How Do You Win an Aries Man’s Heart?

Aries men are known for being charming, fun, outgoing, and friendly. They take life, and they live it, with the world at their feet.

So what about love? Well, there are plenty of possible love interests around for the all-action Aries guy to choose from. However, few will truly win his heart.

That takes a special kind of woman. Someone who can deal with an Aries complicated personality and his sometimes conflicting list of ‘wants.’ Could that person be you?

Be Adventurous

Aries men love challenges. Nothing freaks them out more than endless struggles, like the same old things happening every day.

Aries men struggle to embrace routine because, at heart, they’re the wild ram. They need to feel free to roam on their own terms.

That’s the Aries ideal life, but of course, there must be some structure, or society would collapse. That’s where an Aries man looks to adventures to fill the gaps. He’ll always be up for a new activity, whether it’s physical or intellectual.

Few Aries men crave cozy movie nights at home with a lover every weekend. Why would he when there are mountains to climb, oceans to swim in, and forests to camp in? Book an escape room or learn a new skill together.

So, please make an effort to learn about his hobbies and interests. You don’t always have to accompany him, but joining in sometimes is a great way to win an Aries man’s respect and his heart.

Who knows, you might love ziplining or riding roller coasters more than you ever imagined.

At the end of the day, it’s your willingness to have a go at new things that will win him over. That means he’ll be just as impressed if you are off having your own adventures.

Doing anything that swerves too much routine, pushes past your comfort zone, or battles boredom is a winner. Why not make a list of things you’d like to do or try?

Aim for a balance between the cozy couple things you enjoy and fun things that challenge your comfort zone. As a couple, you can be adventurous independently too, and it will still boost your connection.

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Be Brainy

Book smart, street smart; however you use your brain, it’s a positive. If anyone asked what an Aries man looks for in a woman, there’s your answer – intelligence.

Falling for someone who’s brainy is pretty easy for an Aries guy. Being clever is a trait he admires, and he’ll be very proud of his partner is clever.

Just don’t be that person who makes others feel stupid if they aren’t in your league. That’s always ugly behavior, especially to Aries folk who love to champion the underdog.

Aries men like to be around sharp people because they want to flex their intellectual muscles.

The opportunity to enjoy deep discussions with you on contemporary topics and human psychology is a real thrill-what a great way to catch his eye and win his heart.

Witty Chat

While Aries men have their sensible, deep thinking side, they also love lots of flirty, witty chat. Flattery, teasing, sexual innuendo, that’s what an Aries man wants to hear during a casual conversation with someone he’s interested in.

Wittiness is undoubtedly a valuable skill, and getting it wrong can turn into something mean or cruel. If you want to win your Aries man over, show him how well you can read the room, and make relevant, clever commentary.

Those zodiac rams may be restless, flighty, and easily bored, but they are always open to finding true love. Knowing how to make an Aries man laugh is like getting a Willy Wonka Golden Ticket.

Remember just to be yourself. You may not always have the same opinions, but that’s fine. Some friendly verbal sparring can spice things up quite nicely.

Witty comebacks as you banter is possibly the best ever way to drive him crazy. The more you intrigue him, the more he’ll see you are a great match. From there, it’s pretty easy to win over his heart.

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Be Mysterious

Aries men don’t want to see a movie twice or read a book a second time, unless they’ve forgotten how it ends. Where’s the fun in that? The fact is Aries guys like a bit of a mystery.

Once you pop up on his radar, don’t be too quick to over-share. A sprinkling of mystery, a touch of intrigue, these are the things that hold an Aries interest. Even if that’s not your natural behavior, it’s worth doing your best.

After all, if you want to win his heart, you must learn how to beat an Aries man at his own game. Once he’s won you over, this air of mystery isn’t so important, but until then, it’s a helpful tool.

Remember the breadcrumbs Hansel & Gretel dropped in the woods to mark a trail home? You do the same with him, with a suitable space between each nugget of encouragement or intriguing information drop.

Ooze Confidence

Confidence is one of those fantastic things that grows with use, so cultivate it. It’s a great tool to help win an Aries man’s heart, so long as it is genuine. So what makes this such a helpful character trait?

Well, we already know that Aries men are strong-willed, easily bored, and high achievers. They respect women who know their worth and have the confidence to go for what they want.

In an Aries man’s way of thinking, if you don’t believe in yourself, why should he?

Sure he likes the flirty intrigue, the flashes of vulnerability, and the opportunity to care, but he wants an equal partner. Aries men view confidence as sexy, whether it’s loud and obvious or quietly assertive.

Confident women make great love matches for Aries men. When you have direction, self-belief, and drive, he’ll be more than happy to hand over his heart.

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Take Risks

Safety seekers, that’s one term you’d never use to describe an Aries man. Of course, that makes sense considering the dual influence of passionate, fiery Mars and those typical fire sign traits that make him competitive and impulsive.

If you never take the slightest risk, then Aries men may not even notice you, never mind fall in love! We’re not talking about risks like driving too fast or eating the hottest curry on the menu.

You don’t even need to try bungee jumping and extreme sports – unless they genuinely appeal. Just keep an open mind.

It’s OK to have favorite things to eat, see, do, and wear, but being inflexible suggests you are major league uptight and boring.

If you want to make an Aries man happy, be that person he can have fun and adventures with. This approach is one of the best ways to win his heart.

Show Vulnerability

Most Aries men come over as macho guys with a strong and independent will. That’s especially the case when you don’t know them very well. Yet underneath all that, Aries guys have a romantic, caring, and sensitive streak.

These two aspects of an Aries man morph to produce a man who can easily tap into your vulnerable side. He’s programmed to help, support, or perhaps in his mind, to rescue a woman he cares for.

That might sound a bit old school, but it’s not about Aries men being dominant or manipulative. They just want to make sure you are happy and safe.

Winning an Aries man’s heart means revealing your vulnerable side, so get comfortable with doing that.

Allowing him to see the real you is actually a great way to compliment an Aries man. After all, what better way is there to show how much you trust him than that?

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Flirt

If you want to make an Aries man miss you, he has actually got to notice when you’re not around. Can you do it? That’s where being a great flirt comes into play.

Flirting is a skill all women need to manipulate an Aries man, so get practicing. It will definitely be worth it.

The trick is to focus all your flirty energy on him, grabbing his interest and then maintaining it.

Don’t get flirty with his friends though, as Aries men have a well-hidden insecure streak. If he feels like he’s just one of many, then it’s all over.

If you are not confident about flirting through words, you can always try some basic body language communication!

Things like eye contact, gentle contact – maybe brushing a hair from his shoulder, or touching his hand briefly when chatting – these can work fine too.

Ultimately, with Aries’ ruling planet being the energy-driven Mars, the point is to create passion and tension. That’s the easiest and best way to secure your prize.