can go wild and talk about all kinds of strange things with him.

Don’t Pressure Him

Never try to pressure an Aquarius man to have a conversation with you. If you need to have a serious discussion or talk about your feelings, you’ll have to wait until your Aquarius man is ready to have that type of discussion.

It is especially important to avoid talking about feelings too much if you two don’t know one another well yet.

An Aquarius man expressing feelings is something that rarely happens, especially with strangers. Don’t try to get too personal too quickly when starting up a conversation with an Aquarius man.

The list of what not to say to an Aquarius man is quite small. He’s usually fine with discussing a variety of topics. If you two aren’t friends, though, leave your emotions out of the conversation.

Don’t pressure him to talk to you, even if it’s not about feelings. If an Aquarius man needs some alone time, he won’t respond to text messages or engage in a conversation no matter how interesting the topic is.

If you approach him and he isn’t receptive, back off. If you said something that piqued his interest, he’ll check in with you later to ask about whatever it was.

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Be Intellectual

What an Aquarius man wants to hear when he asks you about a topic is your honest opinion. He likes talking to people who are intellectual and who can explain their views and back them up.

This doesn’t mean that you need to be conventionally intelligent. You don’t need to have the same views as everyone else to be smart. You don’t even need to agree with his views!

He just likes to see that you have some sort of rationale behind what you think. He’s an odd thinker. He often has strange views and an even stranger internal logic.

If you strike up a conversation about a controversial topic, be prepared for some odd reactions from him. He’s not always going to say what you might expect when bringing up certain topics.

Whatever you’re talking about, try to be rational and intellectual rather than emotional.

If you two are debating or just discussing why you think the way you do, he doesn’t want to hear that you just have a gut feeling. He wants to know your thought process.

Be Engaging

Naturally interesting and engaging people will have an easier time striking up a conversation with an Aquarius man. He hates being bored, especially when he’s talking to somebody.

Be expressive when you talk to him. Get excited when you’re talking about something that interests you. Play things up when you’re telling him a story.

One sign an Aquarius man is not interested in a conversation is that he’ll disengage from whatever you’re talking about. It will be difficult to get him to join in on the discussion.

If he’s not interested, it’s usually because he’s bored. Maybe you’ve been talking about the same thing for too long. You might also just be talking about something he’s heard a million times.

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Switch Around Topics

You never want to have the same conversation with an Aquarius man twice. You need to mix things up!

Whenever you notice that he seems bored or like he’s disengaging, start talking about something else.

Point out something that is happening around you. Ask another question. Bring up another cool thing you’ve been researching.

If you two are talking about one thing and it reminds you of something entirely different, switch to that topic. He won’t mind at all. He’ll appreciate it when the conversation doesn’t always proceed linearly.

Go With The Flow

Once you’ve started a conversation with an Aquarius man, you need to go with the flow. He’s not always going to stay on-topic.

Aquarius men are likely to shift from topic to topic. Your Aquarius man will go off on tangents. Something you might remind him of something else that you don’t think is related to what you were talking about.

Just go with it. You’ll both have a better time if you do.

texting with an Aquarius is a wild ride sometimes. He’s even more likely to jump between topics because he’s likely dealing with more distractions than he would be when having a face-to-face conversation.