10 Signs a Scorpio Man Cares About You

When a Scorpio man touches you, you can feel intensely connected to him. You may assume he’s showing you how he feels about you. Yet this is not always the case.

When you see the signs a Scorpio man has feelings for you, it’s important to make your move. If you don’t respond, he may assume you’re not interested.

Often, a Scorpio man will tiptoe around his emotions. You may wonder if you’re seeing signs a Scorpio man is playing you. He won’t come right out and show he cares at first.

1. He’s Sensitive to Your Pain

When a Scorpio man smiles and stares at you, he may be showing you he cares about you. But he may also just be flirting, which is something a Scorpio man loves to do. You have to know how to discern the difference.

When a Scorpio man really cares about you, he will be hypersensitive to your feelings, especially pain. He will try to go out of his way to eliminate or soothe your pain. A Scorpio man will become deeply attuned to your vulnerability.

He may take on the pain you are feeling and become overreactive rather than supportive. When you’re hurt by someone or something, and you look to a Scorpio man for help, he can become so upset because you’re upset that he becomes defensive.

This is not helpful and you may be baffled by his response, yet you need to understand his inner workings. He’s not trying to lash out in anger or center your pain on himself. Yet this is often a byproduct of his style of empathy when it comes to pain.

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2. He’s Empathic Toward You

One of the top signs a Scorpio man is not interested in you is when he seems cold and unsympathetic to what you are going through. Typically, when a Scorpio man cares about you, he’s deeply empathic.

Scorpio men can sense what you feel even if you don’t tell him. This is true whether he actually likes you or not. He’s got a highly sensitive emotional radar. Yet if he doesn’t care about you, his empathy will go unnoticed.

When a Scorpio man does care about you, he’ll use his empathy to his advantage. He will draw on his empathic instincts to uncover your deeper desires and longings. He will also try to manipulate your emotions.

As bad as that sounds, he sometimes uses this manipulation to try to make you happy. When he cares about you, he’ll pull on your heartstrings to get you to open up to him and to share your deeper feelings and fantasies. Like a confidence man, he will tell you exactly what he thinks you want to here.

How does a Scorpio man act when he likes you? He tries to satisfy your every need and desire. He uses his empathic energy and intuition to tap into your subconscious and figure out what you really want. Then he tries to embody what you desire.

3. He Keeps Your Secrets

One of the signs of a Scorpio man in love with you is his willingness to protect your privacy. When he cares about you, a Scorpio man will keep your secrets. He won’t gossip or share stories about you.

Understanding a Scorpio man in love requires you to understand how important secrets are to him. Scorpio men are very protective of their privacy. When he cares about you, he’ll extend this same concern for secrecy to your own deeper desires and fantasies.

A Scorpio man will also demonstrate that he knows how to keep your personal stories private. He won’t push your boundaries, but he may try to slip through them in a subtle way. Scorpio men can be attracted to mystery and secrecy.

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4. He Acts Protective Over You

How do you know when a Scorpio man likes you, what gestures should you look for? One of the biggest signals a Scorpio man will use to show you he cares about you is to act protective over you.

He may seem to overreact to someone bothering you or hurting your feelings. He’ll stand up for you and become noticeably upset if someone disrespects you. He may even go out of his way to act macho and scare others away from you.

When a Scorpio man starts acting protective, or even overprotective, this is a sure sign he really cares about you. He will put his own reputation on the line in order to show you he cares about you.

He can act like your personal bodyguard and will even become confrontational if he feels he needs to discourage someone who is bothering you. He doesn’t lose control, though. He can act protective by passive-aggressively reacting to others.

5. He Promotes Your Success

One of the biggest signs a Scorpio man is using you is when he doesn’t make any attempt to support you. When he cares about you, a Scorpio man promotes your success. He’ll help you land a promotion.

He’ll give you suggestions that will help you grow your business and will be your best advertiser. When he goes out of his way to help you succeed in business or career, it is a sign that a Scorpio man really cares about you.

He sees your successes as his own successes and invests in making sure you achieve your goals. He wouldn’t put his reputation and energy on the line to promote you if he didn’t care about you, so this is a positive sign.

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6. He Treats You Like Family

Another sign a Scorpio man is serious about you and really cares about you is when he starts to treat you like family. You’ll know when this happens because suddenly you’ll obviously be more than a friend to him.

A Scorpio man who takes this step will show you a whole different set of boundaries. He will treat you like you’re part of his inner circle and this is not something to be taken lightly. This is a big step for a Scorpio man to make.

He reserves this only for when he’s really serious about you. He’ll start to open his heart and bring you into his inner sanctuary. He may invite you to family gatherings or introduce you to his grandparents, aunts, uncles or other family members.

Usually, to a Scorpio man, family life is private. When he crosses this threshold it is a definite sign a Scorpio man is serious and really cares about you.

7. He Boasts About You

When a Scorpio man acts like he’s proud of you, it is another sign he really cares about you. When you hear him boast about you and your accomplishments to his friends, you will know he’s serious.

When a Scorpio man boasts about you, he is trying to uplift you and show off your talents and strengths. To a small extent, this is also a function of his egotistical side. When others see you as successful and exceptional, he believes he will also be seen as exceptional by proxy.

When a Scorpio man boasts about you, he’s also bragging to the world about how unique and exceptional he is because you are with him. Scorpio men can treat their love interests as extensions of themselves.

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8. He Shows Affection

When a Scorpio man puts his arm around you in public, lingers outside of your house for a long good-night kiss, or touches your hand while talking over dinner, he’s showing he cares. Otherwise, he would be turned off by public displays of affection.

Though Scorpio men are sensual and love intimacy, they don’t like to flaunt their affectionate side casually. He may hug his friends briefly when he first sees them, but he will be minimally affectionate.

Unless he truly cares about you. When he cares about you, he will show affection whenever he sees you. Both in private and in public, he will make an effort to show physical affection and cuddle with you.

9. He Doesn’t Just Talk About Sex

When a Scorpio man sends sexual text messages or uses pillow talk to seduce you, you may think this is a sign he cares. But this is not always the case. Scorpio men will talk about sex, a lot.

But when he cares about you, a Scorpio man finds plenty to talk about aside from sex. If every conversation begins and ends with sexual innuendos, he may not really care. He may be sexually infatuated, but not emotionally connected.

When a Scorpio man does care about you he will share his stories, talk about his interests and more importantly, he will take an active interest in you. He will not just focus on sex.

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10. He Sacrifices For You

When a Scorpio man really cares about you, he will sacrifice what he wants in order to make you happy. This may sound obvious of all romances, but it is unique for a Scorpio man.

While other guys may give up what they want to make you happy when they love you, this takes on a different meaning for a Scorpio man. He is stubborn and willful. He gives up his desires for no one. Unless he really cares about you.

When a Scorpio man cares about you, he will sacrifice his comforts and interests to prioritize what you want. He will compromise. This is a major step for a Scorpio man who doesn’t usually back down from exactly what he wants.