10 Signs a Scorpio Man is Ready to Commit

Every zodiac sign has different needs and desires in a relationship, so there are different cues to look for when each sign is prepared to commit.

Whether you are hoping for an engagement ring or to make the relationship exclusive, there are signals that will tell you when your Scorpio man is ready.

The more you know about his sign’s personality traits and how he acts in love, the better you will be able to recognize the signs that your Scorpio man wants to commit to you.

1. He Talks About the Future

If you are wondering how to tell if a Scorpio man really loves you, pay attention to whether or not he talks about a future with you.

A Scorpio man in love won’t hesitate to talk about building a life together or starting a family with the woman he adores.

There is no specific amount of time a Scorpio man will wait to discuss the future with his loved one.

Scorpios are highly intuitive, so even on your first date with a Scorpio man, he already knows by the end of the night whether or not the relationship will last.

On the other hand, if your Scorpio man never talks about having a future with you or refuses to make plans even for another date, it could be one of the signs a Scorpio man is playing you.

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2. He Shares His Secrets with You

What a Scorpio man wants in a relationship is someone he can confide in without fear of judgment.

Scorpios are very dark and intense, so it takes a special person to understand the inner workings of his mind without running away.

Scorpios are notoriously secretive and sneaky, but one of the reasons they are so mysterious is because they don’t want to get hurt.

A Scorpio man guards his secrets closely and won’t open up to just anybody. If he tells you something personal or asks you to keep a secret for him, it’s a huge sign of his trust.

3. He Trusts You

Scorpios like to keep most people at arm’s length, only allowing a select few into their hearts. They don’t trust easily and it takes them a long time to warm up to most people.

Scorpios are also quite controlling and believe that if they want something done right, they have to do it themselves. Otherwise, they will micromanage the person who is doing it.

A sign of his trust is not only when he reveals secrets to you but also when he has faith in you to complete tasks to his satisfaction.

When he is falling for you, he won’t watch your every move and tell you what to do as much as he does with everyone else.

A Scorpio man’s trust is hard to win, so once you have it, it’s a good sign that he is close to committing to you.

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4. He Stops Dating Other Women

If you want to know how to make a Scorpio man chase you, you’ve got to show him that you are ready to commit.

Don’t try to make him jealous by rubbing in his face how many other guys you are dating. Instead, tell him that you’re crazy about him and that you’ve stopped seeing anyone else.

Let him know that you want to make your relationship exclusive, and you will be much closer to getting a commitment from him.

A Scorpio man doesn’t like to be single and often dates several women at once. This isn’t so much because he’s a player, but because he wants the best chance possible of finding the right woman for him.

As soon as he can tell he’s with the right person, he will forsake all others for her.

When a Scorpio man wants you, he wants you all to himself. If he stops dating other women and only has eyes for you, it’s a sure sign that he is going to commit.

5. He Compliments Your Sex Life

If you want to know how to make a Scorpio man obsessed with you, you’ve got to be able to keep up with his sex drive.

Scorpios are perhaps the most sexual sign of the entire zodiac and they have high libidos. A Scorpio man cannot be satisfied in a relationship unless he is having frequent, freaky sex.

If you impress him in bed and can match his passion and intensity, your Scorpio man will see how compatible you are and want to commit.

When he compliments your sexual prowess or tells you that your sex life together is crazy, it means that he is falling for you and is close to committing.

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6. He Tells You He Admires You

One of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you is when he tells you he is envious of some of your characteristics.

Scorpios have big egos and don’t admire that many people, so telling you that he’s jealous of you is a huge compliment.

A Scorpio man likes to date a woman who can balance him out and teach him new skills. For example, Scorpio men tend to be impatient, so he admires a patient and steady woman.

A Scorpio guy would love to commit to a woman he looks up to. If you have the qualities that he lacks and desires, he will want to keep you around to help make him a better person.

7. He Spends All of His Time with You

One of the clearest signs a Scorpio man likes you and is ready to commit is when he spends all of his free time with you.

Scorpios don’t mind being alone and would rather be by themselves than spend time with anyone they don’t genuinely like.

Scorpios also don’t need a lot of friends and acquaintances. They are happier with a romantic partner or a small, tightly-knit group of friends.

When a Scorpio man likes being around you more than being by himself or with his friends, it means he wants to make a commitment soon.

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8. He Tests You

Because they are so cautious and guarded, a Scorpio man won’t rush into committing to a partner.

Before he takes the plunge and commits to a woman, he will put her through a series of tests to make absolutely certain that she is the one.

If you are dating a Scorpio guy and feel like he is evaluating you, it’s because he probably is. But this is no reason for concern; in fact, it’s a good sign.

When he asks you questions or puts you in situations to see how you will respond, it means he is checking to make sure you can pass all of his tests.

For example, your Scorpio man might quiz you on what you remember about him, or carefully watch how you react when he says something he knows will upset you.

When it feels like your Scorpio man is grading your performance, it’s a signal that he is close to committing.

9. He Remembers Everything About You

Scorpios have excellent memories, but they don’t listen closely enough to everyone to remember what they say.

When a Scorpio man loves and respects a woman, he listens attentively to her and hangs on to her every word.

If she mentions her favorite color once, he will never forget it. When she points out that she likes something in a store window, he will take note of it and go back to get it later to surprise her.

When your Scorpio man remembers everything about you, even the tiniest details, it’s a clear sign that he is falling hard for you and will commit very soon.

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10. He Is Possessive and Protective

Although it’s true that a Scorpio man trusts the woman he loves implicitly, he also wants to protect her.

It’s in his nature to be controlling, so although he tries to control his partner less than most other people in his life, he will still do what he can to protect her.

He sees it as his duty to keep his loved ones safe, and his natural intensity in everything he does means that he may go too far in his efforts to safeguard them.

His attempts at chivalry may come off as being bossy or possessive, but he truly has the best intentions.

For example, a Scorpio man in love may insist on driving his date home when she wants to walk because he wants to make sure she gets there safely.

He might urge you to carry an umbrella in your purse when he thinks it’s going to rain because he can’t stand the thought of you being stuck outside getting wet.

When he tries to control you, don’t take it as a bad sign. He is just trying to protect you and it’s one of the signs that your Scorpio man is secretly in love with you.