Will a Virgo Man Keep Coming Back? (And Why?)

Will a Virgo man change his mind about a breakup, even if he’s the one who ended things? He absolutely will. He doesn’t always let go of things easily.

Virgo will show he wants to get back together with his ex in several ways. He’ll keep communication open with them. He’ll let them know he’s still single, even months later. He might ask to remain friends.

It can take Virgo a long time to open up to people. Once he lets somebody in, he may be reluctant to let that connection go.

Open Conversation

When a Virgo wants you back, he’ll keep lines of communication open.

Some people will block their ex or take a break from speaking to them, even if they do want to be friends with them at some point. If Virgo intends to try and get you back, he’ll keep talking to you.

He won’t text you incessantly or bother you at all hours of the day. He’ll just let you know that he’s still willing to speak with you.

He might send a “let’s still be friends” message right away. The ball is in your court after that, though. He won’t push the issue. He just wants to make it clear that he’s not entirely done with you.

He may keep communication open in small ways too. He might frequently like your posts on social media. He may ask mutual friends about you.

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His Relationship Status

When a Virgo man wants you back, he’ll make sure you know that’s available.

Virgos don’t often rebound after a relationship ends. He isn’t the type to jump into a casual fling or use one-night stands to make himself feel better.

If you see him talking to somebody at a party, he’ll make it very clear that the person is just a friend. He’ll introduce them to you as his coworker, friend, acquaintance, etc. This makes it clear that they’re not a new partner.

You won’t find him on dating apps or posting about going on dates. He’s not hiding anything, either. He is single and available if and when you want to get back together.

He might even let you know directly that he’s still available if you ever want to rekindle the relationship.

Returning Your Things

This doesn’t always happen with a Virgo man after a break-up. Why? If he returns your things, that is a sign he’s definitely done with the relationship.

You might have a few shirts laying around his house. Maybe you let him borrow a book or you left a brownie pan at his place the last time you brought some over for him.

He’s not likely to return these things, at least right away. If you push the issue and demand your things back, he might return them.

He might also claim he can’t find your things or that he’s not done with something he borrowed yet.

He might keep your things as an excuse to see you as well. If you have to ask for them back, you have to reach out to him. He might try to arrange a meeting to return them.

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Reason for the Breakup

Will a Virgo man come back after a fight? Depending on the reason, it’s likely that he will.

There are many reasons people break up and not all of them are because they stopped loving one another.

Maybe one of you moved and you don’t want to maintain a long-distance relationship. If you two ever live in the same place again, that might mean you get back together.

Maybe you did have a huge fight and broke up in the heat of the moment. After calming down, you might realize that you don’t want to end the relationship.

However, if you cheated on him or did something else to betray his trust, he likely won’t want to get back together. He’ll return your things right away. He’ll block you on social media. He won’t reach out or ask to be friends.

Emotional Connection

If Virgo wants to be friends after a breakup, it is often because he feels a deep emotional connection with you. Even if you two aren’t dating, he may not want to let that go.

It takes time for a Virgo to develop an emotional connection with somebody. It can be scary to think about having to do that all over again. If he just goes back to you, he won’t have to open himself up to somebody new.

He might be fine with just being friends. He just wants to have you in his life, even if it isn’t the way he wants. If you’re not open to that, you need to be direct with him. Don’t string him along.

Will a Virgo man miss you after you break up, even if he doesn’t want to get back together? He will. Even if he knows the relationship needed to end, he’ll still miss that emotional connection you two had.

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He Needs Closure

You might wonder why a Virgo man keeps coming back after you’ve fought or broken up. One reason is that he hates things to end without a sense of closure.

Sometimes breakups are sudden. You might have ended things and not completely explained why.

He needs a reason. He wants to know if he did something wrong. If there is a chance he can get you back by fixing a problem or changing something about himself, he’ll want to at least try.

Virgo isn’t someone you can just ghost after a breakup. Even if he ended things, he may still want to talk things over. You’ll always know Virgo’s exact reasons for breaking up with you.

He Hates Change

One of the big reasons a Virgo man keeps coming back to his ex is simply because he hates change.

He likes stability. He likes to be comfortable. Earth signs like Virgo want to feel grounded and secure. Once he has that sense of security in a relationship, he’ll be reluctant to give that up.

This isn’t to say that he’s entirely incapable of change. He won’t let a partner get away with betraying his trust or constantly disrespecting him. He knows when it’s better to end a relationship than let it continue.

He also may be willing to change if it means getting his partner back. Making a few minor changes might be worth avoiding the huge change that is breaking up with his partner.

Sometimes Virgo keeps going back to the same person out of fear of the unknown. Dating can be difficult. It’s hard to find a person you connect with. Once he’s found that, he’ll be reluctant to give up on the relationship entirely.

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He Doesn’t Trust Easily

There are a few signs who can take forever to open up to somebody. Virgo is one of those signs.

A sign like Scorpio takes a long time to open up because they don’t like being vulnerable and they have a general distrust of people. Virgo, however, takes time to develop trust because his practical side says he should know everything about a person before trusting them.

He likely took his time getting to know you. He discovered all your strengths and weaknesses. He took his time thinking about whether or not he could deal with your faults.

Once you passed all those tests and he decided you were somebody worth trusting, he likely gave you his whole heart. He probably committed to you fully. He honestly thought this relationship was going to last.

He doesn’t want to go through that whole process again.

You Feel Secure

A heartbroken Virgo man may feel especially vulnerable and upset because he has lost one of the few things that make him feel secure in life.

You were likely one of the only people he went to about his problems. If he had a bad day, he knew he could go to you and you’d cheer him up.

He knew he could trust you to always be honest with him. He didn’t have to worry about you lying to him. You knew his faults and you loved him anyway so he could just be himself around you.

After you break up, he loses all of that comfort and security.

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He’s Particular

Virgo can be very picky when it comes to partners. He is a person who doesn’t mind being single for years. If he doesn’t have any long-term relationships until later in life, he’s fine with that.

He might have specific tastes when it comes to physical appearance but he’s more likely to be discerning when it comes to people’s personalities.

He wants someone who is honest with him but who doesn’t criticize him if it’s not entirely necessary. He wants someone who can also deal with his criticisms.

He may have a laundry list of preferences. You may have ticked most of, if not all, those boxes. He doesn’t want to let you go if he doesn’t have to.