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What Kind of Woman Attracts a Scorpio Man?

Updated December 12, 2024

When a woman attracts a Scorpio man, she’s using a combination of brains and beauty. Even if you’re supermodel gorgeous, you need to have specific attributes to get his attention.

Scorpio men are attracted to what’s inside, not just appearance.

What kind of woman attracts a Scorpio man? A woman who has a striking and unique appearance, but also who can appeal to his intellectual desires.

Scorpio men are intelligent and can be elitists when it comes to choosing a partner. He wants to stand out from the crowd and appear to be a cut above the rest.

If you show him that you are advanced and ahead of the game, you’ll get his attention. He loves women who are successful, powerful and popular.

Compassionate Women

compassionate women

If you’re wondering how to know if a Scorpio man is interested in you, the key is to be both savvy and empathic. He loves compassionate and kind women.

Scorpio men can be rough around the edges and are drawn to women who are noticeably soft and sensitive. Though if you have a tough, feisty side, he loves that as well.

What attracts a Scorpio man physically can range from individual to individual. Yet a few common threads are your ability to convey power and sexuality in your image without being too revealing.

If you project a confident, sweet and kind image, he will be attracted as well. He loves the “girl next door” image and will find you irresistible if he sees you as sensual and innocent, compassionate and kind.

A Scorpio man’s ideal woman can be a paradox. He wants a woman who is compassionate and empathic but not too needy. He wants a woman who is sexy but not too revealing. He wants you to be like him but not too much like him.

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Sexy Women

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A Scorpio man, secretly in love, will reveal his intentions gradually. You can seduce him when you understand what he looks for in a woman.

Scorpio men are attracted to sexy women, but they define sexuality by their own terms. A woman who is confident in her sexuality, no matter her style, will appeal to a Scorpio man.

But he also doesn’t like it when a woman is too revealing or gaudy about flaunting sexual energy. He prefers it when a woman leaves mysteries for him to fantasies about or reveal privately.

If you want to know what to wear to attract a Scorpio man, consider outfits that make you feel powerful and confident in yourself and which are slightly revealing. Yet keep some enigma and mystery to play to his fantasies.

When you give the hint of sexuality without being too revealing, it’s much more likely to attract a Scorpio man’s attention. A Scorpio man will respond to your signals because his is one of the most sexual signs of the zodiac.

If you know how to seduce a Scorpio man through text, you can successfully appeal to his desires. Less is more when it comes to enticing a Scorpio man through sexuality.

Intelligent Women

intelligent women

If you want to know how to get a Scorpio man to chase you, you can flaunt your intelligence. This will get his attention instantly. When you know more than he does about his favorite topics, you can appeal to him.

When you want to make a Scorpio man infatuated with you, make it easy for him to see your brilliance and intelligence. He needs to see that you are a critical thinker.

You can become more desirable to a Scorpio man when you sharpen your own skills as well. When you become more knowledgeable about specific topics, he’ll want to be with you.

Keep in mind there is one line you should never cross when it comes to a Scorpio man. Never show him up. You can showcase your own intellect and prove that you’re his peer, but don’t try to dominate him.

He does have a deeply competitive nature and if he thinks you’re trying to outsmart him, his defenses will come out. He will become angry or passive-aggressive as he’ll think you’re trying to best him.

Avoid triggering his competitive nature. Instead, show him that you are intelligent, well-read and thoughtful but that you are his ally, not his competition.

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Successful Women

successful women

Once you understand what a Scorpio likes and dislikes in a woman, you’ll understand how important power and status are to him. Scorpio men are drawn to confident, successful women.

Show him that you are ambitious and have a promising career on the horizon. Let him see that you’ve worked to established a solid and reliable reputation. A Scorpio man will be happy to see that you are on a path to success.

To a Scorpio man, this means he will some day be able to associate himself with your success because he will see your accomplishments as an extension of his own power and prestige.

How does a Scorpio man pursue a woman? When he’s in love, he may be overt or covert about his feelings, but either way, he will consistently follow you. He’ll show up when you least expect him.

He may watch you from a distance or remain right on your radar. Slowly but surely, when a Scorpio man is attracted to you, he will make it known. When he continues to pay attention to you, your attraction signals are working.

Intuitive Women

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One of the unique characteristics that attract a Scorpio man more than anything else is a woman’s intuition. Women who are in tune with their deeper feelings and intuition, and who trust their intuition, are highly attractive to a Scorpio man.

He loves to know that you have a sixth sense about things. When you tell him you get a good vibe from him, he’ll take notice. When you choose the path less taken because of your intuition, he will become infatuated with you.

Scorpio men are quite intuitive themselves and so it is important to him that you also validate and follow your intuition. He is intellectual and logical as well but he understands the power of the unexplainable.

One of the best signs a Scorpio man really likes you and trusts you is that he is willing to hear your thoughts based on your intuition. When he validates your gut feeling, he’s interested in you.

Show him that you rely on your higher wisdom. You don’t need to dress it up in New Age terminology. Simply telling him about how you have a “hunch” will suffice. When you know him well, you can delve into more of the abstract aspects of your intuition.

Deeper into the relationship, for instance, you can tell him about your precognitive dreams and past life memories. But early in the relationship, simply signaling that you take intuition seriously is a big deal to him.

Another reason he values intuitive women is that he knows that at some point in the relationship, he’s going to talk about his own intuition. He wants to know that you’ll understand and respect him.

If he thinks you’ll downplay his intuition or try to talk him out of it, he won’t waste his time with the relationship. He’ll just keep moving and looking for someone who understands the power of his intuitive wisdom.

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Honest Women

honest women

One of the most important attributes that a Scorpio man looks for in a woman is honesty. If you tell the slightest white lie, he will never forgive or trust you. Ironically, Scorpio men can be dishonest and manipulative.

Yet in a relationship, Scorpio men require direct, open, honesty and transparency. He is deeply interested in honesty because he is insecure deep down. He may even have a paranoid side.

Scorpio men don’t easily trust others. He needs to see that you are willing to prove yourself to him and this includes proving your honesty and trustworthiness.

The best way to show a Scorpio man that you can be trusted is to not only be honest but to be consistent. He needs to say that you follow up on your word repeatedly. When he sees this, he’ll become more attracted to you.

Scorpio men can usually sense a lie. They can see through layers and defenses. This is part intuition and part insight gained from being master manipulators themselves. They can become alerted to any dishonesty.

If you are tempted to lie or slightly cover up the truth in any way, think twice. Doing so will not only turn him off, it could permanently cost you a relationship with a Scorpio man.

Confident Women

confident women

Though a Scorpio man won’t fall for manipulation, he will come to see you as you see yourself. If you are confident in yourself, he will believe whatever you say because he sees that your own convictions are strong.

He’ll know that you believe in yourself and will be more attracted to you as a result. Sometimes, a Scorpio man will be attracted to a woman who has a low self-esteem or is insecure. This is usually a red flag.

In many cases, a Scorpio man who is courting a woman who is not confident has an ulterior motive that will be brought to the surface in time. It’s best to avoid this scenario by having a high self-esteem and knowing your worth.

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  1. Very good. I’m a Scorpio and the love of my life is a Cancer, and other girls I felt attracted to in the past were also Cancer. They’re sensitive, kind, also intense and sexy and we seem to have a lot in common.

    1. Sounds like you’ve found your match! Cancer women can be a great fit for Scorpios.

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