10 Tips to Make a Virgo Man Obsessed with You

A Virgo man, when he likes a woman, will keep a low profile. He never lets his passions supersede his rationality. No matter how much he cares.

He’ll still act neutral and even a bit indifferent. When you see signs a Virgo man is falling for you, you may expect him to fall head over heels. This doesn’t usually happen.

A Virgo man in love may be obsessed with you, but he will internally obsess. He doesn’t always show it by being dramatic or by chasing you. You have to be patient with him.

1. Show Him You’re as Smart as He Is

If you’re wondering why does a Virgo man ignore you, the reality is he may just be busy. He could be overanalyzing his feelings. He could also be unimpressed by conversations, but trying to be polite. He needs intelligent conversation.

If he doesn’t feel like you’re his intellectual peer, he’ll lose interest. On the other hand, if a Virgo man is wowed by your intelligence and wit, he’ll be intrigued by you. He won’t be able to get you out of his mind.

You’ve really got to be on top of your game to dazzle a Virgo man with your personality and intelligence. Dressing for success is less important than appealing to his intellect.

When a Virgo man is attracted to you, you have the chance to impress him with your intelligence. He’s already drawn to you. The next step is to keep his attention by appealing to his intellect.

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2. Appreciate His Help

A Virgo man perseverates on both his interests and his fears. He can be more obsessed with what is going wrong in his life than what is going right. This means you’ve got to know how to balance his cynical nature with positivity.

The way to counter this is to be more nurturing and optimistic than he is, but not so much so that your rose-colored-glasses seem unrealistic to him. Another way to balance this is to show gratitude.

The more you appreciate what he does for you and his effort to make your life better, the better. He will be thrilled that you notice all the details he tries to take care of on your behalf.

When you wonder will a Virgo man test you, know that the answer is he will not. He values direct, straightforward and clear communication. He is slow moving and cautious. He doesn’t want to convey just how obsessed he really is.

3. Always Keep Your Word

The more a Virgo man sees you as a rare treasure, the more he will become obsessed with you. Your uniqueness will make him value you more. He doesn’t look for uniqueness in terms of extreme individualism.

Rather, he is influenced by seeing that you are unique in your ability to stand out from other women who may play games or not share his high standards. He’s taken his time to choose a partner.

The more you can prove through your actions that you have integrity, honesty and compassion while also being a bit of a perfectionist, the more he will be obsessed with you.

An obvious way to do this is to be sure you always keep your word. A Virgo man, more than any man, is honest and also consistent. He’s a bit of a control freak as well.

One of the ways he tries to assert control is to make life seem predictable. When he knows he can count on you, he will become more comfortable with you. He’s naturally a bit anxious so this level of comfort is a big step for him.

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4. Don’t Be a Drama Queen

If things didn’t work out in the past, but he starts to come around again, it may be a sign that a Virgo man wants you back. This usually happens when you meet most of his criteria.

As a perfectionist, he’s always evaluating you. You may meet nine out of ten of his top criteria, but that one issue is something he gets stuck on. This is often the case if he thinks you’re too dramatic.

One way to make a Virgo man obsessed with you, and convince him you’re the One, is to keep your emotions minimal. He doesn’t like to be overpowered by strong emotions.

He also doesn’t like to have unwanted attention drawn to him. If you embarrass him in public it can be a deal breaker. Yet if he still clearly loves you, you can help him forget past transgressions and become obsessed with you.

You just have to counterbalance past problems, including being too dramatic or chaotic in the past, by proving that you’ve learned and made improvements. He would rather see that you are teachable and able to improve yourself and your life.

5. Give Him Something to Learn

In addition to seeing that you are teachable, you need to give him some things to learn from you. Part of his obsession with you will be a desire to know what you know. The more you impress him with your detailed knowledge of specific subjects, the better.

This is especially true when it comes to practical knowledge. When you have a skill like gardening or cooking, he will want to learn your techniques and secrets. This is something that turns him on because of his intellectual attraction to you.

Use this to your advantage by being a wealth of knowledge. The more eclectic you are, the more you can impress him. The more details you know about a subject, the more he will keep coming back to learn from you.

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6. Appeal to His Intellectual Interests

Why does a Virgo man withdraw? Often, it’s because he doesn’t feel intellectually invigorated by the relationship. He needs to feel inspired and challenged to learn new things. He doesn’t like confrontation but he does like to advance intellectually.

Though his interests can seem dry or boring to some women, he will become obsessed with a woman who can hold his attention and match his intelligence. Even more than sexuality, a Virgo man is attracted to your intelligence.

He needs to feel like he can have a friendly debate, engage in intellectual discussions and talk about politics, economics, business, health and a number of other serious topics.

7. Have Great Conversations

When you want to make him obsessed with you, you need to know how to make a Virgo man miss you. This isn’t easy. It takes a lot of patience to get a Virgo man to notice your absence.

One of the ideal ways to get a Virgo man to be obsessed with you is to be a captivating conversationalist. He will want to talk about a topic right down to the details. He will be thrilled to talk about technicalities of his favorite interests.

While his style can be dry, he’ll look to you to provide the humor and excitement. Don’t sacrifice substance in order to get his attention though. Virgo men don’t like small talk.

He will also be turned off by discussions about immature topics or gossip about others. Instead focus on topics related to practical things, solving problems or analyzing issues.

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8. Learn DIY Skills

The more you invest in some handy DIY skills, the more it will pay off. You’ll be able to make food from scratch, tend a garden, use alternative remedies or fix a car. You’ll also be able to get the unadulterated attention of a Virgo man.

He’ll become obsessed with you. He’ll love to see how self-sufficient you are but also that he can learn things from you. He’ll also be fascinated by your numerous skills and ability to be innovative and resourceful.

If you show an interest in learning handy and practical skills from him, a Virgo man will also be impressed. He’ll become obsessed with you because you are showing him a level of attention he’s not accustomed to.

9. Be Health Conscious

Virgo men are health conscious which is to say also a bit germophobic. Don’t be surprised if he frequently washes his hands or changes his clothing.

He doesn’t expect you to be as zealous as he is about sanitation and cleanliness, but he will be impressed if you come close to his level. The more you eat healthy and keep yourself in good shape, the more he’ll be obsessed.

He’ll view your health consciousness as a good sign that you are his perfect match. He will also be impressed if you show him that you are aware of aspects of healthy lifestyle and diet that are not conventionally known.

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10. Strive for Perfection

On that note, the more you can show that you have a perfectionist streak, the more excited he will be. A Virgo man is a perfectionist. He needs to see that you have equally high standards.

Always strive for perfection. Even if you fall short of your high standards, you’ll stand out to a Virgo man. He’ll recognize your efforts. He will also be impressed if you are meticulous.

Be consistent and maintain a tidy appearance for yourself, your home and car. He needs to feel like you are as interested in stability and security as he is.