Are Virgo Men Faithful?

Being patient with a Virgo man and allowing him to take his time in the relationship is usually worth it. Once you are committed to one another, you’ll find that he makes a very loyal, reliable partner.

If he’s not cheating on you, why does a Virgo man withdraw from you emotionally at times? He might be stressed. He might be upset about something.

Don’t assume he’s cheating just because he’s quiet or not spending as much time with you as he usually does. Most of the time, cheating is not the reason for his odd behavior.

High Standards

Virgo has high standards. He expects a lot from himself and the people around him. One of the reasons he might stay single until later in life is because he can be very particular.

Some people might accuse him of being too picky but he just knows what he likes. He doesn’t want to settle for somebody just so he can be in a relationship. He’s fine being single until he finds the right person.

When a Virgo man is attracted to you, it’s because you meet his high standards. Even if you aren’t perfect, something about you says that you’re the one for him.

Once he has found “the one”, he’s not going to want to let that person go. He, more than anyone, knows how long it can take to find somebody he feels a connection with.

He won’t break your trust and cheat because he knows that will put him right back at square one.

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Commitment

A Virgo man’s commitment to his partner is something he takes seriously. He won’t tell you he loves you just to get you to sleep with him. He won’t agree to a relationship on a whim.

When a Virgo man says, “I love you”, he means it. He values honesty and he won’t lie to you.

This is especially true once a Virgo gets married. He won’t commit if he’s not ready for it. He won’t promise to be faithful to you if he doesn’t intend to.

Virgo is direct and clear about whether or not he is committed to somebody too. You won’t have to wonder if you two are exclusive in a relationship. If he’s not serious about you, he’ll tell you.

Virgo spends a lot of time thinking before he makes a decision. He doesn’t take commitment lightly and he will make sure he’s sure about you before he does.

Guilt

One of the reasons a Virgo man cheating is rare is because he would feel far too guilty if he cheated on his partner.

Virgo has a guilt complex. If something goes wrong, he’s the first person he’ll blame.

This is because of his need to be in control. He thinks of himself as a logical person who can control himself. He doesn’t give in to whims or temptations. He isn’t ruled by his emotions.

If he were to make a mistake and cheat on his partner, the guilt would overwhelm him. He knows this. Even if you forgave him or didn’t do anything to make him feel guilty, he’d still never forgive himself.

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Self-Critical

Knowing how hard he is on himself is key when it comes to understanding a Virgo man. He doesn’t always think highly of himself. If he were to cheat, that would just be one more thing not to like about himself.

He is aware of his flaws. He knows the things that have caused his relationships to go sour in the past. If he has cheated on a partner before, he’ll be even more determined to remain faithful to you.

Virgo tends to fixate on his mistakes long after somebody else would have forgiven themselves. He puts too much pressure on himself to be perfect. His standards for himself are often too high.

He doesn’t want to disappoint you but he also doesn’t want to disappoint himself. Even if you got over him cheating on you, he likely never would.

Focused

One of the signs a Virgo man is serious about you is that he’ll be focused on you and what’s going on in your life. He will make time in his day to give you his undivided attention.

If a Virgo man acts uninterested in you suddenly, talk to him before jumping to conclusions. He needs to focus on other things sometimes. He will be 100% focused on whatever task he is trying to complete.

His ability to focus on one thing at a time is one of his strengths. It just doesn’t always feel nice when that focus isn’t on you.

If he has to complete a project, that project is going to be the main priority. Once he’s done, though, he’ll go back to being focused on you.

This focus makes him less likely to cheat. When he’s focused on you, he’s not even going to notice anybody else.

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Goal-Oriented

Virgo has a plan for his life. He has goals and a vision for how he’s going to meet those goals.

His relationship isn’t any different. He has a vision for his future with you. He has plans. If you’re not already married, he likely plans to get married to you at some point. He might want to have a family someday.

You are part of his life and he plans on keeping it that way. Cheating ruins those plans.

He knows that even if you forgave him, your relationship would forever be different. You might be reluctant to marry him or start a family even if you stayed with him. He doesn’t want to ruin all his plans because he gave into temptation one time.

Practical

Virgo thinks before he acts. He weighs the pros and cons of every decision he makes. It’s rare for him to do something without carefully considering it beforehand.

He’s a reasonable person. It’s not common for him to fly off the handle. Even if he has the chance to cheat, he probably won’t take it.

If he fights with his partner, he’s not going to get back at them by cheating. No matter how upset he is, he’ll always try to stop and think before he does anything brash.

Virgo isn’t perfect, of course. He does have lapses in judgment from time to time. You can trust that he will do his best, though. He’s not the type to cheat on his partner multiple times or to seek out an affair.

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Reliable

A Virgo man in love is one of the most reliable partners you will ever have.

If he says he’ll do something for you, you can trust that he’ll do it. If you two make plans, he’s not going to cancel them on you last minute.

Virgo is somebody you can trust. When he says he’s committed to being with you and only you, he has every intention of sticking to that commitment.

If a Virgo man says he has to stay at work late or that he’s sleeping over at a friend’s house, trust what he says.

If you’ve been cheated on in the past, “excuses” like these can seem dishonest. This isn’t the case with Virgo. You can believe that he is where he says he is.

Reluctant to Change

Virgo’s resistance to any sort of change is a blessing and a curse.

If you want to move, it might not be easy to convince him to do so. If he’s established a routine, it will be difficult for him to develop a new one once he starts living with you.

This resistance to change can work in your favor when it comes to him remaining faithful, though.

He’s not going to want to mix things up suddenly. He won’t just wake up one day, decide he’s bored, and start using a dating app to find someone new.

Once Virgo is in a relationship and he’s comfortable, he wants to stay in that relationship. He knows that if he cheated, that would likely ruin the relationship or at least make things difficult for a while.

Sometimes, Virgo might even stay in a relationship longer than he should. As long as everything is still comfortable and manageable, he’ll stay with his partner.

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Follows Through

Virgo is somebody you can trust to finish what he started. He’s a good person to have on your team when doing projects because he will make sure all tasks are completed.

This makes him a great employee or coworker and it can also make him a more faithful partner.

He doesn’t like to stray from his plan. He doesn’t like to leave things unfinished. When he’s in a relationship, he intends to stay in that relationship long-term. “‘Til death do us part” is something he takes seriously.