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A Sagittarius man is complicated and full of contradictions. To catch his attention, you first need to understand him.
The Sagittarius man is a philosopher who preaches and practices freedom. Your best chance to make a Sagittarius man commit to you? Be Sagittarian yourself.
You are probably charmed by his desire to both have and be fun. He loves to be social and enthrall others with his optimism and enthusiasm.
As you get to know him, you’ll find that this easygoing philosopher is full of fire – his passion for freedom is only matched by his insatiable desire for new experiences. Anything less than stimulating – he abandons.
An unquenchable desire for freedom is the core of all Sagittarius man traits. It can make him unable to commit to any relationship, but he is always ready to embark on a new adventure.
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He Values Freedom & Devotion
How to understand a Sagittarius man? First, you need to remember that his freedom matters above all else. A Sagittarius man will spend his life creating experiences and adventures for himself.
Many Sagittarius men choose careers where they travel. The same way an arrow is meant to fly through the air, a Sagittarius is meant to travel.
A Sagittarius man is at his most happy when he embodies the role of the lively travel companion. He is always ready to jump into the next adventure, and at the very least, he needs you to respect that.
While his desire for freedom and experiences may be an indicator of a generally non-committal attitude towards relationships, many Sagittarians are exceptionally devoted partners.
His explorations have already taught him what he likes and doesn’t. Involve yourself in his adventures! That’s how you make a Sagittarius man obsessed with you.
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He’s Friendly & Solitary
He can win people over with his bright and easygoing nature. The Sagittarius man personality allows him to make friends with just about anyone and he can talk his way out of any situation.
Socially, Sagittarius enjoys playing the role of the philosopher. His idealistic ramblings often place him in the center of attention, and (like any fire sign) he thoroughly enjoys it.
Over time, however, this role can cause the Sagittarius man to feel that he’s alone in the world.
He takes pride in developing his philosophies and ideals, but in doing so, he can conclude that he is more “enlightened” than everyone else. In turn, being always misunderstood can make him bitter.
He’s Independent & Needs Your Support
The Sagittarius man is often the “black sheep” in his family. His adult ideals & philosophies hinge on personal freedom as a result of the challenging dynamic between his values and his caregivers’.
He either had an intense rebellious phase, or he’s continuously in it. It is common for a Sagittarius man to have some sort of disconnect from his immediate family.
This can make it hard for him to give himself completely in romantic relationships – he’s learned that he can’t be fully hurt if he’s not fully invested.
As if to recompense his struggles, the Sagittarius man is so lucky.
And while his deep desire for freedom can only be fulfilled by a commitment to independence, the Sagittarius man is still a social creature. He thrives in social situations and loves to be the life of the party.
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He’s Fun & Fiery
Why are Sagittarius so charming? Both men & women enjoy his sunny, easygoing demeanor. His eyes sparkle when he laughs, and he’ll find any excuse to do so. Joking and teasing is his favorite way of connecting with others.
How do Sagittarius men show affection? By working physical contact into his teasing. (Think arm swatting and hip checking.)
At the same time, the Sagittarius man can be very quick to anger. He is deeply attached to his ideals, so he has no hesitation snapping at anyone who does not meet his standards.
Don’t be afraid of Sagittarius temper tantrums – his flames burn out as quickly as they come. He is quick to forgive – as long as your transgression wasn’t truly severe.
He’s a Teacher with Lessons to Learn
The Sagittarius constellation is a centaur, alluding to the Greek myth of Chiron – the wounded teacher. In Greek mythology, centaurs are generally brutish, wild, & violent; but Chiron is the teacher of many heroes.
He imparts his wisdom on a wide collection of heroes: Heracles, Achilles, and Jason (of the Argonauts) all benefited from Chiron’s wisdom and knowledge.
Like Chiron, a Sagittarius man finds fulfillment in growing and sharing his wisdom. He is naturally inclined to pursue personal growth and spiritual expansion, and in doing so, inspires others to do the same.
As the Sagittarius man accumulates active time being a spiritual teacher, he becomes prone to being prideful. In these instances, any lessons you wish to impart need to be presented with the utmost respect.
Acknowledge that he has much to teach, but gently remind him that a true master is also an eternal student. (Luckily, he is naturally curious, and if he respects you, he will be happy to learn from you.)
He’s Both Mature & Innocent
A Sagittarius spends his life pursuing personal freedom and creating a life to support it. He accumulates both (eccentric) theoretical knowledge and fantastical physical experiences. As he matures, he embodies learned confidence – and he earns it.
Sagittarius’ passionate pursuit of spiritual expansion forces him to face the reality of mortality earlier than most.
He intuitively recognizes the finite nature of this human life and consciously develops his belief system to come to terms with the guarantee of death.
In his adult years, the Sagittarius man accepts his mortality and reacts by finding the extraordinary joie de vivre that you find so attractive. Since this life is ultimately meaningless, you might as well enjoy it!
He’s Genuine & Sarcastic
The Sagittarius prides himself on his clever directness and despises being lied to. At the same time, he speaks fluent sarcasm and will deliberately say things that he finds ridiculous – just to see your reaction.
So if you’re asking yourself, Is this Sagittarius man testing me? He probably is.
His humor can be mean-spirited, but a Sagittarius knows that the human experience is temporary and so doesn’t attribute too much importance to the impermanent.
It is a profound challenge to keep the attention of a Sagittarius man (and you’ll never keep him focused on one thing indefinitely), but the joy he brings and the passion he embodies are well worth it.
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He’s Optimistic & Realistic
The Sagittarius man aspires to be a playful philosopher. His optimistic ideals hinge on the rational certainty of death and his emotional attachment to personal freedom.
He believes in growth and expansion, but he is also aware that many other human beings do not share his values.
His optimism is undoubtedly attractive – he can find the fun in the smallest things – but beneath his outward optimism and humorous presentation, he is all-too-aware of the reality of the world.
This can cause him to endlessly want to escape reality, creating the Sagittarian predisposition for addiction.
As you get to know him, the Sagittarius will reveal his more controversial beliefs. You know you’ve earned his trust when he discusses his favorite conspiracy theories with you like the truths that (he believes) they are.
He’s Always Ready to Be Stimulated
While the Sagittarius man gives the impression that he is peacefully enlightened, the truth is that he is always looking to be stimulated.
If he does not find his environment stimulating, he will create it – even if that means starting a fight. If he enjoys getting a rise out of you, you can be sure he’s interested in you.
Sagittarians are often adrenaline junkies, always seeking new exciting experiences. Throughout his life, the Sagittarius man desires to experience every dimension of reality.
He also likely enjoys stimulants like coffee and tobacco. If you deprive a Sagittarius of stimulation, he will either lash out or run off to his next adventure.
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He Loves Adventure, but Longs to Settle Down
The Sagittarius man has had a wide variety of experiences and will continue to seek out new ones. He loves to explore and talk to all kinds of people in all kinds of places, adding to his ever-expanding repertoire of experiences.
As he grows and expands his experience, the Sagittarius man feels increasingly more isolated from the people around him. Throughout his life, this triggers the wounds that his family inflicted on him.
His family likely had rigid expectations of him, so he tends to resist routine. Conceptually, however, he recognizes the value of stability and consistency. Even if he has trouble practicing it in his day-to-day life.
The Sagittarius man will never release the need for personal freedom and the desire for exploration, and deep inside, he knows that he needs other people.
To be a traveling philosopher, he needs to be able to impart his wisdom to others. But his greatest satisfaction? Sharing the experience with a trustworthy and equally adventurous partner.
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