10 Ways to Win Back a Scorpio Man After a Breakup

If you ignore a Scorpio man will he come back? In most cases, ignoring him at least at first, is the best step to take. But if you only ignore him, you could miss your chance.

When a Scorpio man wants you back, you’ll know it. He will show subtle hints that he’s trying to test the waters. Don’t ignore him when he does this.

You’ve got to respond in very subtle ways so as to not scare him away again. A Scorpio man always comes back when he feels like there is unfinished business and when he loves you.

1. Give Him Space

If you want to know how to get a Scorpio man back – tips to reclaim his heart can be easier said than done. One of the hardest things to do is to give him space. Resist the urge to chase a Scorpio man at first.

When a Scorpio man dumps you, your first instinct may be to try to convince him he’s made a huge mistake. But instead of pursuing him to convince him of this, let your absence make this message clear.

Give him space to miss you and he will come to the conclusion all on his own that he was better off with you than he is without you. When this happens, he’ll slowly start to come around.

Don’t be too eager to reunite at first. Still take things slowly. Give him plenty of time and space to himself after a breakup and your Scorpio man will naturally start to come around. Give yourself a no contact rule with a Scorpio man.

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2. Pretend You’ve Moved On

If you want to know how to make a Scorpio man miss you after a breakup, the best thing to do is pretend like you’re over him. The goal is not to move on with someone new and make him jealous, though.

This will scare him away. A Scorpio man doesn’t want to be reminded that he has competition. Yet if you act like you’re living your best life and not devastated by the breakup, it will encourage him to come forward.

He will assume he was missing something and will see that you are stronger, more solid and more mature than he gave you credit for. He will be more intrigued by you if you seem to be doing just fine.

This can also be an important time to reinvent yourself. Take advantage of all the downtime you have after a breakup and invest in your own interests. This will also attract him back to you.

3. Show Your Successes Online

How does a Scorpio man react when you ignore him? He will likely keep his cool and take advantage of the time apart. Then, he will start to gradually try to reunite with you.

But if you ignore him when he’s consistently trying to reconnect with you, he will get the wrong idea. Don’t go overboard with this strategy or else you will give him the impression that you are not interested.

Make a Scorpio man miss you by becoming busy with new things. Show hints about your success on social media or in indirect ways. Drop references to your promotion or other goals you are achieving.

Scorpio men are attracted to success and power. He’ll come back around when he sees that you are winning at the game of life. He will want to be part of your success.

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4. Text Him Minimally

Giving a Scorpio man the silent treatment can be more effective than you realize. Don’t be too available. When he does text you, respond after a pause.

Text him minimally. Just a few words. Don’t send him paragraphs filled with text about every aspect of your life since he’s been gone. Remember, Scorpio men are attracted to mystery.

If you need to practice minimalism, write out your intended text and then edit your message down to the bare essential words needed to get your point across. Don’t overload him with too much information.

The less you say, the more he will feel compelled to chase you. This will require him to put more effort into connecting with you. You can encourage him to step up to the plate by being a woman of few words.

5. Look Your Best

If you really want to make a striking impression on a Scorpio man after a breakup, give yourself a head to toe makeover. First and foremost, don’t do this for him, do it for you. Do it because it makes you happy and makes you feel your best.

If you’ve had a look or style in your mind, now is the time to adopt this new fashion. Change up your hair, makeup or wardrobe. Look so fabulous that he will instantly regret losing you.

Though Scorpio men aren’t superficial by nature, they are captivated by power, status and appearance. He won’t come back to you if you have an amazing look but aren’t trying to be your best personally and intellectually.

Yet the fact of the matter is, he will notice your appearance first. So while you create a dramatic new look that will get his attention, it is the first step in getting him to reconsider leaving you.

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6. Accidentally Bump into Him

When you’ve spent any amount of time with a Scorpio man, you know his preferences and priorities. You may even know his routines as he can be a creature of habit.

If you want to win his heart back, “accidentally” bump into him. Show up where he shops. Casually stroll past his gym. Strategically place yourself in places where you know he’ll be.

When you see him, play it cool and ignore him at first. Act like you are surprised to see him but don’t reveal too much. Don’t use this as a chance to plead for forgiveness. Instead, just make it a chance for him to get a glimpse of you and miss you.

7. Be Classy

Show your Scorpio man that you have class and hold yourself to a high standard. Resist the temptation to become a one night stand at all costs. Don’t fall for the allure of hooking up for just one night.

You can win a Scorpio man’s heart over by holding yourself to a high standard. If he hasn’t put you on a pedestal recently, put yourself on that pedestal and remind him that you deserve the best.

This will attract and encourage him to pursue you. A Scorpio man will want to be with you when he is reminded that you are classy and high status. He wants to see that you value yourself.

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8. Avoid Drama

Whatever you do, don’t get into drama with your Scorpio man. Don’t blow up his phone, confronting him about everything he’s done wrong. Don’t cause a scene at the mall when you see him.

The absolute last thing a Scorpio man will tolerate is being embarrassed in public. Don’t create drama for your Scorpio man. Instead, keep yourself grounded and don’t fall for the temptation of showing him up.

It may be gratifying on some level to have the last word or to put him in his place. But if you truly want him back, this will not work. He will never forgive and forget because he values his image and wants to protect his reputation.

9. Take Things Slow

When you see signs of progress with your Scorpio man, don’t celebrate too soon. Don’t become too eager. A Scorpio man needs to work for your attention. Don’t make it too easy for him.

Take things slow and he will feel like he is in control of the pace. He will be more confident that he won’t be pressured into making a serious commitment. Sometimes, being friends again is better than being back together right away.

Take things slow and make sure he’s showing up consistently now. Scorpio men can vacillate back and forth. He may dive in on a whim and regret it or second guess his decisions. Even if he starts to chase you passionately, keep yourself grounded.

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10. Be Sincere

One of the things a Scorpio man looks for after a breakup, if he’s going to even consider reuniting with you, is whether or not you are honest with him. Always be sincere. If you walk your talk, a Scorpio man will notice.

He may even test you or try to trip you up so he can prove to himself that it was best to break up with you. A Scorpio man will look to see that you are sincere and that he can trust you.

Though you may be tempted to tell his secrets, air his dirty laundry or play mind games with him, doing any one of these things will only backfire. This is a big mistake with a Scorpio man. It is best to always be forthright and honest with him.