10 Signs a Sagittarius Man is Serious About You

If you want to know when all your efforts to get a Sagittarius man to take you seriously have finally paid off, you’ve got to become observant. The signs he’s serious about you can be subtle.

A Sagittarius man who really cares about you will start to do things you would have expected him to do much earlier in the relationship. He’ll finally start to act like he likes you.

Don’t underestimate what seems like small signs of attraction. By the time a Sagittarius man shows his attraction to you, it’s a sign he’s really serious about you.

1. He Invests More Time

Many times, a woman will assume a Sagittarius man is not interested because he doesn’t invest enough time in the relationship. Just as she’s about to cut her losses and move on, he’ll suddenly start coming around. He most likely had a crush on her the whole time.

Yet a Sagittarius man only really invests more time with you when he’s serious about you. It’s as if he goes from being attracted to procrastinating and then suddenly showing interest in committing. Don’t take it for granted if he suddenly starts showing up more.

He will also linger in conversation for a longer time with you when he is serious about you. Rather than just getting a brief text, he’ll want to chat for hours, or call you or see you in person. He’ll want to stay out all night or spend the weekend with you.

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2. He Becomes Consistent

When a Sagittarius man says he loves you, you can always take him at his word. Sagittarius men are honest and don’t lie about love. But he won’t always say this directly at first. Before he says he loves you, he’ll show you by being more consistent.

This may seem like an obvious step for anyone in a relationship, but even a Sagittarius guy with a crush will still act like a free spirit, with little regard for commitments he made to you. When he’s serious about you, though, he’ll stick to his plans.

He’ll start following a schedule and will want to see you on a steady basis. He’ll show up on time rather than coming over late because he got distracted by other things. When a Sagittarius man is serious about you, he’ll show it by being dependable and reliable.

3. He Gives Up Some Freedom

One of the signs a Sagittarius man is in love with you is when he starts to give up some small aspects of his freedom. He doesn’t take compromise lightly. He will make adjustments to his lifestyle to let you into his routines, even at the cost of some of his autonomy.

This is not an easy step for freedom-loving Sagittarius to take. It may seem to you like he’s making small concessions to be with you, but the slightest change to his independence is a big step for a Sagittarius man.

He will give up some of his freedom in order to spend time with you and also to compromise and keep the peace in the relationship. This is normally something most people do early in a serious relationship, but it can take a Sagittarius man month or years to get to this step.

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4. He Asks Your Opinion

Knowing how to handle a Sagittarius man is all about understanding how important intellect and beliefs are to him. He’s an idealist who has a strong personality and is confident in his beliefs. When a Sagittarius man starts to consult you, it shows he’s serious about you.

He will seek your guidance and ask your opinion if he is really in love with you. In most situations, he is confident in his own beliefs and may come across as a know-it-all because he seldom seeks the guidance or advice of others.

But when he slows down and asks you what you think about a situation, he’s trying to make a deeper connection. His style of connection is more intellectual than emotional, but this is part of his nature. When he seeks your advice, it’s a sign he really cares about you.

5. He Plans to Move In

When a Sagittarius man is really serious about you, he’ll take a big leap of faith and decide it’s time to move in together. This is not an easy decision for him as he is usually protective of his privacy and independent space.

When a Sagittarius man in bed with you suddenly begins to talk about his fantasy of waking up next to you every morning, he’s showing you that he’s ready for this next milestone in the relationship. He is becoming more serious about the relationship.

Sagittarius men are not homebodies, but they do like to have their space. For a Sagittarius man to want to share his home with someone is not something to take for granted. It means he is serious about you and ready to give up the freedom and comfort of his bachelor lifestyle in order to share his space with you.

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6. He Talks Exclusivity

When a Sagittarius man starts to talk to you about defining the relationship and becoming exclusive, it’s a sign he is becoming serious about the relationship. This is something a Sagittarius man will avoid doing for as long as possible.

A Sagittarius man’s communication style is direct but not emotional. He may be in love with you, but he won’t talk about his feelings at any length. He’ll talk about his expectations and ideals for the relationship.

When he starts to talk about exclusivity, a Sagittarius man is taking important steps to show you that he is serious about you. A Sagittarius man is slow to show his feelings for you and this is part of his nature.

So when he finally starts to talk about wanting to be exclusive, a Sagittarius man is indicating that he’s deeply in love with you and ready to take the relationship seriously. This is an important and uncomfortable step for him to take.

7. He Defines the Relationship

Early in the relationship, a Sagittarius man will dodge the issues of status. He’ll avoid discussing when he’s going to change his relationship status on social media and he won’t want to narrow down a specific title for the relationship.

He won’t want to define things and may use obscure language like “dating” rather than committing to a role like “boyfriend.” When he starts to use more clearly definitive terms like “partner” or “couple” to describe his role in the relationship, you know he is serious about you.

When a Sagittarius man is ready to define the relationship, he will make it clear that this is about living up to his dreams and beliefs, not about limiting his freedom. He will want to maintain as much independence as possible.

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8. He Gives You a Ring

If you’re wondering how to get a Sagittarius man to chase you, act indifferent. The less you seem to be eager to get him to commit, the more likely he’ll be to commit. It just takes him a lot of time to come to this decision.

When a Sagittarius man is serious about you, he may outright propose. This may come as a shock because he spent so much of the relationship avoiding commitment and dodging talk of marriage.

When he’s ready to settle down, however, a Sagittarius man will pop the question and will give you a ring. Not all Sagittarius men are interested in marriage, but if he is, he’ll show you when the time is right. You’ve got to be patient and give him time to show his intentions.

9. He Introduces You to Family

If you want to know how to tell if a Sagittarius man loves you, he’ll bring you closer into his inner circle. He’ll introduce you to his family. This is a bold move on his part because he usually keeps his love life separate from his family life.

He doesn’t want to raise expectations or get his family involved in his personal life, he’s too independent for this. But when he’s serious about you, he’ll have no problem inviting you to meet with his parents, siblings and other family members.

When a Sagittarius man chooses you, you have every right to feel special. A Sagittarius man is highly selective about his relationships. He will not bring you into his personal space unless he is seriously committed to you.

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10. He Spends Holidays with You

A Sagittarius man in relationships still maintains plenty of freedom and space. When he invites you to spend holidays, birthdays or special occasions with him, this is a big step for a Sagittarius man. It shows he is serious about you.

You may expect him to want to spend romantic holidays with you by default as this is normal in a lot of relationships. But for a Sagittarius man, this is not a given. He will only change his holiday plans to spend these special moments with you when he’s serious about you.

When a Sagittarius man is serious about you, he will want you to be a part of his family’s traditions. If he breaks from conventions, he may choose to travel during holidays and will invite you to be his travel partner.