Will a Sagittarius Man Apologize After Upsetting You?

How do Sagittarius men apologize? A Sagittarius man who is sorry for hurting your feelings will issue an apology that is short, sweet and to the point. Don’t expect him to get emotional.

Sagittarius is proud and independent. He won’t beat himself up for making you feel bad. Instead, he’ll address the issue and try to make amends. He won’t belabor the point, though.

When a Sagittarius man is mad at you, you’ll know it. If you want to know how to make up with a Sagittarius man, you need to be candid and not emotional.

He’ll Rationalize

If you want to apologize like a Sagittarius, the first thing to do is to set aside emotions and focus only on rational data. Sagittarius men will rationalize their flaws and faults. He’ll try to analyze the situation and it may seem like he’s avoiding taking responsibility.

This is not the case, however. They are simply inclined to rationalize rather than to delve deep into their emotions in order to handle a problem. If a Sagittarius man keeps coming back, he cares about you. He may seem like he’s being indifferent, but his rational style is part of his personality.

Will a Sagittarius man come back after a breakup? He will only come back if he believes there is a rational way to work through a conflict.

Sagittarius men don’t like drama. They try to avoid conflicts, but they will go the extra mile so that conflicts can be resolved by analyzing, rationalizing and trying to talk things out.

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He’ll Avoid Responsibility

Sagittarius men will avoid responsibility when they are apologizing. Rather than giving a concrete and specific apology for their specific behavior or for hurting you, Sagittarius men will point to sociological factors that led them to make a mistake.

As they tend to analyze from a bird’s eye view, Sagittarius men may seem to avoid personal responsibility.

They are highly attuned to the social, political, cultural and other systemic roots of their behavior. Because they have a large scale systemic perspective, it may seem as if they skate past apologizing directly.

This isn’t his intention, but he does believe in conducting a sociological meta-analysis of why he hurt your feelings. This is his way of apologizing, so try to take it at face value. His intention is to resolve the conflict and clear the air, not to avoid accountability.

When a Sagittarius man actually does take responsibility, he’ll do the bare minimum required in order to acknowledge he did something wrong and did not intend to hurt your feelings. You can count on him to correct his behavior, unless doing so infringes on his independence or autonomy in any way.

He’ll Get Philosophical

If you want to know how to make a Sagittarius man obsessed with you, the best thing you can do is wax philosophical. Even when he apologizes, a Sagittarius man will take a philosophical approach. He will try to frame his apology in lofty terms or even to turn the conflict into a spiritual lesson.

A Sagittarius man may actually quote philosophers as he apologizes to you. He may speak in vague terms and try to look at both sides of the situation, tiptoeing around whether a situation was right or wrong in the first place. Though he can be assertive and honest, he can also obscure an issue when he wants to.

Sagittarius men are philosophers and they will want to discuss the broader implications of why you were upset. They may even take on a spiritual guru personality and try to mentor or coach you through the conflict.

Sagittarius men who do apologize directly will expect to brush aside deeper feelings and may talk about the important “lessons” you both learned from the conflict. He’s always optimistic and isn’t going to want to discuss the impact of the damage done by his words or actions.

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He’ll Avoid Emotions

A Sagittarius man will avoid emotions when he’s apologizing. If you want him to hold space for your feelings or to really hear you out as you explain how much his actions or words hurt you, you may be disappointed. A Sagittarius man will give an apology but won’t want to discuss emotional details.

This can be frustrating as you may have the sense he isn’t really apologizing but is just placating you. A Sagittarius man won’t apologize at all if he is not sincerely sorry. There is no reason to worry that he’s faking an apology just to make peace.

Yet he won’t delve into deeply emotional conversations. He won’t process emotions with you because he is not in touch with his own emotions. A Sagittarius man will apologize but emotionally will keep his focus on the surface level. This may seem shallow but it is sincere on his part.

He’ll Gaslight You

If you’re wondering how to make a Sagittarius man regret losing you, you have to remain independent, confident and true to yourself. A Sagittarius man will usually own up to his mistakes and apologize so you can move on and work on your relationship.

But because he is always optimistic, a Sagittarius man may gloss over your hurt feelings and appear like he’s being dismissive of the pain he caused you. In some cases, his level of spiritual bypassing can even go so far as to become gaslighting.

Sagittarius men like to be grandiose and exaggerate most things. Yet one thing he won’t magnify is his own guilt or responsibility for hurting you or for making a mistake. If a Sagittarius man gaslights you, he will try to downplay or underestimate the impact of the damage his actions have caused.

He may try to cheer you up by minimizing your grievance or concern. He’ll use his influential nature to suggest that you didn’t really see what you saw or hear what you heard.

He’ll try to convince you not to trust your instincts, for example. He may also try to smooth over conflict by trying to convince you it wasn’t that bad.

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He’ll Apologize Briefly

If you’re wondering how to make a Sagittarius man chase you, the best thing to do is to try to be optimistic and positive.

If he says or does something that upsets you, set boundaries accordingly but do try to pick your battles. If everything is a conflict, a Sagittarius man will lose interest in you and give up on the relationship.

When a Sagittarius man makes a mistake or says something that offends you, he will usually be quick to respond and apologize once he knows for certain that he did something that hurt your feelings.

His goal is to uplift others, not to push others down. A Sagittarius man will apologize, but he’ll keep it short and then move on.

If you’re wondering how to get a Sagittarius man to fall in love with you, the best thing you can do is demonstrate that you don’t fret over little things. If you are able to keep a mostly positive perspective, you’ll be better able to encourage a Sagittarius man to chase you.

One of the things you’ll need to accept at face value is that a Sagittarius man will always be quick to try to resolve conflict.

But this also means he’ll try to work through a conflict quickly. You may find it unsatisfying to see him try to rush through an apology. Just because he is not taking his time to give a lengthy apology doesn’t mean he is isn’t sincere about his apology.

He’ll Act Aloof

A Sagittarius man will act distant when he apologizes. This is not because he is uncaring, but rather because he is likely to feel vulnerable.

When he’s facing a challenge a Sagittarius man will naturally become more intellectual and philosophical and less emotionally attached. He’ll act aloof when he’s trying to avoid being hurt or feeling guilt or shame.

He’ll still apologize, but he will do so as a matter of principle. Sagittarius men are highly driven by morality and integrity. So he will apologize as a matter of living up to his ideals. Yet he won’t pour his heart into an apology because he is usually trying to minimize his feelings.

Sagittarius men will seem uncaring, distant or cold when apologizing but it is important to take him at his word and recognize the extent he’s going to in order to make peace with you.

If you confront him about his lack of emotional apology or the apparent lack of heartfelt sincerity, you’ll only push him away.

He doesn’t believe an apology needs to be emotional or that he needs to create a personal apology. In his mind, apologizing is intellectual and rational. He won’t go out of his way to make you feel better but he will acknowledge that he was wrong and will apologize.