Do Taurus Men Like Kinky Stuff?

When you see signs a Taurus man is sexually attracted to you, you may then wonder if he has a wild kinky side. Instead, you should expect a more middle of the road approach to sex.

Taurus men will not show their kinky side in the early phases of a relationship, even when he becomes intimate with you. He needs to develop more than average trust.

Even when he lets his guard down, you’ll see that he has a few fetishes but is otherwise into traditional romance and sexuality. He’s not the most adventurous in bed.

Taurus Men Have Secret Fetishes

What a Taurus man wants to hear is that you love and accept him exactly as he is. Taurus men change for no one because they hate the very thought of change. So it stands to reason they also don’t like venturing far from their routines in bed.

But when you’ve gotten to know him well and have already been sleeping together for quite some time, a Taurus man may let his guard down and reveal that he has secret fetishes. Sometimes he won’t reveal this on his own.

Instead, you may accidentally find adult videos on his computer that reflect his kinky nature and secret desires. He’ll be upset to know his secret is out, though so it’s best not to let him know. Instead, introduce some of his kinky desires as if they were your own ideas.

Some Taurus men can be married for years before their wives “accidentally” discover their secret kinks. Taurus men have major trust issues and fear rejection. He would rather keep his kinky side a mystery than risk looking foolish or being abandoned.

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He’s Not Outwardly Kinky

When you know how to handle a Taurus man’s moods and insecurities, you can much more easily glean his secret desires. He may hint at fantasies and wishes but not come right out and ask for you to do certain things.

If you know how to read between the lines you can pick up on his secret cues. A Taurus man is not outwardly kinky. If anything, he is highly image conscious. He never wants to damage his reputation by coming across as being too eccentric.

A Taurus man will more likely surprise you by maintaining a clean cut image. Yet the more he opens up to you, the more you will see he has a freaky side that he hides from the rest of the world. Since he is a sensual earth sign, his kinks may involve physical sensations.

He may be turned on by smelling your hair or perfume. He may also have a kinky interest in blending his appetite for tasty food with his appetite for sex. He may enjoy bringing sweets and chocolates into bed for example.

Another possible Taurus man kink can involve the feel of your clothing. He may love foreplay involving silky lingerie. Taurus men can be materialistic and so his kinky side may involve the appearance of wealth or affluence as well.

He’s Traditional at First

A Taurus man’s initial sexual encounters will follow traditional decorum. If you’re wondering what to wear for a Taurus man, consider that he enjoys watching you in clothing that is sensual, romantic but not too revealing.

A Taurus man’s passionate side is easily triggered by sensual cues. You can help him become comfortable with his kinky side when you entice him with traditional romance and seduction.

A Taurus man is traditional and doesn’t like to be too rebellious. He is reliable, grounded and practical. Going to extremes is intimidating for him so his kinky side is relatively watered down. He doesn’t want to create a scandal.

If you want to know how to attract a Taurus man, dress in classic, romantic styles. Don’t push boundaries or be too eccentric. Instead, show your Taurus man that you have a traditional, romantic side and embody old fashioned values.

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He Sets the Pace

A Taurus man in love may trust you enough to show you his kinky side, but he’ll have another reason not to. He won’t want to risk throwing the relationship off balance or scare you away if you’re not into his fetishes.

What he lacks in kinkiness, a Taurus man makes up for in his controlling nature. He loves to be in charge and doesn’t easily compromise. One way to give a Taurus man the impression of being in control is to allow him to set the pace in the relationship.

When he’s finally ready to open up and share his kinky side, a Taurus man will make the next moves. If you are patient and give him a chance, he’ll step up to the plate and bring down his defenses. He’ll gradually start to show you his kinky side.

Never rush a Taurus man to open up and show his kinky side. He’ll shut down at the slightest hint of any pressure. A Taurus man needs to go at his own pace and only he can decide when he’s ready to explore his sexual fantasies.

He Has to Trust You

If you’re wondering about the signs a Taurus man is interested or just friendly, remember he has to feel secure. When he trusts you, he’ll let you in to the most private aspects of his life. Only then is he more likely to show his kinky side.

A Taurus man who is working on developing trust in you may gradually reveal more of his sexual fetishes and interests. It’s essential to always respond with an open mind. If you are not interested in some of his fetishes, set clear boundaries.

Taurus men respect boundaries as long as they do not feel personally rejected or criticized. They can be much more sensitive than they let on. A Taurus man who perceives you as judging him or criticizing his kinky side may shut down completely and distance himself from you for good.

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He’s Curious but Slow

When you see the signs a Taurus man has a crush on you, you may be able to encourage him to try new things. He may become curious about your fetishes, desires and kinky side. Just remember to take it slow.

Taurus men aren’t known for being impressionable. They are usually quite set in their ways. A Taurus man who is in love may be slightly more open to exploring. He does have a curious side, even though he usually tries to keep himself from exploring.

When you use subtle charm and seductive tactics to entice a Taurus man, you may be able to successfully encourage him to try new things. He may not be the fastest to adapt, but if you hint at a desire or fantasy on a few different occasions, he may become more open minded.

The more he sits with an idea, the more a Taurus man can warm up to his desire to experiment and try new things. Take things slow and help him to feel more secure with you. You may be able to introduce him to new kinks.

He’s Easily Embarrassed

A Taurus man testing you may conceal his kinky nature. He’s embarrassed easily and he wants to maintain a professional, calm and composed image. He doesn’t want to be seen as vulnerable. Taurus men try to maintain a strong image.

Taurus men know some kinks may make them look submissive, or may tarnish their reputation, so he will go to great lengths to hide his kinkiness. He would rather forego exploring his fantasies and desires if it means he can save face and not risk embarrassment.

The vicious cycle a Taurus man faces is that he won’t be attracted to a woman who seems too kinky, but at the same time he won’t open up about his kinks if he doesn’t think his partner is open to kinky things. His insecurity naturally limits his options.

A Taurus man who can get over some of his hang ups about feeling embarrassed, may take enough risks to share his kinky side and explore his fantasies. Yet it can take patience to get to this point.

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He Can be Kinky

Given the right circumstances, a Taurus man can be kinky. It takes a lot of trust for him to open up to you and share his sexual fantasies. He will try to avoid dealing with his own unmet needs until he feels secure.

When he trusts you and sees that you are open to exploring kinky things in bed, a Taurus man may begin to reveal his deeper desires. It is important to let him do this at his own pace, however.

A Taurus man may work hard to convince you he is completely traditional and lacks any kinky interests. Don’t rule out a kinky sex life, though. It may take time but eventually you’ll see your Taurus man has plenty of kinky desires.

It’s important to encourage him in as subtle a way as possible. Don’t intimidate a Taurus man or he will completely turn cold. When he trusts you, his kinky side will emerge gradually.