Are Libra Men Control Freaks?

A Libra man’s emotional distance can make it difficult to read his intentions. He can be like a chameleon, changing his attitudes and personality with turn of a dime.

A Libra man’s weakness is his willingness to accommodate others. He is so flexible that he may go out of his way to be the person he thinks you want him to be.

You never have to worry about a Libra man being too controlling. He is more likely to defer to you to take control. You may have to take the reins in the relationship.

Libra Men Are Lowkey

When you know how to handle a Libra man, you’ll realize they are easy to sway. Libra men will go with the flow. He seldom if ever puts his foot down and insists on having things his way. He would rather avoid controversy.

Libra men don’t like drama. The effort it would take for them to assert control and fight to have their way is often just too much. They prefer to go along with more dominant people. There is one exception to this.

A Libra man will insist on creating fairness and justice. He will work to create balance as well. Even then, he’ll try to keep a diplomatic perspective at all times. He won’t be pushy or dogmatic. He prefers to remain low key.

He needs to feel secure and the way he finds such stability is through keeping the peace. He prefers to have a passive approach than to be confrontational.

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He Doesn’t Need Control

One of the biggest Libra man secrets is related to his passivity. He doesn’t need control over his environment and will be fine if you take the lead. Thus, a Libra man is easy to steer in relationships.

You can usually get your way in most situations because he would rather make you happy than take charge. A Libra man doesn’t need to have the last word. He’s open to your suggestions. This is ideal for women with strong personalities.

You can recommend your favorite restaurant for a date. You can also pick the movie to watch together, suggest the vacation spot and share your priorities and ideas with him. He will gladly accept your ideas. He will enjoy being introduced to new things.

A Libra man doesn’t try to exert control over his surroundings. He has learned that allowing the process to unfold rather than fighting an uphill batter gets him farther. He prefers to be diplomatic and kind in order to make you happy.

He Lets You Control Things

If you want to know how to keep a Libra man interested, the key is to check in with him to make sure he is comfortable. This is important because he will naturally let you control things. He doesn’t want conflict.

A Libra man may have his own desires, but he’ll put them off to the side. He’ll sidestep his own interests in order to placate you. Yet if you make sure to keep the balance between your interests and his interests, you’ll ensure he stays engaged.

If you’re wondering what to do when a Libra man pulls away, it may be a signal that his passive stance in the relationship is becoming too much. The dark side of a Libra man in relationships is his passive-aggressiveness.

Look for signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings. If there is one thing he will try to control, its his emotions and vulnerability. A Libra man will want to keep a positive exterior.

When a Libra man goes quiet, it is no reason to panic. Part of his lackadaisical nature means that he is quick to forgive. He may just need time to analyze his feelings and come around. He prefers to be friendly than demanding.

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He Doesn’t Like Having Power

If you’re wondering how to know when a Libra man is done with you, look for him to ignore your advice. When he stops deferring to your authority, it can mean he no longer trusts you in the same way.

When a Libra man trusts you and feels good about the relationship, he would rather defer to you. He doesn’t feel controlled or restricted if you take the lead and actually become the authority figure in the relationship.

A Libra man has a complicated relationship with power. Being the sign of the scales, he prefers balance. When he has too much power or authority, it makes him feel uncomfortable. He doesn’t even like making decisions.

When a Libra man is in a relationship, a big part of his attraction is his ability to trust your judgment. When he feels secure with you, he’ll be relieved that you take the lead and lift his burden of bearing the responsibility.

He Needs Space, Not Control

What a Libra man really needs in a relationship is plenty of breathing room. He won’t control you or the places you go together. But he does like to set a pace that is comfortable for him. This is why he will seem aloof.

He has no problem deferring to your leadership in the relationship. Yet he also needs a time out from the connection at times because it does overwhelm him. When he goes quiet, a Libra man is showing you he needs space.

He’s not trying to control the relationship. A Libra man will also seldom play mind games. He will want to reset his sense of equilibrium. This is how he keeps a strong connection in the relationship. He prefers breathing room and to let you take charge.

Never chase a Libra man when he steps back. He will naturally re-engage with you when he is ready. Part of the way that he finds balance surrendering control in the relationship, is by going quiet periodically.

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He Likes to Go with the Flow

A Libra man likes to follow his whims. He can be intellectual and can overthink things. This also slows him down and keeps him from being dominating or demanding in relationships. This combination makes him easygoing and not likely take control.

A Libra man can be smooth and charming. He can be flirty and romantic as well. He knows these traits can endear him to friends and lovers and that often he can talk his way into anything. Yet he won’t act demanding.

He would rather cut his losses and move on than try to get into a power struggle. As a result, a Libra man can become detached or seem to lack passion for the relationship. It may seem that a Libra man doesn’t take the commitment seriously.

This doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. It just means he has an easy-going personality and will not fight to hold on to a relationship. He will accept what comes onto his path. He will show love and compassion but will keep himself at arm’s length.

A Libra man believes it is more important to keep the peace and find happiness elsewhere than it is to fight to change your mind. He prefers to live and let live. He will be so flexible, he’ll see all sides of a situation and accept whatever happens.

If you’re expecting your Libra lover to be passionate and fight to preserve the connection, you’ll be disappointed. A Libra man will want to follow his ideals. If a relationship becomes too imperfect, he’ll lose interest rather than fight to change things.

Control Stresses Him Out

An important point to keep in mind when it comes to your Libra man is that he finds being in charge stressful. The saying “Heavy lies the head that wears the crown” sums up a Libra man’s attitude toward having control.

One of the reasons a Libra man hates to be alone is because when he’s not in a relationship, full responsibility for his decisions rests on his shoulders. He’s so uncomfortable with control he’ll defer to friends if he’s single.

He may even rush to get into a new relationship so that he doesn’t have to deal with the burden of responsibility for his decisions. The amount of control he needs to take in order to manage his decisions is overwhelming.

You may find it difficult to bear the brunt of responsibility that being in a relationship with a Libra man requires. He will defer to you but if things don’t work out, he can become sulky and passive-aggressive. Yet he’s uncomfortable taking the lead.

A Libra man will also often change his approach and opinions, wavering back and forth, because he fears the amount of control and responsibility of settling on a commitment. When he starts to get comfortable with one idea, he’ll change strategies.

Having control is stressful for a Libra man can endure. He will also have a difficult time when he is the one who has to initiate something new. If you create balance, but take more initiative than he does, he’ll be happiest.