How to Avoid Making a Taurus Man Break Up with You

When a Taurus man is done with you, it may be too late. Even a Taurus man who loves you can lock the door to his heart and throw away the key if he’s offended.

If you upset him, Taurus men have no problem shutting down and disappearing forever. Will a Taurus man come back after a breakup? It’s possible, but not worth taking a chance.

When a Taurus man misses you, he may come back around but this can take months or years. It’s far better to consider his pet peeves and avoid doing things that lead to a breakup.

Don’t Be Verbose

He may talk to you for hours while sipping wine, listening to romantic music and talking about every subject imaginable. But that’s when he’s relaxed and on a date. When you text him paragraph after paragraph while he’s at work, he won’t like it.

Don’t be too wordy with a Taurus man, especially in text. When he’s relaxed and his defenses are down he may be more communicative. Yet generally speaking, a Taurus man is the kind of guy who just wants to get to the point.

Show him that you respect his time by making communication brief and to the point. When a Taurus man has the time and inclination to chat for the sake of bonding, he’ll lead the way. But don’t assume this is going to be the case.

You may see lengthy phone calls, texts, or in person conversations as a sign of love and a form of emotional bonding. Yet this is not the case for a Taurus man. He will speak when he has some information to impart. Otherwise, he would rather focus on whatever work is on his agenda.

A Taurus man who is in love will still maintain his minimalist approach to communication. He will want to keep his focus on the things that make him feel productive. Talking for the sake of talking is not efficient. Neither is reading chunks of text when a few words would suffice.

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Be Practical

Why does a Taurus man keep coming back? He will want to try to resolve whatever conflicts come up in a relationship if he really cares about you. Yet he doesn’t know how to deal with emotional wounds.

Instead, a Taurus man needs a practical problem to solve. When you’re upset with him, don’t tell him your feelings are hurt or that you want to feel a different way. He won’t know what to do to help you.

Instead, tell him specifically what actions or behaviors you would like to see from him. Rather than telling him you miss him and feel lonely because he’s been working overtime, tell him you would love it if you could schedule a standing date night during the week and not just on the weekends.

This tangible action he can do something about. Your feelings, however, are a mystery to a Taurus man. He doesn’t understand how something so abstract like emotions can have any bearing on his mundane life. He certainly won’t understand how to intervene on your behalf when your feelings are hurt.

Instead, tell him what practical changes you would like to see and show him that you are also willing to take measures to make things work. Give him a chance to see that you are working on improving the relationship.

Avoid Drama

A Taurus man testing you may wait patiently, observing you carefully to see how you respond to drama. Yet if you want to keep your Taurus love interest happy for the long run, the last thing you want to do is get caught up in chaos.

Taurus men have no tolerance for drama. They prefer a rational and down to earth approach to problems. Though he has a jealous side, don’t let your own jealousy lead you to make a scene or make accusations.

Avoid confrontations with a Taurus man, especially in public. He’s conscious of his image and reputation. If you draw attention to yourself, or to him, in an unflattering way, he will be turned off.

Even if a Taurus man doesn’t make a big deal about it in the moment, he’ll store away the memory and consider it a strike against the relationship. A Taurus man needs to see that you are stable and level headed.

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Be Classy

Taurus ex-boyfriend behavior can teach you a lot about what went wrong in the relationship. Yet you don’t want to take the risk and wait until he’s your ex before you learn what not to do.

If you want to keep a Taurus man close and happy in a relationship, try to portray an image of classy confidence. Taurus men are drawn to women who know their value and aren’t afraid to be classy.

Taurus men are also attracted to women who appear wealthy, affluent and who appreciate life’s luxuries. It’s fine if you’re a bargain shopper, he is too. As long as you don’t look like you’ve cut corners with quality.

Be Sophisticated

Your tastes in art, fashion, music and culture should also be high class and sophisticated. Taurus men love it when their partner conveys an image of being cultured, intelligence and sophistication.

He sees your reputation as a reflection of his own and so will maintain the connection to you if you are an embodiment of wealth and status. If you dress for success and socialize in the most influential circles, he’ll remain interested.

Yet if you show lack of sensitivity to status and if you completely disregard the rules of social mobility, a Taurus man will second guess the relationship. He’ll start to think that he’s wasting his time with someone who could potentially harm the relationship.

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Be Independent

When a Taurus man disappears and comes back, it may be a sign he’s really in love with you but just feeling crowded in the relationship. Yet when you convey confidence and act with independence, you can keep the affection of a Taurus man.

On the other hand, if you are clingy or needy, a Taurus man will run from the relationship. He won’t tolerate a partner who is too demanding or who suffocates him physically or emotionally. He needs room to breathe in a relationship.

One of the fastest ways to get a Taurus man to break up with you is to be too intrusive. He is sensitive to people invading his space or consuming too much of his time.

Don’t Push Him

It stands to reason, then, that a Taurus man needs to go at his own pace. This is essential. If you want to keep a Taurus man in love with you, don’t push him. Encourage him, but know when to back off.

When you put any kind of pressure on a Taurus man, you’re potentially sabotaging the relationship. You’re setting the stage for him to either ghost you, or to find a reason to erupt in anger and then leave.

Be careful to gently encourage a Taurus man. If he’s not moving fast enough, it could be completely normal. Remember that Taurus as an earth sign is slow moving. You may see signs a Taurus man doesn’t like you anymore if you’ve been too dominant.

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Be Honest

When a Taurus man breaks up with you, it could be because he’s feeling too overwhelmed or the relationship has become too emotionally intense. Another common mistake is deceiving a Taurus man.

Even a slight distortion of the truth will be unforgivable. Taurus men insist on complete honesty and transparency. If you want to keep a Taurus man happy, you’ve got to be honest with him.

If you’re following a no contact rule with a Taurus man and he becomes suspicious, be clear about your intentions. Don’t play mind games with him, it will only backfire.

Don’t Make Him Jealous

If you want to make sure a Taurus man never breaks up with you, don’t give him any reason to become jealous. Be honest and open about your relationships with other guys. Don’t try to hide your male friends from him.

Make your boundaries clear and let your Taurus guy know you are trustworthy. When you try to make him open up sooner or commit faster, don’t rely on mind games that trigger his jealousy.

This tactic may work for other guys but it will not endear you to a Taurus man. If he becomes jealous of another guy, he will assume you are encouraging the third party relationship.

A Taurus man will become possessive in relationships. It is best to not take a chance on upsetting him by paying too much attention to other men. Never flirt with other guys or joke about attraction to other men.

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Don’t Be Clingy

Taurus men can be romantic and sentimental homebodies, so you may get the impression that he wants to be with you as much as possible. Even if this is true, he has a strong sense of obligation and will want to spend time working on plans and projects.

If you can’t let him go or if you continually check in on him when he’s at work or away because you don’t trust him, he’ll lose interest in you. Don’t be clingy with a Taurus man.

He won’t tolerate it for long if you try to mother him or if you try to micromanage his time. It’s best to occasionally give him space. Don’t hang on him. Let him be affectionate on his own terms.